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other-eye · 4 months

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I GOT TO SEE LORD HURON AND HOZIER!!!! (AND CHRIS STAPLETON AND ELLE KING)

God I love my family sometimes (a lot of times). My brother got me tickets for RailBird. This is a big music festival in Lexington Kentucky and the headliners for the day I was going was Hozier and Chris Stapleton. My favorite band of all time is Lord Huron and my favorite song is The Yawning Grave and I’ve been dreaming of seeing them for years. I’ve listened to Hozier for longer and have had full religious breakdowns to his songs before. I was so excited.

We drove 5.5 hours from the great city of Atlanta to Pineville where my grandparents live and we stayed the night with them. Next morning we made the 2 hour drive to Lexington.

We stayed about a mile from the festival grounds, so we just walked. It rained the entire walk but I was prepared. I wore knee- high rubber boots and a rain jacket. We got in early, so we got some merch, drinks (I don’t drink so I got a Coke and my brother got some whiskey +ginger beer drink) and watched Elle King’s set. I hoped she would play Drunk (And I Don’t Wanna Go Home) but she didn’t, oh well, She did amazing and I loved it.

About ten min before her set ended, we migrated to the stage Lord Huron would be on. I was vibrating with excitement. I forgot which song they opened with but they had this pay phone prop on center stage and it started ringing, the band came out and I’m physically assaulting my brother shaking him like Tyler the Creator to Narduwar in that one video. Ben comes on stage and answers the phone and starts singing Wait by the River. There’s a voice modulator microphone in it so it’s giving his voice that far away echo sound they have in a lot of the songs. My brother and I both were like “that’s so smart oh my god” they played a lot of songs I didn’t expect them to play like Ancient Names Pt 1, La Belle Savauge Le Fleur, and they announced a that they’re working on new stuff and sang one of the songs they’re working on! They played Meet Me in the Woods and I almost cried. Someone came up to me and said “I noticed you singing every song! Is this the band that sings Ends of the Earth?!” And I completely geeked out about it and they asked “do you think they’ll play it!” And I was like “idk I think they might but it’s hard to tell bc they have that newer album long Lost so I think they might play more of that” and we went back to hanging out, then like 2 songs later they start up Ends of the Earth and me and the dude looked at each other like “!!!!!!!!!!”

We noticed the crowd migrating to Hozier about 10 min before the end but we stayed until the last song “Not Dead Yet”. It felt like great end credit music.

We then tried to get fairly close to the stage for Hozier but we got caught in the sardine crowd (when everyone’s so close, you’re touching strangers). My bro and I get really claustrophobic, so I started getting frantic to get out of the crowd and I could tell my younger bro was getting overwhelmed and frustrated, so I told him to hold onto my drawstring and we cut through the ppl like a sewing needle. We went over by the bar and got a great vantage point. Hozier was already on stage and I’m white person dancing to everything. BACK UP EVERYONE I NEED TWIRLING ROOM. When he sang Francesca, I just stood there in complete awe. The ending parts when he sings “I would not change it each time, Heaven is not built for a love like you and I”, I swear tears were going down my face. My brother has written a whole book and the names of the brother main characters are Jackson and Wilford are ofc based on Jackie and Wilson (which he played!!!). I was funkin, bumping, and jiving to De Selby pt 2. I couldn’t hear the name of the woman who sang with him but she was a very pretty black woman with waist long braids and he voice was so deep and smooth that when I heard her start the second verse of Work Song, my jaw dropped and I was absolutely in love (I’m sorry to my boyfriend but I’m sure he’d understand 😅). Her voice reminded me of coffee and velvet and like with Francesca, I just stood there in awe for a while. I’m one of those people at concerts that get fully possessed by the music. He ended with Take Me to Church and I thought about how I was 13 when I first heard him and the 12 years I’ve been wanting to see him, it felt like a great ending of a movie.

My brother and I were also poking fun at the concert goers too. I’d been checking the weather all week and knew it was going to rain and that the fair grounds would be a mud yard, so I told my brother to bring work boots and ofc I wore knee-high rubber boots. It didn’t rain while we were there but it did when we were walking and yep, it was a mud yard. The amount of people wearing flip flops, sandals, crocs, white shoes, and worst of all, HEELS. Who wears heals to a music festival! I was full on dancing in the middle of the mud pit bc I realized it had a clear view to the stage and no one was gonna get in it with me. It was a great time!

This was my brother’s first concert and I’m kind of a concert junkie. I’ve got a list of bands I’ve seen live and bands I want to see. I’ve wanted to take him to see concerts for a while but he never really liked a band enough to see them. Then he snagged those tickets and gave them to me, so obv I had to take him.

