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#but vi just. dont feel like vi should be in the community. vi feel romantic love and vi am in an at least semi-normative mono relationship
artemisaed · 9 months
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#from kile#vi feel like vi shouldn't call vyself gray-aroace anymore#not because vi don't connect with the term. vi absolutely do connect with the term and it just Clicks in a way that other terms dont#but every post vi see says ''aroaces dont feel love'' ''aroaces dont ever want relationships'' ''all aroaces have 38034083480 qpps and HATE#and DESPISE all allos and any normal relationships'' and similar stuff#and like vi absolutely support people who dont want romantic/sexual/normative relationships! if you dont feel love then thats awesome!#one of vy best friends is a loveless aro who doesnt want any romantic relationships and vi think ze's amazing for that#vi think amatonormativity is stupid and dumb and nobody should be forced to conform to any standards of ''your relationship has to be like#this!''#but vi just. dont feel like vi should be in the community. vi feel romantic love and vi am in an at least semi-normative mono relationship#vi dont hate allos or relate to even most of the ''all aspecs relate to this'' posts or want to be poly or hate all romance or any of the#other things that are defining features of the aspec community. vi feel stupid and privileged and like vi dont belong here and vi feel like#vi'm taking away their safe spaces by being here because vi'm not aspec enough and vi don't share their hatred for romance/love and vi'm#basically the amatonormative person that theyre all supposed to be fighting against because vi'm just so extremely not aspec. if you ignore#the fact that vi dont feel attraction very often then vi'm literally just another 100% allo person. vi dont belong in aspec communities and#vi'm afraid that vi'm hurting people by being here because vi'm not really aspec enough. vi cant really put into words exactly why vi have#this uncomfortable lonely hated feeling?? vi cant even describe the feeling well its just. every time people talk about ''omggggg allos do#this and aspecs do that'' vi relate to both of them but usually vi relate to allos more because its always like. ''allos need relationships#and aspecs dont lol we're so much better and cooler aren't they sick freaks for wanting love and romance wow how childish and gross''#and vi just feel. so alone
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atzfiles · 5 years
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getting to know jeong yunho
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hi! i will be looking into yunhos natal chart and share some of the information i have gotten out of it! thanks to yunho, we know the exact time he was born! i am not entirely sure if the place of birth is that exact though. so as always, this is not 100% accurate and i am not saying i know everything about astrology. this is a hobby of mine which i taught myself.
Sun Aries 
aries is the first sign of the zodiac which shows in their characters
they’re always first to start and always first to finish
aries people are natural athletes which, in my opinion, fits to yunho quite nicely
they cannot sit still for longer periods of time
their natural instinct is to use their bodies to get things done
they live a “simple” live, dont like long/drawn out moments and they also dont like planning ahead
aries sun are known for being direct, straightforward and uncomplicated
they also tend to live in the moment
whatever happens right now is most important to an aries
this trait can make them very impatient but also highly innovative 
aries suns are also very brave 
they dont like the long way to a goal, they need to take the quickest route
they also have some childlike qualities which makes them real charmers
yunho has a strong personality, entrepreneurial spirit, ambitious, self-willed and stubborn
possible downsides of an aries sun: very nervous, impulsive, wasteful, provoking and restless
Sun in V
yunho wants to be recognized for what he is doing
he has a lot of unique and special qualities and he wants people to pay attention to those
he has a flair for drama and sports (now we all know what sorta high school student he was lmao)
yunho is proud of the fact that he has such a positive outlook on life
expressing himself brings him happiness
he needs to be careful because sometimes those things can make him look like an attention seeker to others
188 Conjunction Sun in Mercury
he owns a lot of mental energy because his ego and mind are on the same level
yunho is very intelligent and he takes pride in that
he also loves to communicate with other people
he talks and expects others to listen but he himself can have a hard time listening to others, that doesnt mean he dominates every conversation
and here you can see yet again that he has great joy in expressing himself
he studies best when reading over the material rather than listening (to a teacher for example)
