#I shouldn't have to divulge my trauma for ppl to respect my boundaries as a creator | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

arrowpunk · 1 year

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If I had a nickel for every time someone was weirdly possessive over my OCs and continued to use them even after we lost contact and got upset with me when I politely asked them to please stop. I would have 3 nickels. Which isn't a lot. But it's annoying as hell that it's happened even once.

#ramblings of an arrow #I shouldn't have to divulge my trauma for ppl to respect my boundaries as a creator #why does this keep happening to meeeeee #this is why I only ship OCs with my wife now #it's weird and gross and disturbing and upsetting that u still wanna have our OCs in a romantic/sexual relationship!#like dude literally why #if you don't like me why would u wanna keep parts of me in your life?#i am an incredibly small creator this is in no way equivalent or even close to fanfiction #simply..... 2 ppl being like this in the span of 2 days........ is not fun #block me i don't care just stop using my creations #i don't care if you aren't gonna publish anything with them #I still don't want you touching them #it's literally sooooooo easy to just make your own characters to fill the gap!#you don't need to steal mine!#it would be valid for me to ask EVEN IF I DIDN'T HAVE MASSIVE TRAUMA SURROUNDING IT FROM THE FIRST PERSON YEARS AGO #Like?? if I?? no longer hang out with someone I used to rp/talk OCs with? I make sure to take out anything that's theirs #from literally everything I have #it seems like it should be common courtesy to me???#it's? rude? not to?#why would I hang on to a ship playlist or a pinterest board or writing? that is using ppl's shit that isn't mine #and I have no right to continue to use

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