#because one day they'll be adults in therapy going what the fuck did i ever do to that grownass woman

[akchually]

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[softer-ua]

This is probably a fast response to your questions, but ao3 is down and I'm procrastinating on chores, so here I go ig. I'm a bit of a pussy so I don't want anyone to look at my blog or anything, but I genuinely want people to know about bullying, so here my take on the bully question.

-yea I did, we were in a private school, so I basically couldn't hide from them when I realized I was wrong since we were a pretty small school with only one class a grade, said sorry and shit and we're still good friends to this day

-no, I was just being a bitch, couldn't find another thing to bother with so it lead to that

-why I did it? I don't know myself. It's a really shitty reason, but basically I got influenced that other kids who liked K-pop were stupid for liking who would never even know them, and that anime was better, it was pretty common and cringe thinking in the anime fanbase. I didn't understand beauty or emotions in 6th grade, so I thought they were all just simps for the guys, lmao

-for the campaign, maybe? My school definitely didn't give a shit when I was the one being bullied, and it was the same way around, so I honestly don't have much hope with those things when it failed in my life. Maybe for older kids, but it's easy to ignore it as the bully, and as the victim, you cling to it so hard that when it let's you down, all of my hope in adults just shattered hard. A better thing to do is just giving free therapy to kids, I was in a rough patch without love, kids just need a good role model and a loving hand in their life, and they'll turn out fine. Bulling comes from teasing, so as long as we have egos, I don't think it'll ever stop.

-yes, I gained full forgiveness by bribing with merch and a heartfelt apology with hugs^^

- to be honest, i'll never forgive myself, they are all special girls and I was a dumb kid for ever doing it

-maybe? If someone actually stopped me instead of letting it go on. Sure I was sent to the principals office to do those things parents force kids to "hug it out", mom hitting me for doing it at home, but no one gave me a full and calm explanation to stop. Those conciquences happened a lot, so I was used to not giving a fuck.

-now older, I do a deku move and always try and stop any bullying if I see one, and talk about emotions freely and reasons for it. I don't really bother with helping with campaigns, but I donate whenever I can to them.

-yes, it definitely can. It a societal problem of lowering quirkless people, and that best quirk thing with flashy superheroes being the best and the other non flashy heroes being called trash. Bakugous mom don't help either, she has a good heart but not used in the best ways.

-bkdk, I'll be honest, I'm a shipper that's why I'm here lmao. I'm a sucker for their rivalry and childhood friendship. But if its in cannon, unless katsuki(add the whole fucking 1-a with that) gets therapy for his explosive behavior, I do not have much hope. Any relationship with Bakugou can be considered abusive until he can properly express his feelings without blowing up or fighting, fix his shit up and he'll be a good partner. Deku already forgave and allowing katsuki in his life, but maybe a bit of therapy and being given his choice, then their relationship will be great. It's the victims choice if they want to forgive and allow, it's not an abusive if he understands fully what it means in allowing their old bully in their life.(yes I did find actual reasoning for the ship, because I absolutely could not stand with people calling it abusive) oops I ranted

- yes. if forgiveness and real guilt is there, you can forgive. It'll take time of course, but it'll always be for bettering the victims life, so it'll all end okay. Actions speak louder than words, and I'm sure the great lord explosion murder won't half ass his apology. :)

I apologize if it's so long, I contemplated if I should send this in pm instead, but I was already half way and just said fuck it. From being a bitch I became a nerd who has hard anxiety, probably the worlds karma on me, but now I highly love deku for facing Bakugous shit for so long, and being such a kind and loving guy. I'll go back in my fan fictions now, I hope I gave a somewhat alright answer to all your questions!

(｡’▽’｡)♡ all the love, Blu!

This was an amazing response! Thank you!

Don’t worry, you didn’t go to long this is exactly the kind of in-depth answers I was hoping for! I’m so glad you and the other person were able to work things out and become friends, that’s such a sweet ending to everything ✨

Thank you so much, all the love to you as well! 💚💚💚