softandsapphic

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Sorry I always post about women. There’s nothing else to be happy about in this damn world

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“gender and sexuality are separate concepts” and “my gender and my sexuality are inherently connected in ways i cannot articulate clearly with words” are concepts that can and do coexist

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I’m falling into heart eyes emoji with you

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bisexualism and lesbianity

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seeing people say shit like “i wish i as born gay” or “i wish i was born a different gender” makes me s o sad bc ill bet you dimes to dollars that person is on the lgbt spectrum but because of ingrained phobias and the way media portrays people like us, it feels like an insurmountable implausibility, when its really not. if you wish you were gay, or trans, or whatever, then like, maybe you should give the introspection a chance. compulsive heteronormativity is real and it can truly make you believe youre cis and straight and that you never need to think more into it than that.

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yall see “love” and immediately go to “romantic love” if you translate “love is the whole point” to “romantic love is the whole point” you need to rethink everything because love is found in everything. in community, in friendships, in family, in food, in nature so actually love is the whole point and u can die mad about it. hope this helps <3

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little kids r so funny when presented with any new information like theres this girl I teach who has two moms and a sister and I was like "wow your family is all girls! that's so funny, if my husband and I had a boy, we'd be all boys haha!" And she was shocked that two boys could get married like honey did you think gay marriage was a girls only event

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femme lesbians with names that are considered for guys are soooo sexy cool gender you got there bestie 😳

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*checking my mood ring* it says i love girls

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just remembered i’m a lesbian. what a relief

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white lgbt ppl dont know how much trouble theyve caused for us -_-

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wow if you keep existing i just might map out our entire future in my head which includes a cottage, the raising of cats, and many many loaves of bread while still somehow being able to muster up the courage to talk to you

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when I’m married I want to do everything with my wife. I mean EVERYTHING. WE will go out to the store for groceries, WE will take our pets on a walk, WE will go get our hair cut/styled, WE will go out to the gym, WE will go out for coffee. I want to be one of those couples where if our friend sees one of us they start looking around for the other one like “Hey how are u, where is ___” I want to be so in love with the girl that I don’t want to be apart from her for even a second, that even leaving her to go to work brings me physical agony so much so that we don’ spend time apart if we can help it. 

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hey,,,,,, what if we,,,,,,, video called overnight??🥺🥺 &just sat in comfortable silence, doing homework and listening to soft music, or whatever, but most of all,, simply reveling in each other's presence?✨

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You’re not clingy. You’re not too much. Someone has time for you. Someone wants you to cling to them.

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me and who ♡

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you are NEVER too old to nestle under a blankie and get so cozy and warm. remember this