Chris Stapleton was beyond anything I expected. I won’t lie, I was there for Hozier and Lord Huron but I wanted to listen to some of Chris. I didn’t expect him to sound almost exactly like his recordings. That man really has musical talent (which I mean I knew, but I didn’t know to what extent). By 10:30, my brother and I were exhausted. We been there since 5:30 and it was bedtime. As we left, someone handed Chris Stapleton their fuckin diploma to sign 😂. And he did.

Probably one of the best festivals I’ve been to!!

#railbird festival #hozier #lord huron #chris stapleton #elle king #music festival #kentucky #concert junkie #americana #southern usa #southern

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fox-buried-in-maple-leaves · 1 year

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To Be Loved, Is To Be Changed

Also known as, Alee Destan's personal notes.

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To be loved is to be changed.

Guarded. He was always guarded. Even those he trusted the most, he barely trusted. He feared them in a way. Feared the vulnerability they presented to him. Like showing someone a wound they couldn't have otherwise seen and wondering if they had put it there.

That made sense to him, at least, that analogy.

But being loved. It meant changing.

He always got up, in the middle of the night, slid from their arms. At his place, he could sleep on the tiny sofa tucked amongst his books, tail too large to fit, brushing against the floor. At their place, he took up residence in the bathtub. Some part of him told him it was safer.

He wasn't sure when he stopped doing that. Wasn't sure when he could curl up in their arms and feel safe. But he felt safe. He felt so safe. He'd never felt this way. He didn't feel like he needed to turn to the drugs hidden in his bookcase, or the bottle of alcohol in the kitchen. He felt.. Okay. In their arms.

To be loved is to be changed.

He watched them bag everything. The powders, the needles, the pills. "I'm proud of you." They said and he nodded, rubbing his arms wordlessly as they threw it in the garbage bag. He stayed in the kitchen as they went to place the garbage bag in the trash bin outside. Change. Change could be good.

He looked down at the rings around his finger. Thumb playing with the back of the bands. He was caught off guard by arms wrapping around his waist, being pulled into a warm chest. "I love you, my dear husband." They whispered, face pressing against the space between his ears. He wanted to cry. Maybe he did cry. He wasn't sure, shaky arms coming around them.

"I love you too."

Yeah. He's changed. He knew that a long time ago. He knew that when he started feeling safe, stopped pushing them away, stopped fighting and accepted the feelings he had. Their eyes met his and they beamed at him. He tilted his head at them, his smile remained. They stood, kissing his cheek before going to wash their hands.

His heart felt soft, warm. It was so domestic as they helped him chop the celery and the peppers. Spinning him when the music changed to something more upbeat. He laughed as they tilted him, giggled into their kiss. He loved them. More than anything. It was such a strange thing. His heart swelled as they pulled him straight, pulled him into their arms.

To love is to change.

To be loved, is to be changed.

He reminded himself as he felt something familiar stir in his heart. He couldn't place it, it was similar, but different. He felt wrong for it, felt wrong for imagining what it'd be like to be held by both of them. Would his lover mind? Probably not. But it was new to him, uncharted territory he didn't understand. A new feeling.

They supported him. He learned that quickly. And eventually things had fallen into place. It worked out. The strangeness became something else, a tenderness he couldn't explain. He was growing soft, two kids, two lovers. His hardened heart, however, remained protected in layers of cast. Yes, being loved was changing him, but it scared him.

His love lingered on the tip of his tongue, it was so hard to say. He wished he could just say it. Wished he could just open his heart, display it raw for the reaper. But he couldn’t, it sat inside a guarded chest. He brushed through his hair, watched him sleep with eyes that shone in the dark, and even here, it lingered, so close to the surface, but his heart it squeezed and his throat it tightened.

He was petrified to tell his children he loved them, how could he say those words to another? Oh, it scared him so deeply. There were days he was sure he didn’t have the capacity for it, days he was sure this was all some ploy he’d managed. A cleverly crafted lie, a perfect manipulation. He was a poison, or maybe his mind was, he wasn’t sure.

To be loved is to be changed.

And he wished his insecurities didn’t eat away at him, collar tied tight around his throat, sleeves long. But they did. They did. And still, he changed. With the love of another, he changed, almost impossibly so. And maybe, it wasn’t as obvious as the way he’d changed for them, the way he’d changed upon his second truest love.

But he changed, nonetheless. A heart like his, guarded, forced to be cold because the warmth was a weakness. It was something he all too easily recognised. He brushed his thumbs over the eternal tear tracks, holding his face gently in his hands. If anybody saw him in this park, he’d be holding nothing.

But to him? He was holding something with more meaning than he could ever word.

