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Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.

Trying to make a point to my father.

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Love, Gabby & Natasha

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Katharine Hepburn as Amazon warrior princess Antiope & Colin Keith-Johnston as Theseus in stage production of The Warrior’s Husband (1932) (Corbis)

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(Image description: the genderqueer, queer, nonbinary, and trans pride flags with the words: being who I am is not a sin" centered in white text.)

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Just got done talking to another trans guy who was basically like “I don’t like being nice to people because it makes me dysphoric and feminine. Being rude makes me feel masculine” and honestly? I felt so fucking bad for him bc if it makes you feel good to purposely put others down in the name of masculinity then there is genuinely something wrong with you.

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Questioning ur gender as an afab person is hard bc ur like do I genuinely identify as Not A Woman or do I just not identify with the negative images of women that have been shoved at me since I was born? Like do I not like being referred to as a girl because that really isn’t who I am or is it because being connected to femininity comes along with some not great associations? And then there’s the question of am I really Not a Woman or am I just butch/futch? And then u get into questioning what gender even is to begin with. What is gender? What is masculinity? What is femininity? Is there anything inherent to either of them, or is it all socially constructed bullshit? Does gender actually exist?? If not, then what the fuck is my relationship with gender?

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Fyeah Lena Headey!

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Julie Andrews in Victor,Victoria (1982) appreciation post

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women in suits: 😍😍😍

women in suits of armor: 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

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nonbinary people do not have to look androgynous for you to respect them

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for real though why do people who don’t like nonbinary people think it’s ok to follow me

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Y'all do realize the more you call trans kids “transtrenders” and that they’re “faking it” the more parents aren’t gonna support even Actually Real Dysphoric Trans People, right?

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Please Reblog is Your Blog is Safe for Non-Binary People.

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Yesterday I hit one year on HRT, and I figured I’d share my progress. The two photos on the top are from when I started HRT back in 2017, and the rest are current.

It’s been a long journey, and I have so much ahead of me, but I am very happy with where I find myself today.

They/Them or She/Her

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