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Quick question: if u'r question your gender (I am afab and I think i might be somewhere on the NB spectrum) is it normal one moment to see posts about girls/women not feel included in that and the next be like 'nah I am cis and faking for attention'? Also for gender fluid people: how often can you 'switch' b/n genders in one day?

Ora says:

Yeah, I’d say that’s pretty normal. I definitely have moments where I’ll identify with a post about being nb and moments where I question whether I’m just faking it. I think a lot of it just comes from having spent a large part of my life believing that there was only two genders and denying opportunities to delve into and accept my gender.

As for genderfluidity and switching between genders (a phrase that I definitely wouldn’t encourage using, but don’t have the spoons to find a better one): there’s 150% no quota that must be reached to be considered a “real” genderfluid person. Your feelings and views of your gender can switch daily, hourly, whatever. You can go through long bouts of feeling like a specific gender, or only view yourself as a gender around specific people, it doesn’t matter. Your genderfluidity is valid regardless of how often you may find yourself identifying with different genders.

Hope this was helpful and sending lots of love and good vibes your way 💖

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