“Someone might see.”

“Let them.”

Because this love made him love recklessly. This love, no longer bound by a violence he once held, this love was reckless and raw. And he kissed death with a softness known only to the clouds of earth. A kiss wet with tears, a kiss warm with the future, smothering the cold of the past. A kiss so filled with life that even death faltered.

To be loved is to be changed.

It had taken him so long to understand safety, to understand living was more than just survival. It was an understanding he wove into every interaction with him. He wasn’t alive anymore. But that didn’t mean he shouldn’t get to live. It seemed counteractive, in a way. But he didn’t care, not as he dragged the reaper along, bribing him with museum trips and dinner and things he didn’t get to do before.

And maybe that was the way he had changed.

It wasn’t about protecting himself anymore, at least, not always. And he could live with not always.

To love is to change.

It wasn’t how he usually convinced himself of things. No, he always convinced himself that being changed was a sure sign of love. And it was! But, changing another.. That counted too. That counted, to him. He hadn’t done most of the work, he could barely take any credit. But he witnessed it, heard stories, saw it firsthand. And he understood.

His actions were far less grand than that, humble, he supposed. He sat on the counter beside the washing machine as he went over the appropriate settings for the various types of laundry he did during the week. Lights, darks, intimates, bedding, different fabrics. The temperatures, the cycles, the right amount of detergent.

They stood straight after shutting the washing machine door, pressing a kiss to his lips, one that was quick, but it made him smile. He slid the detergent jug to them, instructing them on how much to fill the cup and where to place it in the machine. Once they were done, he slid off the counter, arms wrapping around their waist.

“We’ll make a house spouse out of you yet!”

“That’ll be the day..”

To love is to change.

He watched as they managed to not burn the pancake this time, flipping it onto the plate with an all too proud smile on their face. He clapped for them, their pride was important to him, it made his heart swell. Who knew he had the capacity for this? For so much. He grabbed the toast from the toaster, placing the slices on a plate.

“You have..” They giggled as he moved by them, head tilting to look up at them. “Did you get into the syrup? Again.” His cheeks flushed at their accusation, averting his red gaze from theirs. They leaned down, kissing the corner of his mouth. He squeaked when their tongue darted out, licking up the maple syrup he had indeed gotten into.

But, to be loved, is to be changed, too.

He spoke not of his hurt, spoke not of what ailed him in the night, what haunted him in nightmares, and flooded his waking thoughts. He couldn’t. He devoted his time to others, to his lovers, his children. But he couldn’t confront the pain he’d endured, not in any way that was meaningful. Until they sat beside him, and offered to listen. A shot through the heart, an unexpected turn of events that left him shaken to his core.

That left him changed.

“I don’t want to be pitied or told I should move on.”

“I’ll only listen.”

And for a life spent unheard, he felt heard. He changed again when he felt listened to, when he felt believed, vindicated for the pain he so thoroughly felt. When he wasn’t meant to feel guilt for a long standing hurt that hadn’t left him. He changed when it finally allowed him to say those words he always struggled to say. He changed when being heard allowed him to better hear others.

To be loved is to be changed.

An unspoken understanding of emotional misunderstanding. To give and explain when the other fell behind, someone to always fill the gaps. He wasn’t the monster he’d always felt that he was. They allowed him to see that, and he allowed them to understand that better about themself, too. He was thankful, he wasn’t alone in his emotional confusion.

Love is change.

It is a give and a take.

An understanding he’d finally reached. And one he allowed them to see.

To be loved is to be changed.

But he was too scared to change. He was so afraid. He had gotten a home in this man's apartment, Cirino seemed nice. He was kind, helped him out, fed him, clothed him, bought him anything he needed. But he was still so afraid of the man. No matter how hard he tried, no matter how kind the older man was, he still waited for him to take advantage.

He was vulnerable in this position, hiding from his past, doing his best to run away from it. He was vulnerable and afraid. And he hated himself for his thoughts. Hated that he was so afraid this man who'd done nothing but help him would for some reason hurt him. He was afraid. He knew he had reason to be, the scars, so many of them were fresh. But Cirino had done nothing wrong to him. Love had changed him for the worse.

To be loved, is to be changed.

He couldn't sleep again. The nightmares kept waking him, her body in his arms, the reaper's partially covered expression solemn, the look on Sam's face when he got home, the pain of the aftermath. He died, and died again. No, he couldn't sleep. He couldn't sleep.

He knocked at the door, he didn't want to be alone. He waited, it was late, the man had a job. But he heard creaking inside, and the bedroom door opened. Cirino towered over him, long brown and red hair even more of a mess than usual, his green eyes weren't quite as tired as he thought they'd be. "Hey. What's up?" He questioned, voice somewhat strained. Alee hesitated, clutching the blanket he'd bought him. "Another nightmare?"

