#and shen jiu is angry to push people away because hes scared of conflict that he cant control
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Not a Shen Jiu hater, not a Yue Qi hater, but a secret third thing.
#person who recognised that theyre both big bundles of trauma responses dressed up in fancy robes#and realises that their trauma has manifested in different ways#and as a result of that they are unable to communicate effectively#and while they have shared trauma that they both know about#both of them have misconceptions about what the other thinks about it#and that they also have different traumas#which have re-enforced bad coping mechanisms that they both have#eg. shen jiu's anger and yue qi's people pleasing#and shen jiu is angry to push people away because hes scared of conflict that he cant control#and yue qi is a people pleaser because hes scared of conflict#and they both now work in a very high stress environment#where there is lots of conflict#and it is also a location which is heavily conected to yue qi's trauma#and shen jiu is heavily disliked#and due to that- and the fact that they arent communicating#they are unable to heal and are stuck in self destructive habits#but if they werent like this#their story wouldnt be a very good tradgedy now would it#in case you cant tell i have a lot of feelings about them#svsss#mxtx#the scum villain's self saving system#original shen qingqiu#yue qingyuan#shen jiu
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