I should be allowed to hunt & maim indiscriminately.
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Me, a physically disabled (high support needs) neurodivergent (mid to high support needs) person: Hey, my neurodivergence IS extremely disabling in a way that a lot of you say "isn't possible" and also my physical and neurological disabilities often combine in ways that can't be separated and produce symptoms that are new or of added severity for me.
Responses I've gotten from disabled exclusionists (some of whom are also both physically disabled and neurodivergent):
"What drugs are you on, you delusional freak?"
"I've never experienced this and therefore you're a dirty lying physically abled neurodivergent person who just wants to be more disabled and oppressed than you are. My experiences are universal and anyone who has different experiences is a lying liar. No one can ever prove otherwise because my axiom is that anyone who claims otherwise is lying."
"The ableds are at it again."
"Sit down and let the REAL disabled people talk."
"You're never allowed to find similarities between disabilities that are of different types, even ones you have, and if you do you're actually the reason why accessibility is such an issue because conflating them is why ableist doctors don't give us what we need and why society thinks medical gatekeeping is good, actually."
"If you're that suicidal do us all a favor and kill yourself."
This is without even getting into stuff about how disabled labels often apply differently to systems. The big discourse now is "nonverbal" labels for headmates who are permanently, always nonverbal, primarily by people and systems who refuse to view systems as anything but "parts" of a single person. Which is funny to me because ah yes, we have actual studies showing physical disabilities such as allergies can apply only to individual headmates, but gods forbid you apply a neurological label to someone whose brain activity is not only visibly different on scans from yours, but to the extent that it changes your entire shared physical body!
Like here's a novel idea: maybe we could just stop policing how other disabled people talk about their disabilities forever! Maybe we could blame any and all harm done even from the unicorn-rarity "actual fakers/liars" (also don't think I don't see you being ableist against people with actual diagnosed that cause compulsive lying) on the ableists DOING the harm because it's actually perfectly possible for them not to cherrypick our words and listen to the MAJORITY of us!
Maybe, just maybe, we could form a coalition, focus on the REAL enemy (ableist medical professionals and lawmakers) and push for actual change for ALL of us!
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damn that vocational university CAN make you wanna kill myself actually
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Just remembered that Larys gets engaged to a teenaged girl from a major house for treaty reasons and that that girl was originally supposed to marry a prince who was around her age and now she’s marrying someone who’s much older and has been assigned “Undesirable” status because he’s disabled and F&B doesn’t say anything else about it because the wedding never happens but there’s no WAY she was happy and there’s no WAY he didn’t know that and this MIGHT’VE contributed to his decision making at the end of his arc and
anyway hey does anyone remember Tyrion’s wedding to Sansa in ASOS i just remembered that for no reason haha
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[eats food meant to mitigate the pain] [pain arrives unmitigated anyway]
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MY GUT HEALTH IS IN SHAMBLES.........
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the energy of that stage is a little crazy shes just leaping and crawling everywhere
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OH BTW having read sbr now the hot pants and pucci comparisons are CRAZYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY…… like i mean yeah theyre a priest and a nun dealing with guilt complexes about dead siblings so the surface similarity is there sure okay but like how are people even joking about hot pants being the sbr universe pucci thats so dumb….. its all because of shipping both characters with au versions of that blond fucking beast i know this and its cursed. example number 1000000 of d*opucci melting peoples reading comp
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I think about this card often. What the hell. Why's he actually good at drawing. I need to steal his skills ASAP
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