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this is kind of changing my life as we speak

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“In order to be free you simply have to be so, without asking permission of anybody. You have to have your own hypothesis about what you are called to do, and follow it, not giving in to circumstances or complying with them. But that sort of freedom demands powerful inner resources, a high degree of self-awareness, a consciousness of your responsibility to yourself and therefore to other people.”

Andrei Tarkovsky, from “The artist’s responsibility,” Sculpting in Time, trans. Kitty Hunter-Blair (University of Texas Press, 1987)

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Ari Aster wants to be Yorgos Lanthimos and Yorgos Lanthimos wants to be Terry Gilliam and Terry Gilliam wants to tumble down some stairs like a slinky

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I think that anon that talked about krittika and pushya couple , that dynamic is not the result of their yoni but more of a sun/saturn dynamic. Sun people men especially tend to be attracted to women who are mean to them or bully them and I think Saturn women tend to be more like that. Sun Saturn dynamic are the OG enemies to lovers. They can’t stand each other but they end up in a relationship anyway. They’re the type that can’t stop bickering and nagging each other but deep down they love each other

i just realized that Sun + Saturn naks are yoni consorts (Krittika + Pushya, UBP + Uttaraphalguni and Uttarashada that does not have a consort)

are the rumours true Sun/Saturn folks?? do ya'll have an enemies to lovers type bond 👀

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ill be going about my day, ill be fine and then ill remember how he had my name saved and 🤧😩😭😔🥹

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What should I consider to be my yoni? Like my big 3?

typically only the moon nak's yoni animal is considered to be one's yoni animal. the word yoni means vagina in sanskrit and in my personal experience, ive found that the moon yoni animal describes the sexual nature of a person the most (even in a very literal way) but i do think the other big 3 yoni animals can influence the overall energy/perception of a person

this website describes the sexual nature of all yoni animals

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I have elephant and cat yoni, and all of my friends have cat yoni (punarvasu more commonly than ashlesha, but we’ve gone through the whole ashlesha discourse recently lol), monkey yoni and serpent yoni.

I also have other elephant yoni friends but I find it harder to connect with them unless they also have the other yoni animals I mentioned. But idk if I would go as far as to say that yoni consorts aren’t compatible.

I think it’s important to remember that if you are a punarvasu (for example) and you struggle to get along with ashlesha natives, it may be more indicative that they’re just an insufferable person expressing their insufferable-ness in an ashlesha way, rather than being incompatible with the nak itself. Also house overlays and other yoni animals in the chart make a huge difference.

I know people with my yoni consort who I find absolutely intolerable on every level, but I also know some who I get along with very well. You can either be similar in the right ways or all the wrong ways, depending on who you’re lucky enough to come across.

So imo yoni consorts are often a “twin flame” kind of situation rather than being compatible or incompatible. Your negative experience is still valid though and I am no way trying to take away from that🩷🩷

interesting 👀

tbh i've found it hard to get along with the yoni consort of all naks in my big 3, ive found them all intolerable lol but maybe i just havent met a positive manifestation of that yoni animal yet idk

absolutely!! i think synastry matters a lottt and compatibility is more than just yoni consort stuff

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What placements can cause issues with friendships and building a social network/lack of social network?

Tbh any of the water houses esp 8h/12h

having outcaste naks, having a lot of concentrated energy (stelliums, repetitive placements etc) bc you need to have a more diverse range of energy to draw from in order to make many friends??

Moon + Mercury = loner vibezzz

Many Rohinis ik are loners

Having retrograde Mercury or personal planets as well bc they affect your ability to connect to others

Tbh an afflicted mercury + venus is what affects someone's ability to connect to others the MOST

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what are your thoughts on Mrigashira men? 👀

Mars men in general are not my type tbh ,, they're too dry and flat for me?? if that makes sense?? ive never met an interesting Mars ruled guy, they're all so withdrawn and boring but they could be conservative with their energy and perhaps don't open up easily idk

Tell me what y'all think of Mars men

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hey! a few weeks ago maybe, i asked you about yoni animal compatibility and you said something about yoni consorts not being good for eachother. can you explain why you think that? i met a couple few days ago. she is a pushya moon and he is a krittika moon. they've been together for like 3 years and know eachother for more and when i see them it's like they kinda hate eachother a little? they obviously don't and they have chemistry and they are kinda goals but i see that she is always mocking him or getting mad at him, even insulting him lol. a week ago i saw her choking him and slapping him (he was laughing) and for them its natural to treat eachother like that? it reminded me of what you said and i wonder if thats the reason? like the relationship gets too intense? thank you sm!

