Okay so I put a rather long tag response on this post, then realised after pressing reblog that Tumblr cuts it off after a certain amount of tags or something, and I was going to post this as a reblog but thought better of it, realised that this could apply to more than just this situation, and decided to make it an original post (although I did just copy-paste what I was going to reblog it with so it probably will make more sense if you check out the original post, not 100% necessary though.
(But please do check it out it's important)
I've put it under a cut bc it gets pretty long
Ahh I always forget that once I get past a certain number of tags tumblr just doesn't show the rest which is annoying but here we go again.
Here's what I had so far:
#Oh shit ok I didn't know this#Will be trying to remove this from my conscious speech immediatedly#I would like to say though (This gets really long be prepared)#(bear with me on this)#At a glance#many of these responses are either people being like#'Oh shit okay I didn't know this I won't use it any more'#(Very much like my response)#or it's people getting so annoyed/angry at people who just genuinely don't know#like guys please#I do genuinely understand that this is a terrible thing and fuck it makes me angry as well#But!#Getting angry at the people who actually don't know about it isn't gonna help!#tell people about it!#spread the word!#But remember lot's of people probably picked it up from fandom or similar spaces#and spaces like that are filled with young people!!!#People who probably had no exposure to this!! people who#Just#Didn't#Know#And That's ok!!!#It's okay to not have the information about it#I'm not trying to justify the term or the way it's used legally#But sometimes#It's okay to not know about something#even something that could be potentially harmful#Ignorance is not a crime!!!#What's bad is the people who know about it but continue to use it#(Conciously!!! It can be hard to completely scrap an entire common phrase from you everyday vocabulary. and mistakes are ok! it happens)
And here's the general gist of the rest of what I was saying:
And the people who use this as a legal defence! And the people who accept/condone this being used as a legal defence!
Speaking as a young person myself, 'The News' isn't as big a thing anymore! and the likelihood of them even putting something like this in it is so slim! augh! And I really haven't been sheltered at all but like I hear about things through my friends, my teacher/classmates, my family, tumblr, and the radio in the car once in a blue moon. If there's a car crash like two streets away from my school I don't know about it unless a) I see it, b) someone in my class or one of my friends says something about it, or c) my grandma starts an hour long conversation about it. There's a murderer on the other side of the state? I only know about it if a friend mentions it from a murder podcast or if mum is like 'well this is one of the reasons I don't want you to go to this completely unrelated place in broad daylight with lot's of people around, two friends, and your friend's mum working literally a five minute walk away'. Now, you may be questioning where the fuck I'm going with this and how this relates to the term 'gay panic' but my point is, we don't really hear about current events anymore, and if we do it's like an add about stocks or bitcoin or how apparently china is going to kill the Australian Currency, or its something about America, which, let's face it, are they really going to put something like this in the news and it'll get broadcasted to other countries? no. or it's election time and we see peoples faces on stobie polls everywhere being like 'this is the reason you should vote for me!' and I'm like 'I don't care that's a completely irrelevant thing and I didn't even know it existed until five seconds ago!' or something similar. also! this was literally abolished where I live when I was like nine or ten, which, not great but also just serves my point that SOME PEOPLE JUST DON"T KNOW!!!!!
I cannot emphasise the extent that I have not been shelter at all enough without going much further into my personal life then I would like to right now, and I do know that I'm probably speaking from a place of privilege, but my point is.
Lot's of people
Genuinely
Don't
Know
AND THAT"S NOT A CRIME!!!!
Don't get angry at them for ot know, tell them about it and give them as much information as they ask for that you have or you know where to get, because otherwise they're just going to either a) get angry right back at you or b) feel like shit about themselves because they didn't know this thing and used a harmful term without knowing because they thought it was fine, so many people around them who are also of the same community use it after all. And do you really want either of those outcomes? it's not productive, it's not helpful, really, it's the opposite at both those things.
Just guys, please. don't get mad at someone for not knowing
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