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#and we're both super close with our parents so i'm sure it'll be a team effort i'll have plenty of support
still-gathering-roses Β· 3 years
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Lord help me my sister isn’t even engaged yet and i’m already stressing about how to be a maid of honor
#vent#izzy speaks#incoherent rambling in the tags (proceed at your own risk)#before you ask yes her boyfriend has the ring already and everything!!#and we've discussed in the past so i DO know she's gonna ask me to be moh#(it's just the 2 of us we don't have any other siblings)#and obviously it's gonna be a long engagement bc covid#so there's not gonna be any immediate wedding planning any time soon#also they're about to live apart for like a year#bc she still has to finish up her phd while he's been assigned a fellowship at a hospital in another state starting in june#(yes they're THAT power couple it would be disgusting if they weren't both complete goofballs too)#ANYWAYS#i'm excited!!! i'm so very excited i love her so much and i can't wait to share this experience with her#and we're both super close with our parents so i'm sure it'll be a team effort i'll have plenty of support#and i really do feel like i can do a great job at it i'm awesome with details and planning and staying calm under pressure#(little bit of self-love there) but. BUT#it is worth mentioning. she is 5ish years older than me#we haven't lived in the same state for 4 years much less the same house#i barely know who her closest friends are much less who she'd want to be a bridesmaid#but compared to any of them. i am an infant#i reallyyyy hope she only chooses 1 or 2 other bridesmaids#bc i have no idea where i'd even start corralling a whole gaggle of women who are on average a decade older than i am#i've started doing my research and all the brides articles are barely any help#'keep the ladies in line! keep the mother of the bride occupied! keep everyone calm with champagne (but don't let anyone overindulge!)'#i don't know the ladies the m.o.b. is also MY mom and i don't drink so i'm far more likely to accidentally give someone alcohol poisoning#countless episodes of say yes to the dress did nothing to prepare me for this#years of academy training wasted#aaaAAAaaAAAAaAAAAAAAAA#ok i think i'm done now#........ and don't even get me STARTED on the damn bachelorette party how the HELL am i supposed to do that????
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