I do kind of feel a bit spoilt with how the fandom pre-pandemic would share my work easily (fics getting hundreds and even thousands of notes on tumblr and on AO3 immediately and arts getting thousands of notes too). Back then, my work was so eUGH compared to the work I create now which is so much more polished and well thought out.
And now? It’s such a struggle for my art to reach even a hundred notes on this app alone and my fics take a long time to accumulate some attention on ao3. At first I thought it was because my creations have gotten WORSE lol but then I realised it’s been happening to all my friends too online.
Kinda sad tbh.
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watching this clip again and thinking about girlhood and reflection and time and gender roles. like, i see my 7-year old niece, and it's gut-wrenching to watch her be pushed into the same eldest-daughter patterns of performance and forced perfection that i was as a kid, knowing what waits for her and yet not being able to save her.
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not to throw my hat in the ring with the 2080238403948th goth music discourse post but it's annoying how the argument keeps crossing my dash flattened of all actual nuance lmao
[ i'm giving you a Read More cuz i'm generous ]
you do have to listen to goth music to be goth, yes. but also no. if you were born between 1982 and 1995 there is a strong chance that in your neck of the woods, generic Mallgoth™️ (a fashion which incorporated aspects of metal, skater, hip-hop, fetish, and rave clothing/style into The Look) (a culture which was built around ALL heavy music of the period regardless of hard-and-fast genre demarcations through the brilliance of corporatism & the need for ease in marketing to the largest possible swath of a niche population) (which is a separate & distinct thing from GOTH-goth---y'know, people who go to goth nights & goth clubs & dress more tradgoth/deathrocky) was the predominate or ONLY alternative culture you grew up around, and because Mallgoth™️ was/is such a conglomerate type thing, there's no doubt you probably listen to a few Goth Bands at least casually but there's a much higher chance you also listen to a lot more metal, industrial, etc. cuz that's what was being pushed & marketed to METEORIC success as part of this corporate-driven culture.
does that make you any less goth? no, not really. the fascinating, terminally-online thing abt this whole discourse is it's clear how many of you motherfuckers here on tumblr dot edu do not go outside, because if you spent two weeks walking around Out In The World it would be really easy to tell Who's Goth And Who's Not, cuz you're either gonna get trash hurled at you from passing cars and people screaming shit about your genitals at you and other people trying to pray over you in public and other other people trying to pull their kids away from you or refusing to speak to you or even acknowledge your existence, or you're gonna get asked by timid nine-year-olds if you're emo.
bracket A is goth. bracket B is probably more-than-likely not. i don't give a shit what's on your playlist cuz "goth" is functionally a much more culturally-expansive label than this one small slice of specific bands & nobody gives a fuck about this except people who have too much time to argue with each other online and the current state of The Discourse™️ erases this cultural and developmental context as if the culture operates in a factory-sealed vacuum and never intersects with either capitalism or the hell that is other people. how about you go get among some bitches maybe
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