this also comes from the strong need to communicate
yunho cant listen and absorb information well, he has to act on it
he has his own opinions and those are set
very independent thinker
if not listened to, he can get quite butthurt
he also cant handle criticism too well when it comes to his own opinions
he has a very witty, bashful and playful sense of humor
272 Conjunction Sun in Jupiter
extremely generous, helpful, good-hearted, well-informed, friendly and possesses strong morals
seems like luck is always on his side
he attracts good and positive things like a magnet
yunho is not very competitive which, as a result, is the reason why a lot of people like him
he also loves to travel because he is interested in foreign places and people
he has a lot of faith in life and people 
he does believe in orders and rules and generally dislikes people that tend to break the rules or even go against the law
very impatient with the wrong people around
he can be trusted very well, is sincere and is good at keeping promises
as mentioned before, very optimistic 
laughs very easily
240 Sextile Sun in Neptune
very sensitive and dreamy
strong appreciation for music
he is naturally very compassionate
very open minded; realizes that there is more to the world than whats in front of his eyes
yunho is attracted to spiritual subjects which works in favor for musicians and artists
he can be taken advantage of because he feels strongly for those who are suffering 
very humanitarian; adores animals
very imaginative, inspired and emotional 
Moon in Gemini
people who have their moon in gemini tend to be very witty and charming
but they can also become very moody and irritable, especially at home or with family
very curious 
a certain nervousness and worry are also known for lunar gemini
he needs way more stimulation than other people
there is a lot going on inside of him
here we can also see his urge to express himself again
lunar gemini think and talk a lot
they like their homes but tend to hate housework
yunho can get a bit messy
he does like improving his home though
re-organizing is something he seems to enjoy
very easily bored
is in touch with his own emotions but he can struggle with handling others complicated emotions
inside the family he is the one getting everyone together for a meeting
doesnt like repetitive routines
yunho likes having to do a lot of stuff
very sociable, friendly and talkactive
comfortable around a lot of people and can speak well in front of crowds
very open to new ideas
wants to talk about problems as soon as possible
sharp intellect
-57 Square Moon in Mercury 
his head and heart get in the way of each other
he can be too emotional or too logical
can be very jealous and possessive
can sometimes feel the need to change partners quickly because he gets bored
imaginative sense of humor
can be hypersensitive because of mood swings
because of the what he talks, yunho tends to misrepresent himself
very happy when he can escape in his own little world 
cant find his ideal world on the outside so he creates his own, imaginative world
loves drama but reacts negatively when he is the one getting criticism 
Mercury in Pisces
soaks up feelings and moods from the people around him
which can affect his own mood quite drastically 
very tactful, tries not to offend people
15 Trine Mercury in Lilith 
can get quite provocative in communications
sees flaws very quickly
Venus in Taurus 
likes sensual surroundings
looks like he would be a satisfying lover/partner
needs to be able to depend on his partner
can become very possessive of his partner
he needs “hands on” expressions of love
loyal
cant get pushed into a relationship
likes comfortable things
he needs a lot of time
his partner would need a lot of patience
“love arrives slowly, but with force”
Venus in VI
he wants to help sick and poor people all the time
wants a job in a medical or social setting
likes being of service to his partner
goes to extreme lengths so always be available for his partner
he isnt ‘showy’ with his love/bad at expressing it but much rather shows it by his availability, doing practical things for his partner or other thoughtful things
pays attention to small details
he is scared that, if the relationship he is currently in ends, he might not be able to find better
-224 Opposition Venus in Mars
from affairs over to full blown relationships; love is what gets this boy out of bed
this can get challenging in youth
he can have a hard time finding a relationship that meets his expectations
very creative
passion for romance is often channeled in his creative output
prone to have love-hate relationships (the fanfics have been right all along)
can get angry quickly but that anger disappears just as fast as it came
likes truth and justice
he never plays false, his sentiments are deep and sincere
might be into someone older because he appreciates peoples intelligence 
-95 Square Venus in Neptune
his ideals are not always easy to achieve 
easy going
yunho is in love with being in love
very romantic
