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To those who I've upset or wronged over the years, please read.

During my long time online, I’ve met many people and made many friends.

I’ve ignored a lot of you trying to message me- most of which stems from me just not being a very social person. I leave peoples dms unanswered for months, even years at a time. Some of it intentional, some of it not. A lot of the time I just do not want to talk and prefer to be alone. To those people, I’m sorry I never got back to you and that I never put in the effort to start conversations, I’m sorry that I eventually forget about you and how that makes you feel. I cant say I’ll improve on this, as I said, I’m not very social. I have tried to let people know more and more about this before befriending them.

But in truth, I have not been the best friend in return. While I try my best to be nice to as many as possible, I’ve been very rude and horrible to others.

I’ve hurt a lot of people, more than I was aware of. I’ve had two people make bluesky accounts directly targeted at me, wanting me to apologize for many a thing. That’s the trigger for this response, but they are right, and I want to at least try to make things right. While I can’t reach out to every individual- whether it be me not remembering you, or maybe you’ve left the internet, I want to apologize for my horrid behaviour to so many of you.

I can be extremely jealous, irritable, judgemental and childish. I’m not good at controlling my emotions and I’m not good in stressful situations. I’m sorry if I have every lashed out or been rude to you, or been passive aggressive. I’ve also just not held promises that I’ve made and have failed to change myself for the better. These are things I need to work on myself. I can’t be the person everyone needs me to be, but I could definitely do better.

I’ve messed with a few people’s feelings- not intentionally, but with a terrible lack of understanding. I’m sorry to those who feel like I used them or were not taken seriously.  I’ve failed to listen, or outright ignored you, and that is not acceptable of me.

I’ve removed people without warning, without respect or giving them a reason for why, some worse than others. I run from my problems more and more. One friend group to the next, leaving others behind. Sometimes its natural, we all move on to other things, new friends, but that doesn’t excuse the people I have thrown away like they were nothing, and I’m sorry for that behaviour.

Some of my actions- or lack of action, have led some to depression, which sadly two of which are no longer with us. One loss was a dear friend of mine, Vespa (aka HiveVespa/ HiveQueenVespa). I was told they died of lung cancer earlier this year, but before that they had tried to take their own life multiple times. They have had severe depression for a long time, even before I knew them. It was a difficult situation, involving more people than just myself, and multiple people using Vespa’s account. To be honest details are still somewhat muddied. I don’t really know how to describe it, since I still have questions too.

      I was busy for a month and didn’t message her for the entirety of it, specifically October 2023. I never heard from Vespa again after that- I only heard from one of her friends who had access to her account from there on out (minus two single messages Vespa sent, but she didn’t respond to my replies), and everything went downhill after that.

A year or so later just spent waiting for anything, I got the news via another friend that she had passed away- though that contradicts other information I’ve been given, so I am unaware of the truth.

      But regardless of everything that happened, Vespa is no longer with us. I could have done so much more, a lot of us could have done more for her. I could have messaged more frequently and send my support, but instead I chose to wait and do nothing.

 May she rest in peace.

This might not cover everything. My apology goes out to as many as possible who has been waiting for one. I’m going to try to reach out to some individuals privately, not everything needs to be public. Do give me time to get to you, and if I don’t, please, tell me here and now if I have ever hurt you or your friends, no matter how big or small. Anything. DM me, or reply below, whatever you are most comfortable with, I will get to you eventually. And to my followers, I’m sorry if you’ve lost faith in me from all this.

As far as I’m aware, there has been no public post about her passing, only a few people knew via dms. If this post is how you are finding out, I’m sorry it had to be this way.

 And now that I reflect on it, her friend has gone through so much pain having to witness it all first hand. I realize how scarring that is for you alone. I know it won’t be easy, but I hope you can recover in time and I’m sorry that we couldn’t help Vespa in her time of need.

      I only found out about the second person recently- who sadly I have no recollection of and not much to go off of. If you know anyone who once went by ‘Hollowebug’, please speak up.

      No amount of apology will bring them back, and I wish I could remember more, my memory is terrible. I’m sorry you couldn’t rely on me. I let you down in the worst way possible. I don’t know what I did to hurt the second person, but whatever the circumstances were, to both parties, I am deeply sorry, and sorry to your friends who had to lose you.

I don’t know how far this will reach, but I intend to keep this post highlighted for a while, and I will stop posting my art for some time on most sites, as well as taking a sort of ‘break’ aside from what I need to do.

I understand that this apology, for most, is too little too late. You do not have to accept my long-winded apology, just know that I am truly, deeply sorry, and I hope you have been able to find happiness elsewhere, and that this at least helps a little.

Thank you for reading.

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To those who I've upset or wronged over the years, please read.

During my long time online, I’ve met many people and made many friends.

I’ve ignored a lot of you trying to message me- most of which stems from me just not being a very social person. I leave peoples dms unanswered for months, even years at a time. Some of it intentional, some of it not. A lot of the time I just do not want to talk and prefer to be alone. To those people, I’m sorry I never got back to you and that I never put in the effort to start conversations, I’m sorry that I eventually forget about you and how that makes you feel. I cant say I’ll improve on this, as I said, I’m not very social. I have tried to let people know more and more about this before befriending them.

