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To all the men reading this

You are HUMAN. You are WORTHY. You deserve LOVE. You deserve AFFECTION. You deserve to be CARED FOR. You deserve HEALTHY and LOVING relationships. Don't EVER let these misandrists get into your heads and make you feel depressed about yourselves. They are merely DELUSIONAL and driven by their own IGNORANCE and SELFISHNESS. Not to mention, they are TOXIC and MANIPULATIVE and hold CORRUPTED views. So to all the men reading this, have a WONDERFUL and BLESSED day. You deserve that!

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Feminism was created to put both women and men on an equal scale. I mean, it's an equal rights movement, but misandrists want it all to themselves. They tear men down to lift themselves up, and it isn't good for the movement. It only brings us farther away from equality, and makes men hate us even more.

Also revenge wouldn't count as equality, really. If women did actually stoop down to men's level, it would only make the world a worse place than it already is.

I cannot stress this enough but misandry is not feminism. Misandrists are a group of women who hold toxic views about men, belittling them and laughing off their issues. They see men as nothing but predatory and dangerous, but when it comes to women who commit awful acts, they don't care. They're silent because they refuse to believe that women are capable of such acts.

That's not what feminism is about. If you truly want equality then you should care about both female and male issues. A true feminist would rather stand with men than stand against them. Feminism isn't about tearing men down to empower women, it's about standing alongside them.

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Girl you're the problematic one here, not me. Like how do you live with yourself, holding such views?

I cannot stress this enough but misandry is not feminism. Misandrists are a group of women who hold toxic views about men, belittling them and laughing off their issues. They see men as nothing but predatory and dangerous, but when it comes to women who commit awful acts, they don't care. They're silent because they refuse to believe that women are capable of such acts.

That's not what feminism is about. If you truly want equality then you should care about both female and male issues. A true feminist would rather stand with men than stand against them. Feminism isn't about tearing men down to empower women, it's about standing alongside them.

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It's actually unfair to assume that every man out there is a creep. I mean, most men just want healthy and loving relationships. Why is that hard for you misandrists to understand?

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like as a trans man i have repeatedly had more cis women be misandrist to me and then when i tell them they're doing such their reactions are always wildly on the opposite ends of the spectrum and neither are good

one is always "how can i be misandrist when you're not a man :(((" and the other is on the complete opposite end of "yeah well you deserve it because you're a MAN and MEN don't deserve my kindness" or whatever bullshit excuse they wanna make up and it's like.. so fucking annoying.

like. sure. there are a lot of oppressive men. but i can assure you, very greatly, that your trans man friend is not immediately one of them as soon as he comes out. and i can assure you that we are not "betraying our femininity" when over half of us DIDN'T FUCKING WANT IT IN THE FIRST PLACE.

and then there's the entire can of worms of people claiming misandry and androphobia aren't even real, not to MENTION how some people shit their britches in anger when you so much as MENTION transmisandry and transandrophobia.

like, genuinely, how do you even MANAGE to have friends with how rancid you must act on the daily with fuckass opinions like these.

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Honestly, what do you hope to achieve by telling men to kill themselves? You're no better than them. I hope you realise what an awful person you are. Like it's just sad that someone like you exists.

Watching Reddit suck men’s dicks and cry about misandry right now is making me insane. I hope male suicide rates go up. I hope they all fucking kill themselves. No man will ever be able to understand the struggles of misogyny.

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it's crazy to me how people now actually think it's progressive to sexually degrade random men by emasculating them and then further emasculate them if they dare to be uncomfortable with being sexually harrassed

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trans man: exists

TERFs: obviously SHE'S been groomed by the evil queers to hate herself and to seek an escape from the patriarchy by becoming the patriarchy

"trans friendly" radfems: no, he's a MAN and he was always a man because that's how gender works. which meanssss he's inherently an aggressor and part of the patriarchy and cannot relate to real women and thus an inherent danger to them unless proven otherwise!

trans man: 😐

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I don't see how you misandrists think that misandry is a good thing when it's not. Like all you do is sit there and act like every man is violent and a creep when honestly there are so many decent men out there. You want men to respect you but you make posts about how men are worthless and deserve to die. And whenever you see women stick up for men, you get mad and call them 'pick me's'.

