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Hey, so I saw your post here about people faking mental illness and signs to look for saying it's attention seeking. It really concerned me so I wanted to reach out to explain why:

Saying that anyone is "attention seeking" or "faking" a mental illness is a really huge stigma that ends up causing the people with mental health issues to think their faking and don't seek help because they don't want to look like their trying to get attention and it causes people who could be a support system for the person to possibly ignore or dismiss what's going on and make it worse.

There's no such thing as faking a mental illness for attention. No one with a healthy mind would do that. If they are doing such things, it legitimately means they have something going on they need help with, it may just not be the disorder or illness they say it is, and maybe something else.

No one copes with their mental health in the same ways, I have a friend with anxiety who very clearly states her triggers. I myself mention my trauma in day to day because it helps me form a healthier acceptance to what happened. People who have addictions may openly display them as a way to pretend they're not an issue. Some people with mental illness may not even realize they are using it as a crutch, but mental illnesses and disorders are also something that are legitimate reasons, it just doesn't remove personal responsibility.

If someone sounds proud of SI, or SA, there's another mental health issue going on, it's not that they are faking. I lost a friend from High School because of that stigma. Because instead of realizing she needed help they believed exactly what you did.

It's definitely frustrating and upsetting when people do these things, but they're not faking, healthy people don't fake for attention, clout or to get their way. If someone is mentally ill they're not faking. Most of the things you listed are symtoms of Cluster B disorders (personality disorders) according to the DSM-V. What you stated could seriously hurt someone with those disorders trying to seek help from personal or professional support.

Stating you are anti-stimga, you needed to know that post promotes stigmas, it doesn't dispell them at all. That post promotes toxic and harmful stigmas, both to those who could help and those who need help. If you are dedicated to being anti-stigma, it would be a great show of support to delete your post.

yeah i was an asshole back in the day. Post is deleted, I’ve learned a lot throughout the years. Thank you :) /gen

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FNAF Movie: Was it Complete Shit?

Total opinion piece here but the FNAF movie was terrible. I genuinely could not wrap my brain around the fact that SCOTT CAWTHON HIMSELF coproduced a movie that literally resembled a middle schooler’s AU. Tell me what y’all think.

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Steph | Self-Care Spotlight

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We all have such different practices to be physically and mentally healthy- part of life is figuring out what works well for you! 🌱💛 I hope this piece helps illustrate how varied and different ways of life can all be healthy!

Chibird store | Positive pin club | Webtoon

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☀️Sun(fnaf) as a Caregiver ☀️

They are really my fictional caregiver now, I love him so much. The amount of comfort they give me is immeasurable <3

Warnings; being a little over protective(?)

-Really protective over you

-Will make sure you never get hurt

-If you do they will give you as many bandaids as you need

-Crafts! Love love love crafts!

-Glitter glue, smelly marker and googly eyes of course!

-Puppet shows

-Hide and seek

-Running around the playground

-Nap time(with the lights on of course)

-Lots and lots of hugs

-Lots of cute colored snacks

-Will clean you up if you get messy

-Will carry you around everywhere

-Doesn’t force you to do anything if you get fussy

-Yes that even means skipping veggies you don't like

-Wants to do everything with you

-Just wants to make sure you are happy

-If you are sad he will start to list off anything and everything you two can do together

-If you need some space they won't be the happiest about it but they understand

-Buys you anything and everything you could ever want

-You will be getting spoiled to no end

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🌙Sundrop caregiver moodboard🌙

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Puppy Thoughts For Christmas

imagine being curled up in your bed, snuggled up by the fireplace. the chatter and laughter of everyone opening presents fill your ears.

you peek your eyes open as someone starts to pet you and hands you your own present, a squeaky plush that looks like the bright tree across the room.

"merry christmas" they say as they go back to the chatter.

you happily snuggle up to your new friend, all is nice.

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🧸💕 Miscellaneous Age Regressor icons as a gift for @agerefandom (please reblog if you save)! 💕🧸

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Reminder to new regressors ততততত

You don’t have to know what your little age is yet! You’re still exploring what you feel comfortable with and what feels right to you. There’s nothing wrong with not having a label, or rather an age, for your kiddo space. If you feel small, you can simply feel small!

You don’t have to have a carer! If you feel uncomfortable with someone taking care of you or you simply feel alright by yourself, that’s completely fine! There’s no one you can trust more than yourself :)

You don’t have to be like other regressors. Your small space is unique, just like you! If you prefer spooky dark or fun bright colors more than cute pastels, that’s great! If you like video games much more than coloring, that’s amazing! Just be you :)

You’re never too young or too old! Same goes for your little age. Anyone can regress to any age!

Never be afraid to ask questions! I know it can be scary, reaching out to someone, but my inbox is always open for questions!

Happy holidays! <3

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Asks are open!!! You can now request:

1. Gift lists! (I.e. Gift list for regressors that stim, gift list for neon regressors)

2. Advice!

3. Moodboards!

4. Tips for caring for littles with “blank”! (I.e. IBS, OCD)

5. Rules lists! (I.e. Rules for littles with anxiety, rules for littles with depression)

6. Agere flag requests! (I.e. Plural regressor flag, chronically ill regressor flag)

7. Agere FNaF headcanons!

8. Other stuff that you might like!

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Moon drop from fnaf stimboard

2. https://noonlight-stims.tumblr.com/post/664054138100973568/source

3. https://milamai.tumblr.com/post/171641291765/snowing-stars-by-milamai

4. https://noonlight-stims.tumblr.com/post/641238674302959616/source

5. https://kitsune-x-samurai.tumblr.com/post/671076382850400256/i-realy-like-these-posters-they-are-so-colorful

6. https://sensorygif.tumblr.com/post/173023844860/sensory

7. https://heartnosekid.tumblr.com/post/662054853961498624/spellcasterdice-on-ig

7. https://heartnosekid.tumblr.com/post/662054853961498624/spellcasterdice-on-ig

8. https://noonlight-stims.tumblr.com/post/188373693704/source

9. https://assassin1513.tumblr.com/post/614948720834969600/golden-dust-gifs-made-by-me

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Caregiver Sun(fnaf)

aaaa I love him *melts* I will be drawing more of them in the future <333

Other variants↓

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CG! Moon from security breach!

Had the idea to make this after I saw @nostromoagere post of Sun!

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caregiver sundrop edit!

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the agere community when these two were introduced: Wan Hug And Play