strbrryfemme

[strbrryfemme]

gotta be honest it feels like you hate butches or at least dont see them as actual people if you actually think they can perpetuate misogyny/the patriarchy

kind of long response after cut

i knew some people wouldn't like the mentions of misogyny/patriarchy kink, which is why i didn't bring it up until now and probably won't mention it again or often since thats not what i want my blog to be known for. that being said, i did specify that my interest in these things are purely in the context of kink, with both me and my partners consent. if my partner isn't comfortable with that kind of fantasy, i'm not going to force it onto them, which i'd hope they do the same for me given any kink they're interested in where i'm not. and again, if you were to participate in this sort of kink, your partner shouldn't actually be misogynistic or hate you because of your femininity. once the scene is over, you should be able to feel comfortable and safe and be reassured that anything they said or did within the scene doesn't actually reflect how they feel about you. i feel like this is constantly being said, but a fantasy shared in private between two (or more) people cannot perpetuate negative ideals. butches are very near and dear to me (as friends, as partners, in every way), and i want to be able to have sexual experiences with them thats both enjoyable for them and me, which sometimes means kinks that aren't as popular in the community.

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Something about hearing her whining “fuck me” over and over again….mmmm….

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remember to pavlov your partner with your favourite perfume or cologne so they go feral whenever they smell it🤍

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please stop acting like i'm the love of your life. i'm just a femme on the internet i promise you there are other people like me

[strbrryfemme]

so uhh. do you want to come over and sit on my lap? i can tell you how breathtaking you are, every little thing that i’d worship about you? my lips against your neck as my hands roam your body?

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How tf does a misogyny kink work with a butch when she's also a woman?

well, first, not all butches identify as women!! and also, outside of the context of kink, women can still be misogynistic. but i get what you mean— and basically, its a fantasy. your partner isn't (or at least shouldn't be) actually misogynistic. thats why i put misogyny and patriarchy kink together, because they go hand-in-hand for me. being the femme, its like they (my butch partner) own me while they take on the more masculine provider role. basically treating me like their housewife and controlling everything i do (within the fantasy and with my consent).

it could also include fucking you like they hate you. which i've always been a fan of.

[strbrryfemme]

dreaming about having a pretty bunny on top of me, fucking them open real slow, hearing them whine and pant. i ask "is it too big bunny?" and they whimper and nod against my chest. "don't worry, we'll make it fit," i growl, reaching my arm down to rub their asshole slowly, fucking up into them gently as i get deeper and deeper inside them

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How would you feel about a 30 year old butch hitting on you?

come into my dms and find out (plsplsplsplspls)

[strbrryfemme]

new to ur blog but felt like sharing one of my hot takes

Being a sub top is hotter than being pinned down and fucked— imo.

Like, yes, let me grab your hips so hard it hurts— but ask for permission while stuttering with shaky hands and pupils blown because I want it so bad. Let me fuck you so hard I start whining and sobbing against your shoulder because I know it hurts you but I can’t stop. Let me rut into you and look down at you with needy eyes, barely keeping myself consistent that you have to bark orders at me to keep going and not stop because my thrusts are sloppy. Let me need it so badly that I can’t help but make you take it while I whine for you to let me.

Hell yeah guys.

okay firstly, i'd like to apologise for not answering this ask sooner. i kept forgetting. secondly, i actually get a lot of asks and dms of people expecting me to dom them. its fine, but it also confuses me. because despite me not outwardly stating my preferences, i do feel like i make it obvious that i'm mostly a sub. however, this...

this is one of those very few times where i'm like, yeah. i like being a dom. i'm not gunna talk about it too much because thats not what i want to be known for and i don't want to encourage more people to try and sub for me, but having someone top me and be so desperate while i talk to them all condescendingly... one of my fantasies

[strbrryfemme]

to be part of a village is to be a villager ik that but like how do you befriend your mutuals. how do you interact with them without feeling weird about it

[strbrryfemme]

i love when a butch is actually just a gross pervert

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just so you know i know this dynamic is toxic and i'm not romanticizing it :/ i'm actually sexualizing it

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i used to think misogyny/patriarchy kink was ick until i discovered butches can do it

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"stop fucking crying" butch x femme thats lost count of how many times shes come

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femme that spends hours doing her hair and makeup perfectly x butch that knows its pointless because he's gunna fuck her until it's ruined anyway

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If she gets tired bouncing on it, grab her hips and use her like a fleshlight, she won’t mind

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ꨄ︎ Butch, who refuses to cum unless it's from using her fuck toy. for Femme, who loves being her butch's free-use fuck toy. ꨄ︎