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Happy Halloween!!! 🎃 this was literally how me and my older brothers were. I would annoy them and then they would get me back haha

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a video of me just having to literally stop reading dialogue so i can close my eyes and take in how beautiful the OST in the background is sounding. how is this allowed.

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Magical Hammer Girl 🦔🌹💖🔨🃏✨

Have no fear, she's finally here!! 💖✌️ With the main art work and getting I delayed but she's finally finished! Can you guess the story the Fortune cards are telling? 👀💖✨

Hope you like how it turned out. I do 🥰💖 Next card: 💛🦊🌪️🧠💻

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demisexuality can be so hard to explain because it’s misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isn’t sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.

I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who aren’t experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because we’re taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.

And when you’re learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction aren’t necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.

But “I trust you enough to have sex with you” isn’t the same as “I’m not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason I’m sexually attracted to you now after we’ve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust we’ve been able to form”.

It’s easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if you’re unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But it’s important to acknowledge the difference between “no sex until I trust you” and “no sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even then”.

Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. It’s part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. It’s part of why the definition for asexuality includes “little to no sexual attraction”. It’s a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.

While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.

I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, it’s noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.

Remember, not everyone is demisexual. There’s a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.

But if you read what demisexuality is and think “everyone is like that” or “that’s just being a woman”, you either 1) are demisexual 2) don’t understand what it is or 3) both. And it’s okay to not know. Just as long as you’re willing to try to learn.

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Summary:

The nightly transformations were certainly taking some getting used to, but Sonic persevered with his ever-present determination and relentless optimism as he focused on stitching their broken world back together. Of course, it wouldn't be quite so easy without the support from his friends. His world couldn't be entirely broken as long as he had them by his side. Likewise, Tails is adjusting to using more of his tech in the field, still trying his best to keep up with Sonic, and keep him safe as the dark energy Eggman unlocked threatens all they hold dear. --- A Sonic Unleashed retelling with my own spin on the story. Each chapter is a different location in Sonic Unleashed. Focused mostly on the bond between Sonic and Tails, and also Chip. He gets to be here, too, as a treat.

Chapter 7 - Arid Sands (Shamar)

They hadn't gotten more than two steps—or two flutters, in Chip's case—through the doorway of Professor Pickle's office before Amy Rose ushered them right back over the threshold. Even with her arms laden with a stack of books, she didn't miss a beat as she got both Sonic and Tails to pivot and fall into step with her.

"It's about time, you two! We're losing valuable daylight!"

"You don't gotta tell me twice," Sonic replied, tapping his wrist comm pointedly. "But what's got you in a rush?"

Amy peered around her stack of books, cheeks puffed up. "Didn't you get my messages?"

Tails was quick to hold up both hands defensively. "Don't look at me this time! I was flying the Tornado. It was Sonic's job to check the messages."

"Yeah, and I delegated that to Chip." Sonic waved it off with a flick of his wrist.

"I got the messages!" Chip chirped, raising his hand eagerly. "You said that you and the professor found the next temple in Shamar!"

"Woah! Wait, seriously?" Sonic perked up, instantly flipping from flippant with a quick grin.

"Why didn't you tell us?" Tails asked.

"Well, you guys were in the middle of arguing about the right way to pronounce 'Holoska' again and then I forgot." Chip pointed at the Miles Electric. "But I did tell Amy we'd help pack up!"

"'Pack up?'" Tails canted his head to one side.

"Pack up what?" Sonic's head tilted in the same curious way.

Amy shoved her stack of books into Sonic's arms, nearly knocking him off his feet. "All of our research, of course! Professor Pickle has a car waiting for us at the school's entrance. You can take these there." 

As Sonic wobbled, Chip flew into his shoulder to help steady him, pushing against the bulk of his weight before he could fall over. "Wait, whaddya mean 'all of our research?'" Sonic asked, trying to peek around the books, but Amy was already skipping back into the office. "Hey! Amy!"

"That was the other part of the message," Chip piped up. "The professor and Amy are coming with us this time!"

[Continue at AO3]

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kaiba miku... the world is his (fanart of @nordycos' cosplay)

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I like The Spectre.

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prisoner.

next in the line — the witch and some voices :]

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Love the idea of Sonic just popping into existence one day, chili dog in hand.

close enough. Merry Birthmas, Sonic

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY SONIC!! 🎉

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bro just wants his gf to pay attention to him.

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Happy birthday Sonic~ 🎉🎉💙 Something quick bc time have no mercy lol Have a great monday, guys!

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Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

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To another 34 years for this blue hedgehog I still love a lot!

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34 years of racing, friendship, mysteries, and delicious cake.

Happy Birthday, Sonic!

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ppl who celebrate fictional character birthdays are annoying pass it on