stygiangays

[stygiangays]

I am in no way trying to hide the fact that I understand that people who seek out sex do not fit under a label that means no sexual desire. also I'm not arguing with kids on the internet. you are only harming yourself by enmeshing your identity with contradictory labels. no one ever benefitted from slapping a dozen microlabels with conflicting definitions on themself as a teenager and I would know because I did it.

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

"do whatever you want forever" did irreparable damage to this website lol like no actually words do mean things and you are in fact hurting other people by using the language of marginalized groups you are not a part of. sorry this conflicts with your self-image as a chill easygoing uwu bean. sometimes gatekeeping is both good and necessary.

[stygiangays]

Y’all are so into fake progressive bs that you act as if being in a cis m/f relationship isn’t literally the norm

[stygiangays]

it’s like the discourse brained ppl on here think sexual attraction is when you see someone and your eyes pop out of your head and you go AWOOGA and pop a huge boaner. meanwhile 99% of the time it’s “if that person asked to have sex i wouldn’t say no” and if that’s how you are about your partner or friend. you are sexually attracted to them

[stygiangays]

Hey everyone, is it gay for a man to kiss a woman?

Is that peak male homosexual behavior? Kissing a woman in public and enjoying it? Is that what gay men do?

Or do you just like calling people faggots.

[stygiangays]

saying this to a corrective rape survivor is genuinely evil

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

I am a gay man. We don't do that shit. Anyone who does is bisexual. Words mean things and you don't get to pretend bi people are homosexual because you want to be us so bad.

Also "attraction is not action" is literally word for word what evangelical christians say when they put us in conversion therapy for being exclusively attracted to the same gender, which is something you might understand if you were gay.

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

this entire response is proof that you are not my closest neighbor in any sense of the word and never will be

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

"sexuality is fluid" is so insidious and has been turned into something that's frankly just flat out evil. like it wasn't enough for y'all to say that lesbian doesn't mean lack of attraction to men, now you have to claim that ackshually no label means anything and everyone is bisexual and there are no words that mean "attracted exclusively to the same gender". and your evidence is comphet and sex work and some nebulous claim that "lesbians just love fucking men if they're horny!" or "well maybe some gay people just don't think sex is a big deal and will fuck anyone for fun!"

gay people having straight sex is called comphet, it is in fact a big deal, it's traumatic, and we don't need yet another group of people constantly reminding us that straight sex is an option and we don't actually have to be icky homosexuals. this is not distinguishable from the shit conservative christians say, which you people would understand if you were actually gay.

[stygiangays]

you are actually fucking evil for acting like comphet is at all comparable to genuine attraction to the opposite gender and I'm not joking. your opinion is worthless for that fact alone

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

people also used to call bi people straight when they were in m/f relationships but I don't see you all clamoring to reclaim that one

why should we be the ones who have to change how we refer to our sexualities because you all want in on our terms? you are very much not the ones these words are for if you're attracted to multiple genders. get over it.

anyway stop minimizing comphet, shut up about how gay people can love straight sex (which is funnily enough also what christian homophobes tell us, you people are functionally indistinguishable), and stop using our terms <3

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

genuinely what do you suggest homosexuals call ourselves then? what words should exist for the group of people who do not experience attraction to or have sex with the opposite gender, if not lesbian and gay? or are you just so set on fantasizing about gay people willingly having straight sex that you don't think we should be allowed to have language that utterly precludes that as a possible desire?

I'm sorry you disagree with the language gay people have for ourselves but that is entirely a you problem and reality will not bend to your will because you don't like to acknowledge that people who enjoy straight sex categorically are not lesbians or gay men. the one who's acting like a little baby over words meaning things is you, and frankly, how dare you pretend gay people are overreacting to people like you coming into our spaces and saying our words mean nothing?

Love /sarcastic how almost all of these are just bizarre ideas that you can only think up if you're trying to be funny on purpose, and then there's mspec lesbian discourse shoved right into it.

But if I point it out, I'm "missing the joke".

[stygiangays]

anyway being gay4gay is completely fine and it's incel behavior to whine about other people's dating preferences not including you

I think every lesbian who says she wouldn't date a bi woman is functionally on the same wavelength as men who say they would only marry a virgin

[stygiangays]

i love how tumblr users are like dead ass serious “yeah i desired sex with someone but that doesn’t mean im attracted to them” like can i ask what they think sexual attraction is if not “would have sex with”