#I dont roam in circles with a lot of cis people in person or online

[adhdstudybitch]

At what point are we going to start deconstructing what masculine and feminine mean, though? When are we going to stop saying high voices are feminine and low voices are masculine? When are we going to stop acting like long-haired butches aren't butch, and short-haired femmes aren't femme? When are we going to stop saying a person with wide hips and visible breasts has a "fem body?" When is body hair going to stop being associated with masculinity? When are we going to start asking why a specific feature is associated with masculinity or femininity, and what that says about our culture?

My curvy shape is not feminine. My happy trail and hairy legs are not masculine. They're just me. Associate your own body with whatever you'd like, but stop categorizing strangers' bodies based on masculine and feminine stereotypes.