Alee nodded slowly. Cirino looked over his shoulder into the dark room, and then stepped into the hall. "Okay, come on." He shut his door behind him and Alee quickly became aware he had somebody over. But he still escorted the younger man to his bedroom, he kept the door open, and brought Alee over to the bed. He pulled the comforter back and Alee laid down, wiggling to the edge so that Cirino could lay down too.

With the pillow he was holding between them and their heads on separate pillows, they stared at each other. Alee hated sharing his bed. And yet he sought him out. Every time. Was he hoping for validation for his fears? That was sick of him if that was the case. But what was he if he wasn't being used? "Are you okay?" Cirino asked in a quiet voice, a frown on his face as he stared at the man.

"I'll be okay."

"Okay."

To be loved is to be changed.

He stopped being so afraid at least. He understood what it meant to have a friend who cared about him and only cared about him, who didn't want anything else. Maybe he was being changed. Maybe it was okay he was being changed. Maybe it was alright. He was still somewhat afraid though. So scared that he'd lose him too. He was immortal, but that didn't mean he wouldn't lose him.

He opened up, told him about the man hunting him down. That was change.

He opened up, told him about his fears about what would happen. That was change.

He allowed him to get closer to him, physically and emotional. That was change.

He let him touch him, hold him, give him things, hung out with him. That was change.

Some would say it was minimal. But it meant so much to him. It opened so many doors for him.

To be loved is to be changed.

He reminded himself as his bitterness ate at his heart, his own hopelessness clouded his mind. He was angry at his feelings, how upsetting. How upsetting it was, to survive in anger, to live in anger, in regrets and pain. Only to suddenly start to forgive. Only to suddenly get too tired to rely on that anger.

Love, it was changing him. Being loved, being cared for. Loving others, caring for others. It was terribly changing him. He wanted to be angry, wanted to be hateful, spiteful. But he couldn’t. The pain that was left in his heart wasn’t their fault. And he knew that. He lived that, breathed it. But it was all he had, for so long, it was all he had.

But Deven’s insistence had begun to change his outlook, change his world view. A separate type of love, the type of love born from a child with no home. It felt like falling through a frozen lake, crashing through ice and drowning in the frigid waters. He hated it, hated this sense of change. He never wanted to be soft!

To be loved is to be changed.

Sometimes, that change wasn’t welcomed. But he couldn’t help his heart, as bleeding and raw as it was. He’d grown soft, he’d certainly grown soft if he was considering accepting them into his heart. The hole wasn’t gone, filled up only with guilt and pain. But it was a step, forgiveness was a step.

Each flower picked carefully, a meaning twisted into every single petal. Every letter penned with his lover aiding him, careful meaning hidden between prose and beautiful words. He always was a bit of a coward, then, he’d always seen them as a coward too. Maybe it was the fitting end. This disgusting forgiveness.

To be loved is to be changed.

The sincerity with which they smiled at him near broke his heart. He didn’t deserve that kindness. And suddenly he had to wonder when the hell he cared about that? He’d always hated them, wanted them dead. He’d tried to kill them, sort of. And suddenly his heart raced and his face flushed and they were beautiful in the lighting.

What was love doing to him? Making him soft, forgiving, now weak? His tail swished and their hand in his felt right, another stupid gala, another stupid spin. He hated them, only showed his face for his duty. But pulled close to their chest as they swayed him to the music and he found himself hating the moment a little bit less.

He felt conflicted, felt scared, his stomach turned as he looked up at them. Orange eyes never left his. They’d never been so close to him, he realised, at least not for this long. “Are you enjoying yourself?” They were so sincere, he didn’t deserve sincerity. He was a monster, he tried to kill them! Did they even know? No. No they didn’t even know.

“I am, thanks to you.”

What was he becoming?

To be loved is to be changed.

Dark fingers ran through his hair, soft lips pressed against where the skin faded to purple. A soft chuckle, bright eyes, dark cheeks. He hated it. They were gorgeous and kind and blunt and their heart bled more than his. And he found himself wanting to be better again. Found himself wanting to do better. For them, for his family.

“I love you.” Slipped passed those same soft lips, despite the pain associated, despite the hole in his heart. The hole they knew all too well. One day he would have to own up to his mistakes, to the pain he’d caused, the things he’d done. And he would have to risk their view of him changing, he would have to risk losing. But it was a risk he was suddenly willing to take.

He was changing. He couldn’t stop it. Did he even want to stop it? He wanted to be better.

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