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being into piss and not being into diapers is crazy to me honestly. they're cute and they're humiliating and they make cleanup less of a hassle and they make a great punishment for accidents and did I mention how cute they are. they're so cute. I can't believe people are into piss but don't like diapers. makes no sense.

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Recently i’ve been fantasizing about my mommy making me “fuck” her while i sill have my diaper on, just humping against her butt or pussy desperately trying to get release

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I love control. Every single sexual fantasy I have involves me taking control away from someone. I love it in so many different forms but for me there is one way that seems the most intense, most charged, most powerful. And that is ageplay. I would love to explain why.

Note: I will be using kiddo here but the implication that kiddo is at an age where they are universally agreed that they are capable of consent (in my opinion, at least 18 years old)

I think that making someone act like a child is the most controlling thing you can do. Other forms of bdsm denies the sub of things, autonomy, sexual freedom, rights, etc... but in ageplay I think the focus is on permission. When you have a kiddo, they are your responsibility. It is not about what has been taken away from them but more about what they are allowed to have. Because after all you are the responsible adult who knows best.

It hits harder because you are regressing them to position of power they have already been in. Everyone has been a child, everyone has had to rely on someone that was responsible for them. And they eventually grew and put themselves in a situation where they are independent and self sustaining. When I take that away from someone I am saying "I am taking away all of the lessons, the work, the time, the effort it took to get you where you are. I like you better when you are reliant on me"

It is only sexual when I decide it is. If I ever had the wonderful opportunity to daddy you, you would learn that it is not just constant teasing or foreplay. A diaper takes time to get wet, you need to be fed, you will find yourself in a situation where you are doing exactly what I want, and that thing may be playing a child appropriate board game at the table together. I find sex to be a collaboration, but one that I lead. You will find yourself in a spot where no matter how horny you are, or how sexy you try to make yourself look, I have full control over when and where the foreplay starts and stops. And that is intoxicating

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The moment you realize your punishment is inescapable is both terrifying and exhilarating.

For me its normally around the 4th or 5th spank where I think sh*t this actually really hurts a lot...

Then there's a feeling, a cold sprinkling that spreads out from my shoulders and run downs my back as I realize that despite me already being in pain and making embarrassingly childish noises...

I still have a ways to go before its over...

And that hopelessness makes me feel so alive.

I am stuck. I am going to be punished no matter what I do. No matter how much I wiggle, whimper, and cry I will be punished thoroughly.

And I deserve it obviously because despite how I make him out to be, my Daddy doesn't punish me if I don't deserve it. So I must deserve it... right?

Anyway... about at this point after all this has run through my head, I'm around 10 spanks in. This also is where my Daddy pauses and gives my booty a rub to cool down a bit, which is always very much appreciated.

Right here I start getting the feeling of "Oh ok its almost over I can get through this" and by time I've sucked it up we've gotten to 15, which is when my Daddy normally checks in briefly to make sure I'm ok to continue, which again, is very much appreciated.

Normally this is where my voice gets higher and higher as I stop actually pretending to be a big boy and instead whimper... beg like the baby he wants me to be.

Then this feeling somehow rises from my calves and continues all the way to my ears, which feels just like slowly stepping into a warm pool of water as we get closer to the end... the final hit...

Then nothing... Stillness... as it is determined whether or not I've learned my lesson. And then I hear the words...

"Turn around"

Suddenly realize how tense all my muscles are. Sometimes after longer sessions I will collapse onto the bed, couch, ground, whatever because of the ache from being tensed for so long.

And then there's the best part. Feeling his hand on my shoulder, his words comforting me, and me repeating back the lesson I learned... followed by a big hug and all the attention I could ever want...

Its practically perfect 🥰

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what are your biggest pieces advice for a beginner cg that hasn’t had a diapered little before?

I'm gonna give you a few but the biggest one I can suggest is learn bdsm safety tools. Negotiation, safewords, aftercare, enthusiastic consent. Tbh anyone doing anything in power play should learn these for safety but also it helps you a ton to know the right questions to ask to make sure you and your little have the best experience. Also it's fucking hot, ask any little if they find it hot that you have the skills to communicate and help them feel safe.

I also recommend you work on communicating when you're burnt out and communicating what things help you feel appreciated. Every notice how almost every Tumblr Dom is on the verge of mental breakdown from time to time? The biggest reason is that mental illness and kink have some heavy overlap but taking care of someone is hard. You will have high ambitions but even though taking care of someone is hot as hell and rewarding, it's also a ton of effort.

