#(I could also point out 'Aromantic and Demiromantic and AroAce people exist' but well you know)

[izzyizumi]

Digimon Adventure/02/tri. AMV ~ I’ll Be There For You {theme from tv series F.R.I.E.N.D.S} (with various scenes from Adventures, Tri, minimal Kizuna, and minimal 2020 Reboot) [Music (C) The Rembrandts] Featuring implied Duo/Friendship: Taichi Yagami [“Taichi (Tai) Kamiya”] & Koushiro(u) Izumi [“Koushiro (Izzy) Izumi”] [Taishiro(u)] {Click HD box on the video player link above to watch in high quality!}

(Original commentary under the ‘read more’!)

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I had an entire tired vent swimming in my head when I made this AMV.

( You can probably guess judging by the above banner. )

But it’s not just what the banners’ hinting at. It’s various other things too. I’m too tired to type out the whole vent, so I’m just going to leave this here.

THIS POST CAN BE TAGGED AS ‘FRIENDSHIP’ OR ‘BROTP’ However, PLEASE ALSO TAG THE SHIP NAME as it can be read as ship { you know, based in a strong friendship... }

{ Because romance and friendship are NOT mutually exclusive. } { They are not ranks. They are NOT tiers. }

{ AND REGARDLESS OF THE “ CHANCES ” OF THIS SHIP “ HAPPENING ”

THEIR CLOSE FRIENDSHIP IS STILL PRETTY DAMN CANON. }

[ Note: commenting/tagging positively/respectfully is ok !! ]

{ Spoilers warnings: Tri: Koushiro’s first appearance in Saikai. Taichi, Koushiro, Taishiro scenes from Kokuhaku + near its ending. ( not super plot spoilery, but they do imply some things ) very quick shots from an ending scene of the final movie ( not majorly spoilery, but does involve a certain interaction ) Kizuna not majorly spoilery moments from the beginning of the movie; showing quick bits of Taichis’ life as it is currently. 2020 Reboot bits of Taishiro interactions from Eps 01 ~ 03. }

[aroacearsonist69]

Hiii <3 i won't ask you only one question, thats boring 👻

9,10,50

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Thank you for the ask :D

9. What made me realize I'm Aroace?

Well, I realized I'm ace first and it was on a walk outside with my asexual friend. He talked about his experience and I was like "Hold up, people actually feel sexual attraction???!!?? THAT EXISTS??" and then I tried on the label demiace to see if it fits me, but it didn't, since I thought I needed an emotional bond but it didn't change anything about the fact that I never felt sexual attraction lmao. So I had the asexual label for a very long time :D (Btw I also found the label aegosexual which I use alongside of identifying as ace)

Figuring out I'm aromantic took way longer tho

I remember also choosing the demiromantic label and having that one for way longer bc I couldn't grasp the concept of romantic attraction no matter what so I just stuck with "I bet I'll feel it once I have a deep enough connection with someone for sure".

A lot of time passes and after I broke up with my toxic ex, I reflected on my romantic attraction or rather the lack of it.

I looked back only to find that every time I confessed my "feelings" to someone, it was because I felt pressured to do so and going into a romantic relationship with that someone was something I had to do once I felt something (even though I didn't feel romantic attraction). After those confessions and making a relationship official I just felt dreaded and sad, without knowing the cause and being mad at myself because "I'm supposed to be happy rn". Kissing always felt like a robotic action, like my mind was somewhere else and I was overanalyzing my lip movements without actually enjoying the kissing part. Besides, kissing (especially with tongue) is very repulsing for me.

My other friend (who is Aroace and figured out being aro way earlier then me) once told me that "wait, why can't you do all those things in a romantic relationship also in a platonic one? It all sounds like friendship to me."

I should've known earlier when I related very hard to that statement and couldn't answer their question when they asked me what romantic attraction is supposed to feel like.

So I finally came to terms with being Aroace! (Quoi- and belllusromantic as well) and now have two very amazing queerplatonic relationships :)

10. What would I rather do then a romantic relationship?

Being so close to my friends that everyone assumes we are romantic partners even though we know we aren't, cuddles, kisses on the forehead and sharing domestic lives. But also, I want to be pinned down by pretty boys and kissed along my neck (I enjoy kisses on my neck because they actually feel good, unlike kisses to the lips) and have a make out session without the making out...you know? (AGH IT'S SO COMPLICATED)

50. Any arospec headcanons?

Okay, hear me out, but I think Kunikida is aromantic/greyromantic.

Because the way he plans out his "The one" to the point you could consider them fictional because the standards are so high? That man just has internalised aphobia because he wants "To wait for the one and he won't date anyone else until he finds them" sounds very aro in denial to me. Or he is greyromantic and finds a person he does feel romantic attraction to and is like. "What the fuck, this isn't supposed to happen. I thought love is a thing I can choose and control??? The right one ACTUALLY EXISTS????"

so yeah.

Sorry for the rambling I usually don't get to talk a lot about my Aroace identity in real life so thanks for listening :3