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[starnightlover]

i fidget like crazy and without it i literally cant fall asleep so can u recommend some sleeping method where u don't have to stay still :)

and have a good day!<33

Awww thank you lovely! You as well!

Don't worry, there are still plenty of shifting methods you can try that accommodate your need to move, as I as well fidget! So I understand your struggle. Here are a few suggestions:

Dynamic Visualization: Instead of lying still, try incorporating movement into your visualization practice. You can imagine yourself walking, running, or engaging in any activity you find calming and enjoyable in your DR. As you visualize, allow your body to move naturally, syncing your movements with the scenes playing out in your mind.

Guided Meditation with Gentle Movement: Look for guided meditation sessions particularly designed for those who struggle with restlessness. Some guided meditations encourage gentle movement, such as swaying, stretching, or even dancing, to help release tension and promote relaxation.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation with Movement: Instead of focusing solely on relaxation techniques that require stillness, try combining progressive muscle relaxation with movement. Tense and release different muscle groups in your body as you fidget, allowing the physical movement to complement the relaxation process.

Active Imagination Techniques: Engage your imagination actively while allowing for movement. You can create a narrative or story in your mind about your DR while incorporating movements that feel comfortable and soothing to you.

Remember, the key is to just find what works for you! And remember you don't need any methods to shift! They're just tools for you 🖤

[starnightlover]

Hi. Sorry, I just really feel like complaining. Obviously you can ignore this, I just have nowhere else to word vomit lol. I've been trying to shift since 2019. I've gotten into the void state for like 20 seconds but got too freaked out/excited and lost stability before I could manifest or shift anywhere. I feel like I'm going crazy. I've done the whole thing of pasting sticky notes with affirmations all over my apartment, had meditated for an hour or more a day for weeks at a time, listened to subliminals 24/7 and obvious tried all the classic methods like the raven method, julia method, etc, etc. I've had multiple lucid dreams where I tried to make portals and I've even had a lucid dream (or I guess I shifted) where I saw a "centre" for shifting with a bunch of islands and floating petals that we used as transportation between islands. I got a whole tour by some guide and he showed me other lives I'm currently living. That was like a year ago, and I haven't manifested anything significant or went anywhere since then. I'm going through a really tough time right now. I wouldn't have gone on like this if I didn't believe in it, but I'm just feeling really beaten down. I'm exhausted and frustrated.

Hi lovely, I'm so sorry you feel this way.

It’s understandable. But remember all the lucid dreams you’ve had and the void states that you’ve been in. They’re a reflection of your ability for shifting. You’ve been incredibly close before, and your subconscious mind is capable of doing so. You can take a break if you want, because shifting requires a healthy amount of persistence. Just remember that no matter how long of a break you have, you’ve come really far already. The void state is one step away from shifting. And don’t forget your lucid dream, where you basically saw your ability to change realities. Don’t take my word for granted. Just think about it. You can do it, you do have the abilities, all you have to do is keep going. You can take a small break if you want to rest, but don’t let yourself lose all your progress. Stay determined, stay motivated, don’t lose your abilities. You can do this!!

You’ve come so far, and you’ve been in the final stages. Don’t think about how it’s been years without a single shift. It’s been years where you’ve learned techniques, you’ve learned about yourself, you’ve honed in your shifting abilities. Just because you haven’t shifted in years doesn’t mean you’ve made no progress. This is just the next step in your shifting journey. Go forward. Take that step. Shift like nothing’s stopping you. You’re so close. You’ve had enough time to think about it. You’ve been here, wanting to get to your desired reality for all this time. You haven’t given up on it yet. You’ve kept coming back hoping, trying, dreaming, wanting to shift to the reality you want and finally be with your hard work! Why would you stop now? You owe it to yourself to keep trying. Don’t give up, because it has always been your dream to shift.

Your determination, drive, motivation, and dedication to shifting is so praiseworthy. It's been years since you started this journey, and you haven't given up! You've persisted for this long and you've gotten close so many times, it's almost impossible for you to not have enough abilities to shift realities. Remember all the things you've seen and experienced while trying to shift realities, all the things you've gone through and the efforts of hard work that you've put into shifting realities. Don't give up now. You just have to keep going. You can do it, I believe in you!

Keep going. Don’t stop now.

I mean, just think about it: you possess this incredible power within you to shape your own existence. You're not just a passive observer in the grand theater of life; you're the playwright, the director, and the star actor all rolled into one.

You see, the universe is like this vast, infinite canvas, and you? You're the artist putting forth the brush. Every thought, every belief, every intention you hold is like a stroke on that canvas.

Now, here's the kicker: you have the ability to shift to any reality you choose. It's not some distant, unattainable dream—it's within your awareness right here, right now. Reality-shifting isn't this Herculean task reserved for a select few; it's as easy as changing your mind.

