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Just a life update ✨

The birthday was chaos and kilig rolled into one.

The aminan session was like unlocking a door we’d both been standing in front of for months.

Somewhere in that moment, you said, “I like you.”

And me, being me, just went, “Weh?” with that face.

But you didn’t even hesitate, “Oo nga. Gusto nga kita.”

Since then, it’s been more than just casual conversations, it’s stolen glances, quiet rides, shared smiles when no one’s looking.

We’re not “official” in the way people define it, but we’re writing something together. Slowly. Softly. In our own way.

And honestly? I like this chapter.

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Oh how I miss using tumblr. It’s been awhile.

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for those who are struggling with having and finding purpose: maybe, for now, your purpose is waking up in the morning and taking on the day ahead. maybe your purpose is continuing to live despite it all.

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ⓘ This user just wanna sit in front of the ocean and listen to the waves

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you can’t hurt people and then expect them to be kind or be forgiving towards you. you can’t inflict them pain and then tell them to just forget it and move on. u are in no position to tell them what to do with their emotions, especially if u are the reason why they’re sufferring

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To all the night i said “di ko na kaya" to all the “ayoko na, Lord” and to all the tears i cried because words cant describe how badly im in pain. Finally, it all worth it. im crying, not because I’ve been hurt but because im healed. I appreciate myself more and commend him for being so tough, im so brave to manage all of this pain, feelings, emotions and breakdowns. Thank you to all people who lend me their ears, shoulders and time, you’re great part of my healing. You’re angels sent by above!

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“Mahal ko kasi eh"

Pwede ba? Its 2021 and that concept is too outdated. Hindi yan sapat na dahilan to compromise on someone na di ka kayang i-appreciate, pahalagahan at mahalin. Kung always ka nalang magsesettle sa salitang yan, isipin mo kung worth it pa ba, baka kasi ang 'ending, ikaw nalang ang nagmamahal. Sya, matagal ka ng binitawan.

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Lumaki kasi tayo sa Konsepto nang Love na dapat; pag mahal mo ang tao kaya mong mag tiis, kaya mong magsakripisyo, kaya mong masaktan at kaya mong magpa masokista, oo tama naman, at some point siguro? Pero pano kung palagi ka nalang nag titiis? Nagsasakripisyo? Nasasaktan? Na mas madalas na yun kesa sa sumaya ka? Dapat namulat din tayo sa konsepto na ang pagmamahal, nag uumpisa yan sa sarili at hindi hinahanap sa iba, kundi dapat malayang binibigay. Hindi pilit. Hindi hinahabol. Hindi nililimos.

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Is this normal? I miss him. Ngaa daw sbg lg ya nag hit skon ang post break up? Maybe bc indi nko busy? Or bsi nag paka busy lg ko just to avoid the pain? And now ari na nbtyag ko na? I dont know kung ngaa muni akon na feel mga almost a week ngd. Im sad. And Im hurt. Daw ma hibi ko pero wla nko inug luha.

Hay kabudlay, pero Padayon lang Shane. Padayon.

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Oh i miss you

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Teach your daughters that loyalty doesn’t mean taking unlimited pain from a man.

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an excerpt from my book "when things are not FINE"

P.S. It's on sale! Check out the link on the source!

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Tara, bike? 🤍

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Dont ever stay on people who cant give you even just the bare minimum