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Caregivers, listen up!

🦊 DNI if nsfw 🦊

Sometimes your Little needs to be Little when you’re not in the right headspace to properly care for them. It sucks, but it happens. And it’s okay!

Instead of just shrugging your shoulders and saying, “Oh well!” there are some things you can do ahead of time to prepare for these situations!

🦊 Have a space set up for Little entertainment purposes! Colouring books, picture books, and some Little-approved snacks like animal crackers and juice boxes can last a long time!

🦊 Set up Kids Netflix or a movie somewhere it won’t bother you, like a laptop or tablet with headphones if your Little is going to be in the same room as you, or quietly on a tv if you’re planning to be in different rooms.

🦊 If you need a break during the day, send your Little for a nap, or take one yourself, or both! Everyone knows Littles need nap time (even if we hate it sometimes), and caregivers often need naps too. Plus, I’m pretty sure that’s the whole reason naptime even exists - so Bigs can get a break!

🦊 If you’re in a long distance situation, calmly explain to your Little that you aren’t able to care for them properly right now, and ask to postpone any video chat or call that might be taking place, or find a way to compromise. We may be needy, but most Littles are pretty understanding about their Caregiver’s needs, too.

🦊 If you’re in a long distance situation, you could each watch the same movie while on the phone, so that it’s like you’re hanging out together, but your Little will hopefully be distracted enough to not be too dependant! Disney and Pixar movies are great for people of all ages, so one of those might be best.

🦊 Remember to be patient with your Little. Age regression isn’t always controllable; it’s not our fault if we need to be Little when you need us to be Big. Make sure that your Little knows that they’re loved no matter what!

Hopefully this helps!

Kisses 😘

~Fox 🦊

🦊 DNI if nsfw 🦊

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How to help your Carer get into carerspace!

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What is the difference between sfw cgl and cglre? I was under the impression cglre was the sfw version of cgl. I can't figure out how they are different. Thanks :3

Hi! Cglre is caregiver/little regression! It is 100% sfw age regression!Cgl stands for caregiver/little! It is a kink! I would assume that sfw means there’s no nudity!

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things to do when your little is sad 🐻

🍼 hug them close.

🍼 let them cry it out, but make sure to comfort them.

🍼 make them their favourite snack.

🍼 pinch their cheeks and compliment them.

🍼 don’t tell them to stop being sad - sometimes they can’t help it.

🍼 try not to get sad yourself. negativity won’t help.

🍼 make jokes - just try to make them laugh.

🍼 get their favourite stuffie or blanket.

🍼 don’t make them feel stupid for getting sad, even if it’s small.

🍼 maybe take them out to go to the park or a place they enjoy going.

🍼 get their toys/colouring stuff out for them.

🍼 put their favourite movie/show on.

🍼 give them lots of kisses.

🍼 find out why they’re sad and try to make it better.

🍼 if they hurt them self, get a cute bandaid and a lolly.

🍼 play with them.

🍼 cuddle them tight.

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⭐️ bedtime routine for age regressors! ⭐️

🥛eat a good dinner. large dinners are hard to digest while you sleep, but if you eat too little you’ll be hungry at night, so make sure you eat just the right amount!

⭐️brush your teeth

☁️put on some comfy walking shoes, and put in your ear buds

🥛and then go for a walk! even just a short one around the block is a really good way to wind down

⭐️take a nice long shower or bath, and completely relax

☁️get out and dry off, then put on your cutest, softest, favoritest pjs

🥛wash your face with a gentle cleanser and then put on baby lotion

⭐️light a candle or use another method of surrounding yourself in a warm, comforting scent

☁️play some classical music out loud!! studies have shown that letting babies listen to Beethoven or Mozart helps their brains develope!

🥛drink a cup of water or another liquid, so that you don’t get dehydrated at night and to also help you digest your yummy dinner

⭐️do some super light stretches or yoga, to loosen up your body and slow down your busy busy mind

☁️read a baby book or watch an episode of your favorite cartoon

🥛go potty! so that you don’t have to wake up in the middle of a really fun dream

⭐️turn off your phone and make sure other electronics are put away

☁️tuck in your stuffies and give them all good night kisses

🥛turn off your lights and snuggle up in your blankets

⭐️take a moment to think about your favorite part of the prior day, and let yourself be thankful you got to experience it, even if it’s a small thing

☁️close your eyes and go to sleep 😴

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times r tough, take care of urselves please

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Hi you’re wonderful and I hope you get some good sleep tonight. 🌙

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Daddy is sleepy, baby. Come here so he can wrap around you and rest peacefully knowing you are safe in his arms.

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*:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ✧

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Stay kind, stay soft

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Bedtime

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Oh no! It’s your little’s bedtime and you’ve got work to do so you can’t cuddle them to sleep yourself? What do you do?!