You are the god of your reality, lovely!!! You have the power to shift!!! It's not about waiting for the stars to align or some external force to swoop in and save the day. It's about realizing that the power you seek has been within you all along. So, embrace it. Own it. Know that you are the creator of your own destiny. And when doubts creep in or challenges arise, remember this: you are god, and reality-shifting is as easy as flipping the script. You've got this. After all, you are god.

And remember! You don't actually need specific methods to shift realities; it's about tapping into your innate power as a being that is pure consiousnious not attached to any body, mind, or reality! . Every moment, you're making choices that shift you to a different reality, and reality-shifting to your DR is just as easy! It's just bevomi b aware of it. While methods and techniques can be helpful tools, they're just that—tools! The real magic happens when you tap into your own inner wisdom and intuition, trusting yourself to allow the process to unfold organically. Embrace your innate creativity and intuition, and watch as your reality begins to shift in ways you never thought possible.

Now just remember my love, to keep on visualizing, keep on affirming, and most importantly keep persisting!!!! . And, be gentle with yourself along the way. Shifting may not happen overnight, but each step you take brings you closer to your DR. So hold onto hope, and know that your breakthrough is just around the corner.

[starnightlover]

What’s your opinion on people scripting yandere’s and such?

They can do what they want, it's their DR 🖤

[starnightlover]

shifting is your second chance (infinite chances) in life. whatever you could imagine can be experinced with shifting. whatever you may have ever lost, forgotten about, destoryed, been robbed of, wasted, erased, sacrificed.. etc. can be experienced again (or perhaps, for the very first time) with shifting.

you have never truly 'lost' anything in this life. it will forever exist. if not in this reality, then in infinite others. and vice versa, if you wish for something to never exist, then it never did, and never will, in infinite realities.

life (is) will be the way you want it to be. so, take a deep breath. slow down. and enjoy it, you will look back on it and laugh. trust me.

[starnightlover]

Eeeee here!

permashifter where you at???

[starnightlover]

For everyone that needs to know this 🖤

It really annoys me when people say that permashifting/respawning (I will clarify permashifting and respawning at the end) is pathetic, selfish, sad, "giving up", and anything of the sort.

People are just living their own lives. They are doing what they've decided to do. If it's fulfilling to them, then so be it. It's their lives. There are endless possibilities and if their life is not fulfilling to them (especially if they're hurt or endangered) I cannot comprehend why it would be pathetic, selfish, sad, "giving up" or anything else.

People could argue the same thing about moving out of your parent's house. Oh, so you want to give up on your childhood? Give up on your parents? You want to selfishly live your own life and become your own independent person? What if your parents need your help with something but you live far away? None of those arguments are fair in any of these scenarios.

People are doing what works for and is best for them. Nothing is one-size-fits-all, so what they're doing is not going to work for everyone - and that's fine. But judging other people is completely unnecessary.

I usually tend to not engage with these discussions, because - 1) everyone is entitled to their opinions and they have them - 2) at the end of the day I am the only person who is going to live MY life so I absolutely will do what I want regardless of other people/entities. I've just thought about this and don't have anyone to talk to. Thank you for letting me rant lol.

For clarifications;

Reality shifting = generally travelling from one reality to a different reality.

Permashifting = reality shifting from one reality to a different reality, while intending to stay in that different reality permanently, and keeping ties between both realities intact.

Respawning = reality shifting from one reality to a different reality, while intending to stay in that different reality permanently, and NOT keeping ties between both realities intact. This DOES NOT inherently include the death of the vessel. As nothing is impossible, it is possible to return to the previous reality, but less likely since the ties are no longer intact.

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[starnightlover]

Just heard shifttok moving to tumblr cus tiktok got banned in the US and I'm just making sure you guys understand that shiftblr is miles different from shifttok okay.

No one here is interested in drama. No one here CARES about drama, and we pretty much just mind our own business if we aren't sending useful and encouraging posts to each other and the community. And here's an important one.

If someone makes a post saying they believe in a certain thing that you dont, you leave them alone and scroll. You don't go trying to make debates in their comments and asks or try harassing them in their dms just because they do things differently to you. Just leave them alone.

Shiftblr is a peaceful place and there is no reason for there to be heated debates everywhere just because someone shifted to a reality where they are a different race. Please just leave them alone.

[starnightlover]

Knowing that both me and my s/o have never been treated like normal people (from a very small judgemental town in my cr) all because of our interests and how we express ourselves makes knowing that we love each other for all of our likings all the more special to me. We get to show each other we aren't people who deserve the treatment we get, that we both get to show each other the love we never experienced elsewhere.

That to me. Is such a huge motivational element for me to shift.

I miss him <\3

[starnightlover]

Hey so i just had a dream whichwas veryyy veryy similar to my dr. And i know a 100% that it was a dream and not a shift.. it was only a like different from my dr..What do you think i should make out of this? Is this a sign that i was close ?