But past that here's a little bit niche advice:

Look up a video on how to put an abdl diaper. You ever notice how models diapers always look so hot? There's definitely some things that aren't completely obvious that totally help. On a side note, everyone's body is different so take that into consideration that the videos online tend to only cater to one body type.

Be confident in your voice, talk tons. "Let's get you up on the bed so we can change you kid. Oh wow you wet this one a ton" is a lot hotter than "Its time for a diaper change". Tell them "I'm putting a bib on you so you don't make a mess" "hey you're looking a little soggy, come here so I can check you" "hey I need you to hold my hand to cross the street, I want to keep you safe"

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The A in ABDL stands for adult. You shouldn't want to behave like a child 100% of the time. If you do that, you aren't capable of providing the kind of adult emotional support that a partner needs, and you shouldn't be with anyone right now. You are an adult first and foremost. An adult choosing to engage in kink play. If you disagree with that, you are not a well-adjusted person.

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Gamification of Kink

A skill that I think overlaps between my abilities as a dungeon master and as a dom is the ability to gamify just about anything. By that I mean creating a set if rules for an individual scene that make a sub feel like they can win. For example, last night we gamified legos in the kinkiest way possible.

The Thanos Gauntlet lego set is a relatively simple build with only three bags of pieces. I created a different goal for each bag and let her know I’d explain each bag as we went and told her what the consequences would look like if she broke any of the rules.

Bag 1 -

This was her first time building legos so for bag one we started off simple. “Don’t make any mistakes”. After each page I would check her work and make sure she was building it correctly, tallying her mistakes. The point of this first bag was to establish the dynamic at the top of the scene. When she got a page correct I would praise her and when she got one wrong I would let her know that it’s ok and she’s just to small and still learning.

Total mistakes - 5

Bag 2 -

For the second bag we take it up a notch. This is the point where I gave her a rule that made her feel like she could win. “Daddy’s going to play with you and your vibrator while you build. Still no mistakes and no cumming until the bag is done”. For this bag anytime a mistake was made I would tally it and then turn off the vibe until she could figure it out and fix it. The further we got the more desperate and adorable she got. Bag two ended with lots of praise and a long awaited orgasm.

Total Mistakes - 12

Bag Three -

So after bag two my sub was obviously a little desperate and so we just followed the natural progression with the next rule. “Daddy is going to keep playing with you as long as you keep building. You can cum as many times as you like. Still no mistakes”. Playing with some overstimulation on this one. This bag was definitely the most fun on my end as I got to watch her just melt into a horny desperate puddle while trying to focus on the legos in front of her.

Total Mistakes - 21

Total Orgasms - 6

With the last few pieces of bag three she was holding back trying to finish the set. When the last piece went into place she collapsed over my had and I pulled her in and praised her as she came one last time.

Once she came down a bit, I directed her attention back to the tallied white board marked “mistakes” and asked if she wanted to take care of that now or later. She decided now. Each mistake counted for 30 seconds kneeling in front of me on top of any of the leftover Lego bricks. Followed by plenty of cuddles and aftercare.

Overall 10/10, definitely recommend making legos kinky.

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So your caregiver is into denial and you want to do more than make pathetic little noises to help them enjoy it (and if they enjoy it maybe they'll let you cum. Here are some things I would personally find extremely hot:

- Every Dom/me I know loves seeing soaked panties/underwear but most of them should realize that not everyone's body acts the same way. So show them how your body is reacting. "God I can't wear my favorite shirt because my nipples are so hard", "I just got a shiver from that thought", "I can't think straight at work because you have me so wound up". Extra points if your horniness ends up with you doing something humiliating "my cock rubbed against the bed frame as I walked by and I couldn't help myself I just kept doing it" or "during the movie I kept crossing and uncrossing my legs because just so I could feel a little bit of pressure in my pussy"

- I would probably jump out of my body if someone asked for help staying denied, "I think if my hands are free then I won't be able to stop myself from playing, can you please put them in mittens" or "I was hoping I could get double diapers tonight because I am too horny not to hump every chance I get". Add in extra points if you act like you regret it later.

- ask to help in other ways because you obviously are too little to fuck. Maybe ask to have a Fleshlight/strap on attached to the front of your diaper because you want as close as you can get to being fucked. Or ask to give them oral because their pleasure is more important than yours.