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Help your little one get undressed and then dress them for bed

Cradle and carry your baby to bed and lay them down very gently 

Help them hold their sippy cup as they take a drink to help relax and rub their back while they do

Run your hand down their hair and tell them you love them

Use your hand to guide their head gently into their pillow

Sit at the edge of the bed and hold their hand on their tummy

Grab their night night stuffie and tuck it under their arm for them

Lean over and hug them laying your cheek against theirs

Glance under the bed and check the closets to assure them there are no monsters

Read them a bedtime story in a nice peaceful voice to help them feel sleepy

Kiss your little one’s forehead and tell them that they’re safe and you love them very much.

Tell them goodnight and let them gently drift off to sleep.

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*Bonus points for paci kisses or cuddling with them so they can suck your thumb during the story.

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♡

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ways to let yourself be little

a list of things for littles to do when they don’t have a mommy or daddy around to take care of them! 🌙💫✨☀️🌩⚡️

⭐️wear your favorite pajamas

⭐️window shop for regression gear! online or in person both work

⭐️make a baby journal. fill it with little things!

⭐️print out coloring pages and color them!

⭐️watch your favorite cartoon or movie

⭐️play a video game!

⭐️make a littlespace playlist

⭐️do a craft! make a peanut butter bird feeder, slime, or a glitter stim bottle!

⭐️take a bubble bath!

⭐️bake something yummy

⭐️snuggle with your stuffy, pet, pillow, etc

⭐️try to create a cute littlespace outfit out of clothes in your closet! wear this when you wanna be teeny tiny

⭐️throw a stuffie tea party

⭐️ go on a walk and take pictures of cute things you see!

⭐️jump rope

⭐️draw with chalk

⭐️reorganize stuffies

⭐️do yoga! there are “yoga for kids” videos on YouTube that are suuuuper fun!

⭐️read a baby book

⭐️get your outfits ready for the upcoming week

⭐️go to a playground!

⭐️paint your nails (primary colors or pastels work best for me!!)

⭐️make paper link streamers for your bedroom

⭐️design your dream doll house

⭐️make a regression moodboard!

⭐️try roller skating

⭐️write a short story or comic

⭐️start a dream journal

⭐️do a face mask

⭐️put on baby lotion

⭐️take a walk with toys in your backpack! even if you don’t take them out, just knowing they’re there always makes me feel better

⭐️play a game like neko atsume, i love hue, pokemon, animal crossing, tap tap fish, or minecraft!

⭐️light a scented candle

⭐️create a cuddle corner! designate a part of your room to pillows, blankets, toys, and other soft things

⭐️listen to classical music! studies have shown that listening to Mozart increases babies’ brain development

⭐️start a garden!

⭐️make a list of rules for yourself

⭐️make a list of things you wish for in a caregiver!

⭐️research something you love! princesses? dinosaurs? stars? trains? research it!

⭐️design your own American girl doll on the official website!!

⭐️write a letter to future you

⭐️try or start a littlespace 30 day challenge!

⭐️make origami stars

⭐️put on temporary tattoos

⭐️blow bubbles!

⭐️eat lil kid food! fruit snacks, granola bars, goldfish, apple juice, etc

⭐️take pictures of yourself lookin cute!!

⭐️send a nice message to a friend or someone you follow online

thas all!! love you lots, babies,, take care of urselves!

-baby cakes

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🐯how to have a playdate with your stuffies🐯

(Or, how to entertain your little self for a whole day by yourself)

⏰the day before⏰

✏Make a schedule for the day! Wake up at 9, eat breakfast, and then different activities throughout the day! Dont forget lunch and dinner!

🍽Prepare meals!

For breakfast, you can make pancakes ahead and store them in the freezer. If you put them in the toaster in the morning theyll feel fresh!

For lunch, make a packed lunch with a sandwich or pinwheels or anything else you like! Store it in the fridge!

You might want to wait to make dinner until youre going to eat it but if you want you can make burritos and store them in the freezer. Then you can put them in the oven (not while youre little!) To heat them up!

🌄the day of the playdate🌄

🍼Get up, get your coffee or tea in your sippy, and gather the stuffies!

🍳Eat breakfast together! Be careful not to get them dirty trying to feed them.

🖍Start the day’s activities! You could do a small craft project (search “kids crafts” on pinterest), print out coloring pages or worksheets and do them (remember to help your stuffies, especially if the worksheet isnt in their strong subject!). You could go on a scavenger hunt if you have a yard, and look for certain color rocks or certain shaped sticks. You could also try to spot different animals like squirrels, beatles, birds, and caterpillars!

🍱Have lunch! Make sure you refill your sippy or bottle with something healthy like water or juice!

If youre tired, you can take a nap after lunch!🛏 Then you can do more activities, or call the playdate done. Make sure you tell all your stuffies what a good time you had and thank them for playing with you!