switchytransboy

[switchytransboy]

i feel like i’m in this constant state of trying to better myself, get my real adult life started, and become the more social/put together version of me i wanna become… but the constant drastically changing politics, societal changes, economic changes, and so much more just keep me feeling stuck in this race i can’t win while time keeps passing me by.

it’s so hard to just have enough time in the day for yourself and especially for others it gets so exhausting. it’s getting to a point where i just feel like the government is doing this on purpose to further isolate us by stealing our time from us for their profit.

i just… wanna be able to pay my bills, work a job i don’t hate that makes me enough money to live, make some new friends, and have enough time and energy left in the day to hang out with those friends and enjoy life more. it feels so suffocating living in America where it’s just a constant race to a nonexistent finish line and never catching up unless you’re privileged. i’m so tired and my 20’s have been so stressful i’m gonna be 30 one of these days looking back at how i never got to enjoy them like the generations before me did.

[switchytransboy]

avery is hot & super ticklish - halo

[switchytransboy]

”trans men are the weakest links of the trans community” my trans male friends and I have lived a lifetime of having our bodily autonomy stripped away to the point of sexual harassment. people talk about our bodies like everyone except us owns them because no one can handle the idea of precious female bodies being “mutilated” by gender affirming care. we are treated like traitors by women and as confused, silly girls by men. we have no spaces in which we belong because even the queer community tries to control our bodies. if we pass as men then we get ousted from queer-friendly spaces, and if we don’t pass as men we’re treated like cringe, theyfab trenders. everything we love is considered annoying. we’re called ugly and sad and “what a shame you guys are men haha”. We have to watch as society uses us as an excuse to ban gender affirming care for young people because our bodies belong to the government, because our bodies belong to our mothers, and because our anatomy is the only thing they see us as. And then we have to sit back as the trans community blames us for these bans. “All of these fake transtrenders are the reason they all hate us” when we’re busy having the women in our lives scrutinise our bodies to make sure we’re not being “infected” by the trans contagion. There’s no space we can belong in. No space that tries to make us feel welcome because either they treat us like women or they treat us like dangerous, cis men.

Every trans man I know has been sexually assaulted. Every trans man I know has been brought to suicide attempts, either due to their families or due to people online bullying them to death. Our struggles are constantly diminished and yet behind the scenes we’re fucking exhausted from fighting attacks from every single goddamn side. How fucking dare you call us weak. We’re going through fucking hell like every other goddamn trans person out there and our bodies are being abused and controlled and scrutinised every day of our fucking lives. Have you seen how TERFs talk about our bodies? How they lament us “mutilating” our breasts, our fertility, our anatomy, all in the name of feminism. That’s sexual fucking harassment, and it’s disgusting. But that’s all they fucking see us as. We’re not human, we’re just defected specimens. Cis women give themselves free passes to harass our bodies because they see us as “one of them”. One of them, but wrong. One of them, but need to be fixed. My mother regularly checks my chest to make sure I’m not trying to flatten it, and she can get away with it because “that’s what mothers do to their daughters.” Even when I’m not her daughter. Even when I’m screaming at the top of my lungs wanting to die because my body doesn’t belong to me. My body stopped belonging to me as soon as I came out as trans, because female empowerment doesn’t apply to me anymore. Female empowerment is now about “correcting” me, to restore my body back to its former glory, because only then was I worth something.

We are not weak. We are strong as fuck for dealing with the shit we have to deal with. And the worst part is, so much of the bullying comes from other trans men. We’ve been taught to hate ourselves so much that the only way to get ahead is to put down our own brothers and treat them in the way we’ve been treated.

There is no weak link of the community because we’re all dealing with absolute shit from all sides, but don’t you ever suggest that trans men are somehow the whiny babies who have nothing to complain about when we’re constantly holding back from screaming our guts out because there’s nothing else we can do.

[switchytransboy]

oh nooooooo i’m too high. someone should do something about it. like pinning me down and tracing shapes on my inner thighs and soles

[switchytransboy]

tklmeadi x @exotic-xscapade part 2 🪶

Here is a preview to the next part (my personal fav😏)

Lots of ass and upper body in this one (arguably my more sensitive areas 😩)

Full 17 minute video available for anyone interested!

Happy Valentine’s Day y’all 💘

[switchytransboy]

been a hot minute my bad 🫣 it’s been a chaotic up and down filled 2025 and figuring out how to navigate so much of this shit has been exhaustinggggg

but i miss tickles and i miss friends and i miss tickles with friends so hi hello i hope nobody hates me for dipping 😭🤦🏻

[switchytransboy]

how do i tell if im being avoidant socially or the connection/vibe between me and someone else just ain’t there 😭

[switchytransboy]

this is such a mood. i’ve been wanting to have sessions and meet ups with new people, i even have potential connections i can do this with.

but i’m so drained from how much i work and how much i do outside of work bc of adulting that i hardly even have the time and energy 😭

i feel like this is one of those things where the more you work your social muscles the easier it gets to initiate new connections and meet ups and get out more. i’m just still warming my social muscles up to get out more and feel like my best self when i meet new people bc im so afraid when new people meet me, ill just disappoint 😭

but my best advice for you (original author of post) as well as anyone going through this, just rip off the bandaid and start working your social muscles bc that seems like it’s the only way it’ll get easier!