- Let your caregiver know how desperate you are to cum, say you'll do anything like wear diapers for a week or train your ass for them. Say you'll humiliate yourself or take as many spanks as you can give. Communicate with your partner how often you want them to actually let you cum that's comfortable with you. If you never want to be let cum then they can just deny these requests or if you only just like the fantasy of not being allowed but want them to let you cum anyways. Or personally somewhere in between so you feel like you have a legitimate shot of getting off so you beg as hard as you can.

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Petition for more boys to be tied up all pretty in rope and put in stress positions with wands pressed between their thighs.

Please sign below by rebloging ⬇️

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The masculine urge to have all my adult privileges taken away, be forced into a diaper, and babied by a pretty woman is strong today. ⛓🍼

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Letting you have a whole day of big kid undies after you begged Mommy for months. Though you can feel Mommy watching you throughout the whole day, just waiting for you to fail. And when you do? Mommy will be cooing over you after you have an accident, telling you that it's not your fault that you're just a baby who can't control yourself.

Mommy will be patting your soaked bottom before carrying you to the changing table. As you protest that you don't need diapers and that it won't happen again, I'll use scissors to cut off your soaked underwear, rolling them up into a ball and stuffing them into your mouth.

Then I'll proceed with your diaper change as normal, the soaked garments in your mouth reminding you of why Mommy keeps you in diapers. Next time, Mommy won't be so careless as to let you out of diapers for even one day. Because you're a helpless little pottypants who's not quite big enough to have any control over that bladder.

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Humbly requesting someone drag me across their lap and spank me until I'm balling and babling like the baby I am please and thanks. could you also shove a pacifier in my mouth when you're done and coo me until the tears have ran dry 🥺🥺

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“if you keep throwing a tantrum everytime I change you into a diaper then you're clearly not not mature enough to go out without one”

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So your caregiver has a humiliation fetish and you want to do more to drive them nuts so they have no choice but to put their hands all over you. Here's some tips that I would love if a little did to me.

- I think the most hot thing that a little can do is be humiliated but not too humiliated to act horny. For example put your head in their chest in shame and hide your face but also rub the front of your diaper.

- try and fail to use adult things, nothing is hotter than seeing someone fail to be an adult. Maybe you get tangled in the rope when trying to learn shibari, or you "hurt" yourself with the big kid toys. Hell even wearing adult clothes and watching as you look ridiculous with a large diaper on. Then watch as your caregiver shows you how to use them correctly.

- Say out loud what struggles you're facing, caregivers get off on the empathy so make sure you share your thoughts when something is hard. "I can't walk straight because of the thickness between my legs" "I want to play with myself but these mittens make it hard" "it's very hard to hide anything from you when you put me on your lap, you can see all of me even the pathetic parts"

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Rules for little me, feel free to add suggestions in the comments or my ask box 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤭🤭🤭🤭

1) No pants at home, panties pull-ups and diapers are okay,

2) When you are at home (baring foreced adulting) mandatory little time,

3) Ask to go potty every time

Three answers may be given

1 yes

2 yes but no removing underwear

3 no

4) You must suck your thumb or paci when going potty even in public

5)All toliet use is to be done sitting down

6)Must ask to change out of a diaper, except when needing to make #2

7) You are allowed to use the potty to go number while diapered but if you pee while going #2 you will collect and drink the pee or pour it back into the diaper which is immediately put back on after

8) When we are together you can't change your diapers I have to

9) Diaper checks/ undergarment can be given at any time must responde with photo with in 5 minutes

10) 2 times a week meals will be eaten out of a dog bowl the rest of the time you eat and drink like a toddler little utensils and bib or hands only

11) 3 times a week is oral training,

12) 2 times a week is anal training

13) You will receive a maintenance spanking once a week

14) No o words over 2 syllables,

15) When Paci is present all responses are to be emojis unless otherwise stated

16) No autocorrect

17) Must misspell anything with an R or W (make it sound like youre age)

18) You have to ask permission to make cummies,

19) Brush teeth at least twice a day

20) Drink at least 15 cups or 3 litres of water a day,

21) You will not argue when you get complimented and will not talk bad about yourself

@littleembers

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Mommy hogtying you in your crib and pressing the buzzy wand against your thick, soggy diaper until you have no choice but to break the "no stickies" rule