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☆ Prioritize and Learn your DR-self ☆

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{Where focus goes, energy flows. Take what resonates, leave what does not 🖤}

- note: I use Harry Potter and the MCU realities as examples through this! A majority of us know basics of those places— it makes it easier for me to make examples in this b word.

Summary: Going over the importance of your DR-self and how to truly connect to yourself. Includes deep questions to think about <3

Key Terms: DR (Desired Reality), CR (Current Reality)

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Nothing is more important than you <3

*I say with a smirk, twirling my hair.*

Focus on yourself/DR SELF more than ANYTHING ELSE!! I STAND ON THIS ONE!! TEN TOES DOWN RIGHT HERE. RIGHT NOWWWW.

Your DR Isn’t Your DR Without Who?? YOU!

This is your time to have main character syndrome—hell, you ARE the most important character in your story! Why focus on you? It’s way easier to connect with yourself than trying to visualize every detail of your DR. You know yourself better than anyone. Use that to your advantage! Raw dog yourself dude

But lemme clock something ‼️ Truly connecting to your DR self is a lot more than just reading over a script and answering brain-dead questions like "What's my name? My age?" Like wowww, we get it.. we know. Wowwwwww— Instead, the goal is to embody and align. To close the gap. To truly become your DR self through thought, emotion, and perspective.

Deep Dive: Exploring Your DR Self ☆

Traits:

What are your core personality traits in your DR?

Are you brave, compassionate, witty, analytical?

Example: If you’re brave, is it “I can kill a spider with a shoe” brave, or “I’ll face down a Death Eater/alien army” brave? How Brave are you really? Can people rely on your bravery?

Thoughts and Reactions:

How do you react in your DR? What Level do you operate at?

Example: You're making Amortentia (love potion) in class, everyone wants to know what it smells like. They are bothering you. Pestering you. How do you react? Are you Calmer in your DR? Hot-headed? Do you laugh it off?

Growth:

Who are you in your DR, and how have you grown?

What challenges have shaped you? How do you handle conflict differently in your DR?

Your DR Self is an Extension of You

If your DR self feels a lot like "you" (CR self) with subtle difference that fit the narrative of your DR, that's okay! Think of your DR self not as someone new, but as you in a different context. It’s still you—just shaped by the events, experiences, and circumstances of your DR. So for the sake of example, some Marvel context. {Focus on Emotional immersion, shifting isn't just about forcing yourself to think differently-- its about feeling differently. Immerse in the emotions of your DR life.}

Example time:

What does it feel like to walking into the Avengers compound and know you belong?

Feel the Pride after using abilities to save someone, or the adrenaline of a mission. Speaking of abilities, if you use magic.. Do your hands move like Wanda? Agatha?

How does being an Avenger or Hero challenge or inspire you? How does your comfort character help you grow? Or do they help show a new side of yourself?

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Don’t Overthink—Seriously.

I know, i just told you not to overthink, and then dumped LIKE A BILLION THINGS to OVERTHINK about— BUT BABY WAIT— here’s the thing: you don’t have to focus on everything I mentioned.

All of these points are just different tastes—little prompts to help you connect with your DR self. You don’t need to answer every question or dive into every example. Even picking just one of these ideas can lead you down the right path. That’s the whole point.

The goal is to delve deep and feel your DR self. Get into their mindset, match their energy, and align with their frequency. One thought, one emotion, or one detail is enough to bridge that gap. Keep it simple, and let it flow naturally.

☆ I’ll Leave You With This ☆

If you were to sit down with your CR self (my worst nightmare), you could probably talk for hours about the things that make you, you. Maybe you eat yogurt with forks (I do), your favorite color is pink, you can’t stand loud noises, you’re afraid of the ocean, or you secretly love pop music but hate certain smells. And let’s be real—your quirks, your traumas, your little joys? Those are what make you human.

You’re doing the exact same thing with your DR self. You’re getting to know their quirks, fears, loves, and unique traits. Because at the end of the day, you’re not just creating some untouchable fantasy version of yourself—you’re real. Your DR self is real. They’ve had real experiences, just like you’ve had in your CR.

So, when you’re exploring who they are, think about their humanly unique quirks. What makes them smile? What challenges them? What weird little habits or traits do they have that make them you?

You’re not creating a stranger or a perfect ideal. You’re reconnecting with a version of yourself who’s already out there living in the DR. They’re not some far-off, unreachable dream. They’re you.

Ho did you just focus on yourself? Yk what? Hell yeah

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{Another post down!! I hope this was somewhat helpful?? I struggle to organize my thoughts sometimes! I’m all over the place when I write 😭}

Next post teaser: Making shifting easier to understand 🫶🏻

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☆ Being Scared of Shifting ☆

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{Where focus goes, energy flows. Take what resonates, leave what does not 🖤}

- this is my first post back in several years, and first post to the shifting community! I’ve been nervous just because I feared I didn’t have enough information, but girl.. I have so much to share. So here is a lil something— tons more to come! -

Key terms: DR (Desired reality), CR (Current Reality), WR (Waiting Room)

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If You’re Gonna Do It, Do It Scared.

Listen, if you’re scared, do it scared. Fear doesn’t mean you’re incapable—it means you care. It means you’re stepping outside your comfort zone!! Go diva!!! 💜🫶🏻

It took me forever to realize I was scared of reality shifting. Like, four and a half years— LIKE THAT LONG But deep down? I was yelling, “DAWG, I’M SCARED, LOWKEY.” I didn’t even realize it because my desire to shift was so strong that it drowned out the fear. And hey, that’s not necessarily bad. But if you want to move forward, it’s so important to recognize when fear is there. Facing it means you’re taking care of yourself and making sure you feel safe when you finally step into your DR.

