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[nyxi-pixie]

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[youremyheaven]

Hiii!!! I barely use tumblr anymore but I thought I'd give an update on this matter since you were the one to give me advice in the first place ☺️.

Well I don't find the post 💀 but basically I'm 19 and was getting to know a 25 (going 26) yo guy that lives farrr away from me and you said it was a bad idea. Well, it was not bad, it was horrendous 💀💀💀. He ghosted me for 2 days after a whole month of texting me on a daily basis and gave me a lame excuse so my friends and I started being suspicious about him? And one of them (bless her heart) got me a tarot reading which was super illuminating, bc EVERYTHING clicked 😭😭. LIKE he was leading me on, being super present and lovely and keeping his intentions confusing on purpose cuz he just wanted to f me 😃😃. When I asked him directly he said he actually wants us to be nothing since he's not looking for a relationship atm and doesn't like long distance relationships, which ok whatever but the way he acted was shady as hell 💀. And well, afterwards I told him "just to be friends" (he gave me his hbo account and tbh I wanna finish game of thrones b4 I cut him off completely 💀💀) and he was like "sure, it's totally OK for me, I can respect the no sex boundary" just for him to become the driest texter ever and basically disappear??? I mean, if he were to do that after having intimacy it would have actually hurt me but I just find this so ridiculous 😭😭😭 idk 😭. Never letting another man trying to take advantage of my naivety 💀

Anyway, long sorry short, this is me thanking you (and another woman in the comments section of the last ask I did) for the advice, bc I was way more wary of him after it even though I wasn't ready to completely cut him off back then.

Ty sososo much for the space you've built and being like a big sis fr 😭, sending you so much loveee 🥰❤️

im so sorry you had to go through this !! :(((

but everybody learns from experience and compared to all that could happen, this isn't too bad!!

screw that guy tho, he had bad news written all over him 😤😤

you're very young and the only way to learn about relationships, dating, men etc is thru first hand experience. this is just a normal part of growing up. dont take it to heart. be careful about who you choose to be intimate with. simply bc its emotional and you dont want to deal with being ghosted AFTER u have sex :(((

im glad u had ur tarot bestie to help u tho!! <33 we all need one!!

[tohokuu]

we still kept that uniform pic since yes it was pretty memorable 😗 i would probably show it to my neice or my kid someday if they get in trouble it's an educational and awakening experience

the body confidence thing is seasonal lmao i get pretty confident with myself pre-showers, idk why, so just take some time! we know our worth!

the dni reblog AHAH i want to hop in: drinks wine, i got my license first try 😃 not that hard tbh, who tf doesn't brush their teeth everyday? are there some religions who don't? i'm confused, knows what fpsg means, i don't play tho, hnnnn garlic 😋🥰

anon hh/tmi for today: i saw the very tiny mom rant, well my mom today is... busy... this week, i barely even see her. she stayed in her friends house for the weekend, the friend stayed in OUR house when me and my brother weren't there... the friend and her have a quite big age gap (43 mom and 24-ish)... i was overthinking about this even since my mom updated her relationship status on fb, i really don't know... i feel kinda lost, at least my mom is not yelling at me today for going out... hopefully she stays occupied for a little while...

not EXTRA horny today so no hard hours for me sadly, but dropping my daily playlist here (also, pick the songs that you really like so that i can have an idea for the playlist!)

- cold as hell ; taeyeon

- the eleventh day ; billlie

- love song ; nct 127

- sunny ; sunmi

- feel good (secret code) ; fromis_9

HI HI HI

I'M SORRY I DIDN'T RESPONDDD but this is normal for me so,..

and no fr, my body is such a touchy topic. I'm finally feeling pretty again so now it's not that big of an issue but it'll come back later LMAO

and I've heard of the pre-shower thing. everyone I know does that, like staring at yourself in the mirror right before a shower LMAOO

and fr ! getting my license was really easy. i had no problems when getting my license... but then again, I studied tf out of it and I also practiced a lot with my mom..

B UT YOU DON'T LIKE GARLIC ?? THATS LITERALLY A CRIME.

and your mom ! how was she afterwards ? did she get mad at you for going out ?

AND I liked the sunmi song, nct 127 and billie