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My parents think my response to when a women asked me the following question question is why stopped being pursued in my Catholic community. It was a lighthearted discussion but maybe they are right lol. Although every single happily Godly married couple who I asked this question to (seperately from each other) has given the same response, my parents included.

So, the question:

No nuance button because nuances is already baked in. We are assuming both spouses are able to make a sandwich (nobody is in a full-body cast or had brain cancer or whatever).

AND NO NASTINESS

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i mean this but i also had the stomach flu and iron deficiency hit me at the same time and i worked like a dog for a week til i couldn't take it anymore so the sick leave wasn't invented but i still enjoy that it'll be inconvenient for my company

i took a week of sick leave and now I'll be at work for 4 days then 2 week long break w days off/holidays stringed together then I'll be at work again for a week or something and then start my maternity leave. ive completely fucked them out of all ways of giving me any real work and boss deserved it for telling me no raise and then giving me a ton of responsibility and stressful meetings in my third trimester and then telling me she'll "try putting in a word for a raise anyway" (i just knowwww she said it to hold it over me so i keep being hardworking for a not-agreed-upon-yet imaginary reward. yah im not falling for it)

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i took a week of sick leave and now I'll be at work for 4 days then 2 week long break w days off/holidays stringed together then I'll be at work again for a week or something and then start my maternity leave. ive completely fucked them out of all ways of giving me any real work and boss deserved it for telling me no raise and then giving me a ton of responsibility and stressful meetings in my third trimester and then telling me she'll "try putting in a word for a raise anyway" (i just knowwww she said it to hold it over me so i keep being hardworking for a not-agreed-upon-yet imaginary reward. yah im not falling for it)

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very nolifer of me to start missing and craving and feeling so nostalgic for WoW the one week im at home (im sorta sick and too pregnant to handle it so i havent been going to work this week and WOW how good it feels to sit at home and do home things and have TIME to daydream a little)

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Incipit vita nova - 1903 ,detail

di Cesare Saccaggi (Italy, 1868-1934)

olio su tela , Collezione privata.

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im over being pregnant. i want to have a life that's more than struggling to do my job and laying down trying to catch my breath. everyone saying "pregnancy is not a state of sickness" and "i just did everything i used to" kys

we moved back after our renovations and im DESPERATELY trying to be involved in figuring out our messy apartment but i cant STAND UP FOR 5 MINUTES TO LOOK AT THE CONDIMENTS TO TELL MY HUSBAND WHERE TO PUT THEM. i squat down to wipe something and im STUCK ON THE FLOOR. i walk for 10 minutes and get SMACKED in the cervix. i lay down to rest and my pulse is 120. im over ittttr

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A willow warbler (Phylloscopus trochilus) perches in a blossoming tree in the United Kingdom

by colin dalton

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Late evening light at Edensor, Derbyshire, England by M. Cummins Photos

(via Wander the wood)

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stopped eating sugar and pastries bc my obgyn was warning me about bloating and high blood pressure. anyway i literally went down a kg and i feel like i can breathe again. forgot how bad sugar was for a good 6 months there

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people were worried about overpopulation back in the day but fortunately birth rates have mysteriously declined

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going up the stairs yesterday complaining that "it feels like i have a rock in my stomach"

my husband amusedly comments "if this were one of our folk songs you'd sing 'i'm carrying a rock in my stomach' and baby would sing 'i'm not a rock mother i'm your baby'"

and i burst into tears immediately. first of all he's spot on, our folk songs are all amazingly heart wrenching like this, and second of all i feel so bad i'm always complaining about her when it's not like she chose to come into this world. crying again rn btw

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