starlitwishforu

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to begin with, the sweet grass by mary oliver, from “devotions”

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when the fic is a rated t one-shot with a 20k+ word count titled something like "the mechanics of turtle migration" with kudos in the low hundreds yk it's gonna hit

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i wish there was an easier way to tell the difference between an "if it sucks hit da bricks" situation and a "sometimes being an adult means doing things that you dont wanna" situation

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THE CHAFF PROJECT

Hi! Are you cis in the UK and you'd like to support trans rights? Great!

How: buy a trans flag pin and wear it in public.

Why: chaff is an overwhelming amount of false positives so that when a missile gets close to the plane, it hits the chaff and not the plane.

In practice: the goal is to make it DIFFICULT to identify trans people to target with bathroom bans, and to create many FALSE POSITIVES for businesses.

Basically, you might get accused of being trans and kicked out, because of the badge. You say: I wear the badge because trans rights matter.

You follow up with a letter to the business saying you're fucking furious because some nosy dipshit just tried to play fucking genital police with you in the loos. You know lots of trans people (don't name any, if you do) and you wear the pin in support and you're disgusted at them for allowing this.

Blame the business for allowing the behaviour.

Businesses see that their cis customers are getting bothered over a badge and may clarify trans-inclusive policies, so they can kick out the bathroom botherers instead of nice cis allies.

You only need to buy and wear the badge, and you are protecting trans people. You can be genuinely heroic. Even one cis person doing this helps, and everyone you get to join in helps even more.

Non-affiliated badge link:

https://rainbowandco.uk/collections/trans-pride/products/transgender-pride-flag-badge

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may i perhaps suggest a very small grian with very very large wings?

According to all known laws of aviation there is no way grian should be able to fly

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hanfu-ne miku!

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rejection sensitivity is so fucking lame. like boo hoo look at me i felt mildly ignored for 30 seconds and already started planning my own funeral liKE BITCH CHILL it was never that serious

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Had a dream that I drew this dragon and felt disappointed when I woke up that it wasn't real so I drew it all over again.

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“you’re so funny” thanks no one wanted to play with me as a little kid so i’ve been scheming like a criminal ever since to make them love me and make it seem effortless

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Introducing the phrase "found family" to fandom spaces was a mistake. Now half of fandon wants to force their "found families" into neat little boxes like "this is the dad, this is the mum, this is the fun uncle, these ones are siblings", even though the entire POINT of found family as a concept was to reject traditional family structures as the norm and rigid ideas of what a family even is, and then they get big mad whenever even dares suggest something romantic or sexual could happen between two completely unrelated mature adult characters they've arbitrarily decided are "parent/child" or "siblings" based on basically NOTHING in canon and start accusing that potential relationship of being incestuous. That's not how that works! That's not how any of this works!!

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i think my favorite thing about the way people draw ctommy is they just litter him in patches and stickers and charms and some are for fun and some are meaningful and comparing the later designs to the earliest designs is so interesting because the starting designs were so.... plain isnt the right word. undecorated. and now hes just coated in little memories from everyone. i know people made fun of the butterfly clips and the cardigan and everything but i think its sweet. i love the idea of this kid who screams and yells and swears all the time, this loud boisterous kid, just sewing some patches onto his pants because he rolled down a hill while hanging out with tubbo.

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cphil has a self help blog where he gives life advice people ask him questions like “how do i gain the forgiveness of those i’ve hurt?” and “can crows eat dog food?” and he responds to the best of his ability and tommy and tubbo regularly comment “aren’t you the guy who blew up l’manburg?” and “aren’t you the guy who killed his son?” and “hey man heard what your best friend did to all those orphans NOT COOL” he keeps blocking them but they make new accounts faster than his talons can click the screen

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i love characters who do the “i worship the myth i make of you” and in turn dehumanize and get wrong the object of their devotion and love. yes project a thing that does not exist onto a pedestal and kneel at it like it is your altar. this will surely not blow up in both of your faces eventually

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every piece of ""autistic representation"" in hollywood sucks not just because of the infantalization and inspiration porn but because movie executives always fail to realize the real universal autistic experience: spending your childhood slowly and unfalteringly realizing all of your friends not so secretly hated and/or merely tolerated you at best and you've missed every social signal about it ever

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whoever wrote this headline really needed to get it out of their system

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it’s really sad that so many things are perceived as exclusively romantic when i mean them entirely platonically. what do you mean i can’t say “hey gorgeous” as a greeting or hold someone’s hand or cuddle during a movie or kiss people on the head or tell them i’m in love with them without everyone going “omg are you guys dating??” no i just love my friends sorry you don’t have any joy or whimsy in your life i guess