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there are many things tumblr as a whole has to learn but one of them is “someone can reblog a post without them endorsing every action the op has ever taken, we are not beholden to do background checks on the producers of every shitpost on the internet”

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Shoutout to everybody with DID or OSDD who keeps going back to the DID/OSDD tumblr tags even though they know they rarely find anything relatable and will only get triggered and end up yelling “That’s not how any of this works!” at their screen. 

You’re my people.

We know the fridge is empty. We keep opening it anyway. 

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allow yourself to be a beginner

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i wish people could focus more on the racism that is very present in the system community. i feel very unsafe in the community sometimes because of it

people talking about the ableism is great too! but i feel like we can also uplift poc voices about how racism is weirdly normalized and not called out as much as ableism is

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i don't think anyone should assume whether or not someone is a singlet based on the amount of system content on their blog.

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saw this cute post and now I'm not going on reddit for the rest of the day. quit while you're ahead

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It is not okay for your parent to say “I guess I’m just the worst mom/dad” when you express that you’re upset or hurt by something they said or did.

This also applies to other relationships, too. You shouldn’t be hearing “I guess I’m the worst friend/partner/etc” when you express being upset or hurt by something they did. Whether it’s intentional or not, it is manipulative.

When you’re upset, you should be allowed to express that safely without them making it about them. It shouldn’t lead you to comforting them and possibly feeling bad for saying anything (and possibly feeling too anxious to say something in the future.)

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We are a simple system. A guy fronts for 6 hours and leaves, and miraculously during that time, all 4 apples we owned disappeared. Something ate them, and it totally wasn't that guy. Him having "likes apples" in his SimplyPlural description has nothing to do with this event at all. Simply a coincidence.

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LISTEN UP MOTHER FUCKERS

SEE THIS WEBSITE? 

ITS CALLED WOLFRAM ALPHA

THIS IS THE BEST GODDAMN WEBSITE FOR ACADEMIC SHIT. FUCK GOOGLE. 

THIS MOTHERFUCKER WILL LET YOU SEARCH “HOSPITAL BEDS IN CHAD VS. IRAN” 

AND IT GIVES YOU A STRAIGHT GODDAMN ANSWER 

MAYBE YOU’RE NOT INTERESTED IN DOCTORNESS OF THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES COOL SHIT 

HAVING TROUBLE WITH MATH?

HOLY SHIT

OR MAYBE YOU WANNA DICK AROUND

WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT

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Low effort memes let me think I’m funny.

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chronic pain diagnoses are all like yeah we don't know what this is or why it happens. we also don't know how to treat it. good luck out there soldier

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An important thing to learn how to say is “I’m sorry, that was an honest mistake. What can I do to fix it?” I’ve been trying to do better with this recently. There are so many problems it can solve— accidentally hurting a friend, getting in a miscommunication loop, even stuff like arguments over fanfic content. I know I’ve been really bad at admitting mistakes and doing what I can to make things right, but I’ve been trying harder lately.

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I’ve been seeing posts going around that imply having an attachment to the body is pathological or discouraged within plural spaces.

That got me wondering what stances plurals in the community actually hold.

So…

This isn’t for a research project or anything like that. I’m genuinely just curious.

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People with low spoons, someone just recommended this cookbook to me, so I thought I’d pass it on.

I always look at cookbooks for people who have no energy/time to do elaborate meal preparations, and roll my eyes. Like, you want me to stay on my feet for long enough to prepare 15 different ingredients from scratch, and use 5 different pots and pans, when I have chronic fatigue and no dishwasher?

These people seem to get it, though. It’s very simple in places. It’s basically the cookbook for people who think, ‘I’m really bored of those same five low-spoons meals I eat, but I can’t think of anything else to cook that won’t exhaust me’. And it’s free!

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Don’t settle!