But in truth, I have not been the best friend in return. While I try my best to be nice to as many as possible, I’ve been very rude and horrible to others.

I’ve hurt a lot of people, more than I was aware of. I’ve had two people make bluesky accounts directly targeted at me, wanting me to apologize for many a thing. That’s the trigger for this response, but they are right, and I want to at least try to make things right. While I can’t reach out to every individual- whether it be me not remembering you, or maybe you’ve left the internet, I want to apologize for my horrid behaviour to so many of you.

I can be extremely jealous, irritable, judgemental and childish. I’m not good at controlling my emotions and I’m not good in stressful situations. I’m sorry if I have every lashed out or been rude to you, or been passive aggressive. I’ve also just not held promises that I’ve made and have failed to change myself for the better. These are things I need to work on myself. I can’t be the person everyone needs me to be, but I could definitely do better.

I’ve messed with a few people’s feelings- not intentionally, but with a terrible lack of understanding. I’m sorry to those who feel like I used them or were not taken seriously.  I’ve failed to listen, or outright ignored you, and that is not acceptable of me.

I’ve removed people without warning, without respect or giving them a reason for why, some worse than others. I run from my problems more and more. One friend group to the next, leaving others behind. Sometimes its natural, we all move on to other things, new friends, but that doesn’t excuse the people I have thrown away like they were nothing, and I’m sorry for that behaviour.

Some of my actions- or lack of action, have led some to depression, which sadly two of which are no longer with us. One loss was a dear friend of mine, Vespa (aka HiveVespa/ HiveQueenVespa). I was told they died of lung cancer earlier this year, but before that they had tried to take their own life multiple times. They have had severe depression for a long time, even before I knew them. It was a difficult situation, involving more people than just myself, and multiple people using Vespa’s account. To be honest details are still somewhat muddied. I don’t really know how to describe it, since I still have questions too.

      I was busy for a month and didn’t message her for the entirety of it, specifically October 2023. I never heard from Vespa again after that- I only heard from one of her friends who had access to her account from there on out (minus two single messages Vespa sent, but she didn’t respond to my replies), and everything went downhill after that.

A year or so later just spent waiting for anything, I got the news via another friend that she had passed away- though that contradicts other information I’ve been given, so I am unaware of the truth.

      But regardless of everything that happened, Vespa is no longer with us. I could have done so much more, a lot of us could have done more for her. I could have messaged more frequently and send my support, but instead I chose to wait and do nothing.

 May she rest in peace.

This might not cover everything. My apology goes out to as many as possible who has been waiting for one. I’m going to try to reach out to some individuals privately, not everything needs to be public. Do give me time to get to you, and if I don’t, please, tell me here and now if I have ever hurt you or your friends, no matter how big or small. Anything. DM me, or reply below, whatever you are most comfortable with, I will get to you eventually. And to my followers, I’m sorry if you’ve lost faith in me from all this.

As far as I’m aware, there has been no public post about her passing, only a few people knew via dms. If this post is how you are finding out, I’m sorry it had to be this way.

 And now that I reflect on it, her friend has gone through so much pain having to witness it all first hand. I realize how scarring that is for you alone. I know it won’t be easy, but I hope you can recover in time and I’m sorry that we couldn’t help Vespa in her time of need.

      I only found out about the second person recently- who sadly I have no recollection of and not much to go off of. If you know anyone who once went by ‘Hollowebug’, please speak up.

      No amount of apology will bring them back, and I wish I could remember more, my memory is terrible. I’m sorry you couldn’t rely on me. I let you down in the worst way possible. I don’t know what I did to hurt the second person, but whatever the circumstances were, to both parties, I am deeply sorry, and sorry to your friends who had to lose you.

I don’t know how far this will reach, but I intend to keep this post highlighted for a while, and I will stop posting my art for some time on most sites, as well as taking a sort of ‘break’ aside from what I need to do.

I understand that this apology, for most, is too little too late. You do not have to accept my long-winded apology, just know that I am truly, deeply sorry, and I hope you have been able to find happiness elsewhere, and that this at least helps a little.

Thank you for reading.

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Buneary Comic

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Bestiiiies~🦔🦇❤️(2023)

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Susie's Animation！

It's simple though.

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Battle between land, sea and air.

There's no Reefslider special in the Splatana class and no Crab Tank in the Stringer class, so Shiver and Frye have to use each other's weapon for this scenario to happen lol.

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Old piece from 2024.

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Tears melting in the sea water

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Older drawing from a few years ago when I finally sat down to draw these wretched cast members. Sectonia is hard to draw I am never doing it again.

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first attack (revenge) for artfight this year - @hyperz0ne's goddess of paradise! it was SUCH a pleasure to draw it so dramatically <3

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i trip over and all of this falls out of my hands. and at @/moonverc3x's feet. there's confetti and blue glitter too actually

happy birthday (again!!) making this was a great challenge for me and ended up being super duper fun!

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taking a small break from artfight to draw my two fave goobers

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a whole stinkin' tinkatonne o' fun

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How I Paint Grapes! 🍇

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Sybil is here once more, yippee !!

So nice I drew her twice (the sketch is from earlier in the week tho)

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This one goes out to that $300 shiny bubble mew card i'll never have