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uncanny-tranny · 7 months

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I always think it's funny that a terrible life is one where "you're alone with no lover and you will only have the company of cats to keep you scarcely tethered to the real world.

Like... don't threaten me with a good time. That is a dream to me

#aro #aromantic #lgbt #lgbtq #and like... if your only tether to feeling full and whole and content is a magical whirlwind relationship...#...i don't necessarily think that's always better. i personally had to investigate that impulse for myself...#...and i found that i wasn't satisfied with myself and i wanted a distraction from knowing i am alive and real...#...plus being aro did help because i had to come to terms with the fact that i cannot 'function' in a typical way...#...i feel afinity toward single mid-30s/mid-40s crazy cat ladies...#...i always saw them shamed because they never 'found a man to put her in her place and make her whole' and it's just...#...she's living the ideal life to my eyes. even if she's lonely she doesn't *need* to be made whole...#...loneliness is not a sign of being lesser. it's a part of the human condition and it's natural...#...but that doesn't mean it fundamentally changes the core of who you are #my cat is my best friend. i don't need to replace her actually. my life is fine without having any relationship or whatever else

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