☆ An Expierence I had that made me realize I was scared:

When I tell you I was shook the house. I was shaking in my Gucci boots for real. That’s how deep my fear is. And it’s so unbelievable because like?? Why the fuck am I scared of a place I wanna go bitch?? Who am I??

So, I was in the middle of doing my usual method. My whole body was numb, and my brain was so empty. (This was my best attempt too at this point) I felt so good. Against my eyelids I was starting to see flashes of light and purple splotches. I started to LOCK THE FUCK IN GIRL. Then, suddenly, I heard footsteps on the carpet in my CR. and I knew it was my CR. I tried reassuring myself: “I am safe” blah blah blah. Then, the footsteps became for frequent and I heard like a settling on my desk. (I can’t describe it, but it sounded like when wood desks creak for no reason). And my eyes shot open and I was in a state of pure panic and i pulled the blanket over my fACE. That’s when I knew, no matter what really transpired, if I was really channeling my DR— That was scary. And I will never do awake methods again.

☆ So, Is It Okay to Be Scared?

Bro, absolutely. Homie, fear is normal. It’s your subconscious trying to protect you, not sabotage you. And let’s be real—when people say, “You’ll just know you’re in your DR, it’ll feel like home,” it can feel impossible to connect with that if you’ve never “experienced” it.

Think about it—if your DR is vastly different from your CR, of course, it’s going to feel huge. You’re rewiring your perception of what’s real. Your subconscious? It’s just trying to keep you grounded in what it knows to be safe. That’s so OOGA BOOGA of her.. But trust me, being scared doesn’t mean you can’t shift. It means you’re human. Nothing is more powerful than being human 💜

GIRL ESPECIALLY IF YOU DO AWAKE METHODS. YALL ARE SO BRAVE. THOSE RANDOM SOUNDS KILL ME.

☆ How Do I Get Over This?

Here’s the truth: fear doesn’t mean you don’t want it—it means you care so much about it. That fear can actually be proof of how close you are because your subconscious knows something big is about to happen.

It’s also worth noting that fear is not a wall; it’s a door. It’s something you can walk through, and once you’re on the other side, that fear turns into excitement and peace.

All in all bestie, This part depends on you. For some, it’s easy: a pep talk and some affirmations, and they’re good to go. For others, fear isn’t something to fight—it’s something you learn to hold hands with and accept.

Reassure yourself: When you feel fear creeping in, remind yourself of how safe and loved you are. Your DR self and your comfort character (and your DR life) are waiting for you with nothing but warmth, familiarity, and love. Say to yourself, “This is exactly what I want. I’m safe.”

Visualize comfort: Imagine a comfort character or two, right there with you, keeping you safe and grounded as you shift. Let their presence calm you in moments of fear. What ever it is that calms you, use that as your catalyst to keep going.

Create a waiting room: A lot of people recommend this one and I can see why. A waiting room is like a pit stop before your DR. It’s a place you can adjust and prepare. My waiting room looks exactly like my bedroom but the door looks different and it leads to my DR. It was the first place I shifted to. I got to know the feeling of shifting, and I felt safe! Ofc I did! I was in my room! The room I know. The room my subconscious knows and feels. See what I’m getting at? Work with yourself, not against yourself.

☆ What Do I Do When Fear Hits Me Mid-Attempt?

This bitch can sneak up on you when you least expect it. Maybe you’re about to fall asleep, or you’ve just started visualizing, and suddenly, your heart races, and you’re like, “Oh no, what if—?”

What you do next matters. Will you help yourself or bury yourself deeper?

🪬 Ground yourself. Start with deep breaths. Count your breathing. Visualize it— do whatever you have to do. Just. Breathe. Your DR breathes too. Breathe.

🪬 Acknowledge the fear. It’s there. It’s not driving the car though, you are. Remember that. Passengers can yap aaaalllll they want, but the wheel is in your hands.

🪬 Reaffirm your safety. Remind yourself: “I am safe. I am ready. My DR is a place of peace and love.” Any little affirmations that soothe your mind! Words are very powerful— especially to our subconscious. Our subconscious can’t see, but it can hear. You have to feed it healthy words otherwise you’re gonna sink.

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{I believe I hit all the major things I wanted to talk about here! Feel free to message me about anything else. I’ll be more than happy to answer questions!}

Next post teaser: Prioritize your DR self :3 💜

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Fuck your so called "bisexuality".

i’ll fuck your mom and dad

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no one:

me, talking about my fave character:

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Dancing Queen is playing while you are being sacrificed to the Anti-Christ…

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How are ya

Lmaooo I’m doin’ pretty good. I don’t have much going for me atm, but ayeeee I have the sweet, sweet oxygen flowing through mii lungs

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When my 13 year old self read smut for the first time

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Are you okay?

I’m breathing

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Hai Laur~ ily ♡

AAAAAAA!!!💗💗💗💗I LOVE YOU💘💘💘

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your blog is amazing and i just - 💖😍💜💗💕💙💓

Omgomomgjfnfjabehsbs YOU’RE SO 💛💗💗💗💗💗THANK YOU, I LOVE YOU💕💕💗💗💗💕

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Hai Laur~ ily ♡

AAAAAAA!!!💗💗💗💗I LOVE YOU💘💘💘

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Me: “I love reading too!”

Person: “really!? What do you read!?”

Me: *Sweats profusely and scratches the back of my neck, contemplating my life and why I ever agreed to the person’s opinion in the first place, knowing that the things I read are sometimes not meant for human eyes.* “Jus’ some stuff :) :) :) :)”