#I'm too grown and married to be looking at everybody hates chris like this

[candyrowe]

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[majaloveschris]

I hate to be "that" person, but I also believe that Chris and Alba's relationship is not real, so this is not about them, but it's more about you, over the time I've noticed how happy you get every time there is a sign that Chris is in a pr relationship with Alba, are you sure that you are not just in delusion like the rest of the women in the fandom who love having their own conspiracy theory that Chris is always single no matter what and they are meant to be with them, because no one goes to this many great lengths to find proof of a celebrity's pr relationship unless they have some sort of motive, and by observing how happy you get, I'm pretty sure you are in delusion, I've been there too, and I notice it, and see my older unhealthy self in you. Note that this isn't supposed to be an offensive or hateful note, in case you are not in delusion and do this for other reasons than that's great, it might be a good hobby for you, but I'm just saying what i see, and i am saying it bc i wished somebody would've told me my behaviour was unhealthy in the past when it was. Just looking out for you Maja. All the love.

Thanks for worrying about me but I'm definitely not in delusion 😅

I'm a grown woman. I have a job; I have a boyfriend; I have a complete life outside of Tumblr. I don't think I'm going to end up with him, or that he is always single. However, I don't believe that Chris and Alba are together or that he's slept with all the women people claim to.

I get a lot of information via DM or asks; it's not always up to me to figure things out. I do investigate or go after stuffs, but I don't spend my entire day here or thinking about Chris and this PR nonsense. I started this blog because, back in the day (January 2021), a lot of people were all over the place with this whole Chris and Alba thing and believed they were together, which I never did. So I made this page where I wanted to share my opinion about this whole thing and provide a safe place where everybody can share their opinion (obviously in a respectful way) without being called different names or getting laughed at or screamed at. This page is a hobby for me, but this is not my life nor my only "hobby". Did I ever think of shouting this blog down? Yes! But I like a lot of people here, and I like that they feel safe here.

I have "known" Chris since the Nanny Diaries came out. I never really cared about his personal or love life; I didn't follow blogs or anything; this whole Alba thing was suspicious and made no sense; that's why I decided to make an account, and I told the rest in the third paragraph. I don't have my own conspiracy theory; I have my own opinion, and I don't think I've ever said anything too far fetched or impossible.

I think when you have an opinion or theory and something new comes out that could indicate you were right or on the right track, it's a natural reaction to feel a little happiness inside that you weren't spreading things that didn't make sense, especially as a blog owner.  It also happens when somebody sends me info, but it's more about the trust they have in me and the fact they feel comfortable sharing stuff with me, even their names, instagram profiles without the fear I'm going to post anything about them, which I obviously would never do.

Even if this whole thing turned out to be a real relationship and he married her and had kids with her (which will never happen in my opinion), I would continue on with my life. Would I be surprised and disappointed? Yes. Would I be crying my soul out and have a mental breakdown? No. Because I have my own life and my own problems. And him being with her or not won't solve them or make them better.