Like I'm baffled as to how your misandry will make this world a better place when it only makes things worse. Honestly, I don't think that I could ever sympathise with you.

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Misandrists, who are toxic and treat men like shit: Have boyfriends/husbands who cherish them and treat them like queens

Me, who cares about and respects men: Is single

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I never look for profit in relationships. I don't make friends, thinking they might benefit me somehow. I only build relationships with people when my heart feels comfortable with them. I believe in friendships that age like wine. I am not a leaver; I never leave people until they force me to go by pushing me to a place where I don't have anything to offer them, and I feel I have lost myself. My self-respect is everything to me because I love myself. Don't mess with my heart; don't hurt me because if I can love you with all my heart, I can also forget about your entire existence with all my heart. Once my heart is wounded, I disappear from people's lives as If I have never met them; if I am gone, I am gone forever, but if you treat me with love and respect, you will have your forever person.

@scribblersobia

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In middle school I had no friends because I was depressed from gender dysphoria and didn't take care of myself... and yet I was incredibly kind and meant no harm. Our school system teaches stereotypes and promotes a toxic social hierarchy. There is no top or bottom but a complex mixture of colors. We are not creating structure in our society, we are creating a nation full of socially anxious followers. - Nickel Stillnight

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I Look Outside The Window

I wonder where my brain went from here

It's a wonder why all I feel is fear

Triggered emotions of past, brought me to my new chaotic laugh

Should stop reading in between lines

"Why must you should be seen everytime?"

Keep your emotions at bay, this life is not yours to take.

And with that ridiculous fate, you have once been fooled all and again

Heaven said you need to learn things

That are involve in this stage.

I may be in the same house

With people I don't know now

I look outside the window

Cause I know I don't belong in this home.

So I look outside the window

Searching for people I know

Familiar faces of the past, present and future.

I look outside the window

Why must I think so shallow?

I still feel lonely in a crowded room.

Stack of paperwork had came down

I'm relieved cause it's my distraction now

But I'm still, at the moment, stuck in this couch.

My chest feels so tight and it feels harder to breath

It's like an infarction is a near second to beat

What a weak heart.

And no one notices in the house that I'm in

I'm slowly loosing my shit, going downsouth

My mind is spiraling downsouth.

And so I look outside the window

Hoping someone would call the paramedics to follow

This might feel all psychological, but it's manifesting into a somatic disorder.

I look outside the window

With my eyes crying for help to come follow

"Why am I so shallow?"

Triggered emotions of the past.

Karmic display of an old man's wrath.

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Go Ahead and Breathe

...

What do you do

When you have unaccomplished days—

Tasks are left on lists to fend

For themselves,

Errands are impatiently waiting

Just to find out their precious time

Has been rescheduled

At an unknown date, or if they're lucky,

Maybe tomorrow.

The only thing you are capable of

Getting done

Is making sure you're taking the time

To breathe—

So go ahead a breathe—

That's accomplishment enough.

...

Andi Leigh

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I cannot stress this enough but misandry is not feminism. Misandrists are a group of women who hold toxic views about men, belittling them and laughing off their issues. They see men as nothing but predatory and dangerous, but when it comes to women who commit awful acts, they don't care. They're silent because they refuse to believe that women are capable of such acts.

That's not what feminism is about. If you truly want equality then you should care about both female and male issues. A true feminist would rather stand with men than stand against them. Feminism isn't about tearing men down to empower women, it's about standing alongside them.

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If you're contemplating suicide, please don’t do it. Don't kill yourselves, as your lives are more valuable than you think. No matter how tough life seems right now, suicide is a permanent action to a temporary situation and is not the solution. Once you commit it, there's no going back. Suddenly removing yourselves from this plane of existence will only pass that pain and hurt onto loved ones, and you really don't want that. Please remember that you've got a lot of people in this life who love you and care about you. They want to see you achieve your dreams and ambitions. You've come so far in this life and accomplished so much, why throw that away?

So please go out there and live your lives to the fullest. You deserve that ❤️

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Fun fact: ace people can wear clothing which can be interpreted as sexual despite being ace.

like

Just because someone has skin showing doesn’t mean they want to have sex. Thinking that sexual seeming clothing means someone wants to have sex is…kinda just really weird

this also applies to allo people (duh) but there was some stuff at the time going on with ace people so this post was primarily focused on ace people