i think yoni consorts usually never get along. i absolutely detest my yoni consort nak. I don't actually have a reason as to why this is the case except that perhaps the yoni consort sort of projects the shadow of your yoni animal. every relationship needs balance and that's achieved when you're with someone who shares a yoni animal that's compatible with yours. if two people have the same yoni animal, then neither of their needs are being met tbh, they don't satisfy each other emotionally or otherwise. I think this can lead to resentment and frustration. also if two people are too similar then neither of them will feel seen. there has to be enough differences to even things out. someone I had an extremely difficult relationship with was my yoni consort and she & i were super similar in terms of what we liked, were drawn to, wanted from others etc but obviously this meant that when one person got this, the other would feel personally challenged. also if you've noticed yoni consorts are usually naks that are extremely different from each other as well. take elephant yoni, Revati is the final mercury ruled nak, shudra caste and Deva gana whereas Bharani is the first Venus nak, outcaste and manushya gana. they're so different, I'd be surprised if they had anything in common with each other at all.

ive heard some astrologers say that if the man has a rakshasa gana nak, the woman must have Deva gana nak to balance things out.

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Is it a Mula thing to assume that everyone else is straightforward and direct --- and then go "Pikachu face" when turns out....that some people are incredibly deceptive and don't say what they actually mean.

🤔🧐i haven't noticed this tbh

what do you guys think?

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Hello :) I was reading about Venusians and I kind of feel represented by this energy, maybe not strongly but I do. I don't have any Venus nakshatra in my primary placements, and my question is: if both of my ascendant nakshatra and rasi lords are in venusian nakshatras. Does it have an effect? could it be considered "dominant" or significant in some way? because I never get examples of this. In the community, they always talk about their Big 3, and in research, they give Big 3 examples, and they almost never consider those things as significant, which makes me feel like a wannabe Venusian 😬

Okay first of all , I think we need to ask ourselves why we cling to the idea of "dominance" so much. I've never thought of myself as anything dominant because I feel the effects of my whole chart in different areas/in different ways because that's how it's supposed to be?? (as each planet represents a different area of life?). I think this concept had its origins with Claire's astro beauty research where she associated the planet/nak that had the most physical influence on a person is their "dominant" placement but I think this way of thinking is inherently flawed because as interesting as I find Claire's astro beauty research to be, I don't actually think it holds ground because every person's appearance is a sum of many influences? Anybody can nitpick some common recurring features (esp when the women depicted are mostly just white women) and say xyz nak has caused it. Traditionally different body parts and features are associated with different planets and the astrology of appearance is very much real but it's not a hyper specific science the way Claire makes it seem. It's more like "mercury rules the forehead so many mercurials tend to have bigger foreheads" etc

Anywayyyys, you don't have to be anything "dominant" to relate to some nak or planet's impact. In fact if someone feels one placement more acutely than others, it's probably because of the astrological transits they're experiencing or because they're very spiritually underevolved. I do think a point arrives in one's spiritual journey where you feel completely detached from your chart or equally proximate/distant from every placement. It is the working of the ego that makes one over identify with one placement or another as a way to classify our experiences/personalities. By transcending the ego, we'll stop caring.

I think the whole chart affects an individual not just their big 3 and I take atmakaraka/amatyakaraka/lagna lord/1h & 2h placements/conjunction/debilitated/exalted planets etc into consideration as well.

Also check your d9 chart

You can relate to Venusian energies for so many different reasons (maybe check your dasha? see if you're experiencing Venus mahadasha or antardasha??)

I don't think it's healthy to obsess over dominance and I also don't think it's healthy to want to be any planet/nak?? That's literally the ego at play. Everybody wants to be Venusian but tbh Venus is as full of pros & cons as any other planet, it's not in any way shape or form "better". You can relate to something without labelling yourself as a Venusian? If I had Saturn ak and I related to that placement a lot, I wouldn't start calling myself a Saturnian. At the end of the day, it's all energies and let's not make this an American personality test type fixation

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i found it, it's a ryuichi sakamoto song 🤠god is good

hate it when i have an ambient song stuck in my head,, dont know the name the artist the anything,,, literally a tune 😩😩😩

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literally 😂 it's so funny when Americans are like 😩🤯😳 my guru initiated me 😩🤯😱 bc every other unemployed guy in India claims to be a Guru and 95% of them are full of shit. being scammed by gurus is like the OG indian spiritual experience and most ppl stay away from that shit

Tbf I'm indian and people are annoying and woo about it here too

I can't speak for everyone but a lot of Americans dont even know that a good chunk of New Age woo is just repackaged Indian woo lol.

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it's me im girls

Girls will be in the most unsafe emotionally unavailable relationship of all time and be like damn I must be asexual

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