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a 90’s kid? don’t you mean sad adult?

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Hi! I quit my job and I’m completely poor so I’m opening commissions for the time being LOL!

Prices here are base prices, you can ask for details through e-mail: ohmilkstore@gmail.com

Thanks a lot! Reblogs appreciated! 🙏🏼💕😌

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Will do basically anything except maybe furries (I’m just not good at it). Also will not draw subjects like rape, child pornography, etc.

Will try my best for turnaround to be no longer than one week’s time!

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Void boi Joseph, my friend’s character for a superhero setting :0 He controls darkness and is a cutie

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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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hello 2019 ✨

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My heart

baby hiei and baby kurama 😭 

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Happy Birthday, Kurama (Shuichi Minamino) ♥ //December 28th

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when you’re trying to write and your last two functioning brain cells start yelling at each other

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Wisteria & Sakura by jun

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蔵馬

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Kuwabara request for someone on insta ^^.

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Ya know what? Reblog this if you agree that online friends ARE real friends.

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The City of Sarayashiki, Yu Yu Hakusho: Poltergeist Report

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HereAfter’s (Not So) Foolproof Guide to Writing the Yu Yu Hakusho Boys

Yusuke

Rule of Thumb: On a scale of 1 to 10, how flip is he currently acting? Oh, a 6? That’s decently flippant. But… CAN HE BE MORE?!?!?!?!?! 

Other Gut Checks:

When did he last offend someone? 

Has he punched anything recently? 

Where’s he at on the curse-o-meter? 

Are his bromances accentuated enough? Is he pretending (with minimal success) that they don’t exist? 

Is he in appropriate levels of denial about his feeeelingsssss?

Kuwabara

Rule of Thumb: Has the world unfairly kicked his ass for reasons entirely outside his control? And is he somehow still trucking along, spotting silver linings and beating bigger and badder foes than he has any right to? 

Other Gut Checks:

Is he maintaining his Honor Code?

To what degree has he shouted about his love to the heavens lately?

Has he bickered about enough stupid shit with Yusuke? 

When did he last creatively ridicule Hiei’s height? 

If someone isn’t reading closely, will they, in fact, mistake him for a cinnamon roll?

Kurama

Rule of Thumb: Has he donned at least seventeen masks in the last three scenes? Do you, as the writer, even know which one is real? Or are you as baffled as your poor readers? Oh, you’re still keeping track—NOT ENOUGH MASKS.

Other Gut Checks: 

When did he last dote on Mommy Dearest? And did he feel appropriately guilty while doing so? 

How many knowing (read: smug) smiles did he manage to fit in the last conversation? 

Has he incurred no less than one stomach wound per major fight scene?

When he punches out his time card for the week, will he have clocked enough hours soothing Hiei out of a tantrum? 

If given the opportunity for truly master-level shade, did he seize that shit immediately? 

Hiei

Rule of Thumb: Is he keeping up his loner act? Cool, cool. That’s great. Is he pretending he wants to kill all the things, all the time? Cool, cool. That’s great. Is he actually making sure to be there for his friends “allies” the moment they need him? Niceeeeee.

Other Gut Checks:

Has he done anything to prove his badassery? Did he manage to convince anyone other than himself? 

Did his ego land him up Shit Creek without a paddle? 

When did he last insult Kuwabara’s intelligence? And did he truly mean it? (Hint: He shouldn’t have…)

Did he have enough favors to give out at his last pity party? 

When did he last stare forlornly at Yukina? 

And that’s it. All you need to know about writing the Yu Yu Hakusho boys. Trust me. After all, the title said ‘foolproof,’ didn’t it? 

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