It's been a really tough time for me and I would love to have a proper tickle session or go to a tickle convention here in Scotland or in the UK but I'm so tired and drained and wiped that i honestly don't know what to think.

Does that make sense or is my tired brain just f***ing with me?

[switchytransboy]

5 edibles in and i’m about to have the most nsfw tickle session high in a LONG while 😵‍💫

[switchytransboy]

Obsessed with the idea of getting teased while doing homework, knowing that as soon as I'm done I'll be tickled to pieces (⁠｡⁠ﾉ⁠ω⁠＼⁠｡⁠)

Just stuff like

- When you're typing really fast and in a grove n they go "ooo typing pretty fast hmm? Just can't wait to get tickled can you?~"

- Looking up from the assignment every once and while just to see them wiggling fingers at you ⁄⁠(⁠⁄⁠ ⁠⁄⁠•⁠⁄ ⁄⁠•⁠⁄⁠ ⁠⁄⁠)⁠⁄ like ok!! I'm working! stahap /v\

- Quick n sporadic gentle tickles where you have to try and keep working since they're just "helping you improve focus"

- In long quiet silences they just suddenly bring up how they're going to tickle you based on something they saw on your Tumblr.... Like "Oooooo!~ Your blog has some great ideas for your ribs~"

- Literally just planning out your wrecking right in front of you is so flusteriiiing!!! Like imagine them out of the blue going "Hmmmm... I think your tummy really wants tickly kisses today... Can you show me so I can check?~" N when you finally manage to show them they aaaaaalmost do it but pull away at the last minute saying "Ah I was right, so eagerrrr hmm?~ After your assignment pretty" AND THEN HAVING TO JUST DO WORK AFTER??????? Id be so 😵‍💫😵‍💫

- Sudden tickle attacks because "I thought you were finished!!"

- Checking if you need a lil break by poking you all over ෆ⁠╹⁠ ⁠.̮⁠ ⁠╹⁠ෆ

- Getting called out every time they catch you daydreaming about tickles instead of working (⁠｡⁠・⁠/⁠/⁠ε⁠/⁠/⁠・⁠｡⁠) (as though it's not literally their fault!?!?)

-Proof reading your assignment n adding time to your upcoming wrecking for every correction they make (half the corrections are unnecessary of course)

-Getting tickled for as long as the assignment took since they "had to wait sooooooo loooooooooong!!" ૮₍ ˶>⤙<˶ ₎ა

Yeaaaaaaaah this is the shit right here, so fucking flustering I love it!!! Feel free to add your own ideasss~

[switchytransboy]

my fingertips on my left hand are raw from playing so much bass and electric guitar out of stress lately lolol but it’s a good outlet for emotions so 🤪

[switchytransboy]

Hearing the phrase “I touched myself while thinking about you” makes me become so dysfunctional. Like 🫠… really?… tell me what you were thinking? Promise you’ll do it again for me? And keep telling me? Please, please, please…

[switchytransboy]

brainrot is brainrotting i need to be tickled and teased please please please

[switchytransboy]

Can you post some teasy tickle spot pics? 😋🤩🙈 Pleaseeeeeeee?

since you asked nicely and i’m already wearing a crop top today 😘 sure thang 🫶🏼

[switchytransboy]

Stop waiting to feel ready. Ready is not a feeling, it’s a decision.

[switchytransboy]

PSA TO TRANS ADULTS IN THE USA‼️‼️‼️‼️

my best friend works at an LGBTQ+ non-profit and is the director of it. he has legitimate sources that he works with to help the community and one of them that works in distributing medications said to begin preparing to potentially be cut off from hormone therapy. Trump only targeted trans youth so far when it’s come to banning hormone therapy, but he is testing how far he can take this by increasing the age to 19 and he is going to try and ban it nationwide for ALL trans people. adults included. if not banning entirely, he will at least do everything in his power to make it as hard as possible to continue receiving HRT.

i am lucky enough that i get 4 vials of T per month that are not empty after i draw my dose so i have a lot stocked up that aren’t expired to use as a last resort if and when this happens, if i can at somepoint no longer get refills.

please if you are trans and you rely on hormones, stock up. do not throw away extra/leftover vials if they’re not empty. save everything you can that isn’t expired.

it’s about to potentially get very very real and bad. it may not, but it very well could at the same time so prepare accordingly the best you can.

and please, stick together, don’t lose sight of the community around you that supports you, remember what you DO have in life that makes it worth living, and know that there will be an end to this.

stay safe, stick together, and never lose sight that there’s eventually a light at the end of this tunnel. and most importantly, don’t disappear. stay visible for the trans youth that have no one but us trans adults to look to for guidance and reassurance. we will get through this somehow, someway, someday.

[switchytransboy]

Tickling someone and then proceeding to ask "what's so funny? Are you laughing at me?"has got to be the silliest most cutest type of banter ever in tickling, and then they feed into it by saying "so what if I am?" Or I'm laughing at you" so then you just keep tickling them until they "stop laughing at you"