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you-can-face-this · 2 years

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thinking about how my situationship that i ended & was supposed to be friends with asked if we could still cuddle sometimes and promised he wouldn’t ask for more & that he’d give me 15% equity of his startup if he broke the promise asdfja;sdfjka;sd and at first i was offended he’d be so quick to throw away our friendship but also?

#jk i already said no b/c i have self respect™️ and a job lined up after graduation #but getting paid to cuddle with someone i'm already somewhat attracted to? not a bad deal #anyway someone help this mans he's down bad #which idk why b/c i told him from the beginning i'm not looking for a relationship & he agreed to just casual fwb #until my emotionally unstable era was over & i didn't want this anymore so we agreed to be just friends #and then a week later he said he started liking me & wanted to give us a proper try #i still wasn't particularly looking for a relationship so asked him for time to consider & he agreed #so it was a situationship & i really gave it a fair shot while regularly reminding him that this isn't a relationship #to prevent unintentional leading on #but we were clearly incompatible like we argued at least once a week and it triggered the shit out of me #so i told him i couldn't do this anymore & he took it pretty badly at first but we reconciled & decided to be friends #until he hit me w/ this the day before he left for winter break

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