It's definitely a sign! You've impressed your subconscious. You'll soon shift!

Remember that you are already in your DR! 🖤

[starnightlover]

did you ever had doubts about shifting when you were shifting? Because I am having doubts and also having trouble persisting because of my adhd and ocd. All I have to do to shift is say I am there?

Oh yeah, it's hard to not doubt you know? You're still human even if you are pure consciousness and the god of your reality. I as well struggle from adhd and ocd, I find that listening to affirmations on repeat helps me, since I don't have to worry about any other method, it helps impress my subconscious without overwhelming myself. So maybe that can help you? It might not be because we are different people who experience different things but I hope it can help! Seriously all you gotta do is say you're there and keep persisting in that! You'll know how real it is when you open your eyes in your DR.

[starnightlover]

would it work to script that i’m heterosexual in my dr even though i prefer women in my cr? i just figured that it’s still my mind that is with me when i shift, yk?

Yep! The version of you that is heterosexual already exists, you're just becoming aware of that version!

[starnightlover]

how just being in our cr can hinder our ability to shift.

“you think that the comfortable familiar keeps you protected but all of does is keep you stagnate.”

ive never seen anyone speak about this but id like to touch on it. i was going to throw this onto the bottom of another tumblr post i was planning on making but — although short — it’s an important thing to consider.

comfort is designed to obviously, keep you comfortable. even if you want to get out of a situation or change apart of your life, you may struggle to do so because that change isn’t predictable. comfort isn’t just happiness, it’s sadness or destructive behaviors because your used to it.

you are used to this reality. you can script anything, watch all the movies, know all the lore, read about your favorite characters but you will never fully know what it’s like to shift to a specific place, until after you’ve already done it. abandoning our comfort to better ourselves or change circumstances is that hardest things we can do — shifting or bettering our current reality. even if you want to shift, it’s a change in environment & in many cases leaving everything you know.

human beings are hardwired to search for comfort & of that comfort is already found, it will make it that much harder to leave it. it keeps you the same; in the same reality, at the same job, the same toxic partner. in the quote i mentioned above from this article here, mentions keeping you protected & away from suffering. while our brain sees it as a good thing, this comfort can trap you because your brain is protecting you.

if we take this within the content of shifting to a place like supernatural, our brains could be sensing a threat level & on a deeper level stopping us from achieving our desires because they have the probability of hurting us. of course, in this specific example, I have no proof. the proof I do have is the knowledge that our brains try to protect us & shield is from uncomfortable situations.

[starnightlover]

Hii I just saw ur post about ur stance on changing your sexuality in your DR and I was just wondering your opinion on having a different race/ethnicity in your DR. I know this is a pretty controversial topic, as you may have seen on TikTok or YouTube, so you definitely don’t need to answer if you don’t want to, I was just curious.

The reason I’m asking is because I’ve been wondering about this topic a lot recently as a lot of people think it’s bad, but I’ve never seen someone give an actual reason for it, at least not one that makes sense to me.

That reality will exist even if you don't shift to it, so why not become aware of it if you choose to? You can shift to be a different race, it's okay! I promise you no matter what people say it's your DR, not theirs. People love to fearmonger. You're not being transracial. You're simply shifting to a reality where you're that race! So what's the big deal? Literally you already were there. It's not something bad or morally wrong imo. And my blog will always be a safe space for people who script the controversial subjects 🖤

[starnightlover]

is it okay to be the opposite gender in another dr especially for trans shifters?

Absolutely!!! You can script anything you want! If it makes you happy do it!

[starnightlover]

not really an ask, but i just wanted to tell you that i accidentally found some posts of yours about permashifting and changing sexualities when shifting and it made me feel really safe and seen, so thank you <3

i recently joined shiftblr after having gotten off of shifttok and there’s so much drama there regarding all of those things and just people sticking their noses everywhere.

so thank you for having such a safe and open minded approach to everything! followed! <3

Hi, ong this made my day. Honestly I am so glad that you feel safe and seen. You deserve to be safe and seen in a community where you're not shamed for your desires! My blog will always be a safe space for anyone who is shifting no matter what their scripting or whatever else there is! Shiftblr is an amazing place and I'm sorry glad you ditched shifttok because it's ruined so many people mentally and spiritually 💔

I will always be here! Whenever you feel you need a safe space my little corner of Tumblr will gladly accept you with open arms.

[starnightlover]

You’re not stuck in this reality.

Have you ever heard of someone who shifted to their DR and couldn’t shift back to their OR?

No!

Shifting back to your OR is easy because you know it’s easy, you know you can’t get stuck.

All reality’s are the same value, one of them isn’t just easier to shift to. You can just as easily shift to your DR as shifitng back to your OR.

SHIFTING IS SO EASY, GO SHIFT!!!

[starnightlover]

You wanna shift and be a whole different person or being, even to the T of your feelings and thoughts? Do it.