can be a little too romantic; his romantic dreams might get shattered by the reality of relationships
sees what he wants to see rather than what really is
clings to romantic delusion which can be very dangerous and unhealthy
tends to devote his all to someone who is unreachable
he is also prone to loving someone who treats him badly all while he is clinging to an idealized image of his partner
he thinks that loving someone requires self-sacrifice 
:((
Mars in Scorpio
likes to challenge himself to do the impossible
keeps his cool on the surface very well
does not let people in easily 
scorpio in mars is known for having the strongest sexual stamina
even though he tends to dislike people who break the rules, he often fantasizes about breaking taboos
he like the scenario of their partner giving into them, wants his partner completely and will do absolutely anything for them
im sweating
his sexual appeal is strong enough to get what he wants
very jealous, doesnt want to share
doesnt find pleasure in compromises: needs to hear either yes or no
constantly tests himself and others
thinks that life isnt fair  
Mars in XII
puts all of his energy into his working life
likes to research
jobs like a doctor, teacher, police officer would fit him well
he should try to give things a real shot instead of feeling defeated instantly 
he can handle a lot of things by himself in his own unique ways
works more for others than himself
ignores his own needs and desires for others which secretly makes him very angry
takes time for him to warm up to a new sexual partner
likes to solve problems
likes to overcome obstacles
he sometimes can seem cold when he is in his work-mindset
-117 Square Mars in Uranus
tends to be eccentric and too headstrong, impatient
Jupiter in Aries
attracts good things in life
he is initiating, inspiring, enthusiastic and brave
likes doing things on his own
likes games
gets distracted easily
lucky in love and his profession
adores children
generous 
yunho likes helping people in difficulty
Saturn in Taurus 
dislikes greedy people
needs to learn that he is also deserving of good things in life
likes precision
a true worker
possesses all the necessary qualities to be successful in the medical field
Uranus in Aquarius
gets overly excited when starting a task but quickly loses interest
this can give others a banal impression of him
doesnt like routines
-10 Square Uranus Lilith
he can have difficulty finding a peaceful love life because he is the type to fall in love at first sight
seeks adventures which can be harmful to his relationship
Neptune in Aquarius
generosity 
solves other peoples problems just to see them happy
cold facts are hard for him to absorb#
he can get quite nostalgic
Pluto in Sagittarius
love and sexuality are idealized
Ascendent in Scorpio
he has a lot of presence
their manners command respect and he lets people know he shouldnt get pushed around
very powerful and determined 
he can look right through people which can make him very intimidating 
he often gets confused when he earns such strong reactions from people though
yunho likes to read between the lines
values his privacy a lot, so much that it can even cause paranoia
he feels the strong urge to always be in control of his environment 
he plans out every move very carefully and lets no one look into his plans
he is drawn to down to earth and natural partners on which he can rely on
he needs full commitment because flighty partners make his patience run thin
House II in Capricorn
he sees spending and making money as an adventure which can cause financial risks for him
nothing is left to a chance
likes to calculate his plans and dissects them slowly
House IV in Aquarius
he may leave the family home very early on
wants a life that is out of the ordinary 
doesnt like traditions 
House VIII in Gemini
this placement is known for making artistic people generally very successful
House X in Leo
great leadership qualities
the way he is seen by society grows more important to him as he gets older
wants surround himself with equally artistic/influentiual people
if you really read this far...god bless u lmao
i tried keeping this as short as possible, leaving out some constantly repetitive traits and placements and trying to combine his placements rather than to dive into each one individually. please dont forget that i am doing this purely out of fun and interest. My ask box/messages are always open if you want to talk or have questions! please also let me know which member you want me to analyze next :)
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paralleledfate · 7 years
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The Mun Comfort Zone
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A valuable meme for any role-player!  Come display your comfort levels so your role-play partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid!  A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time while this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your role-play partners!
KEY:
bold italics: fuck yes! bold: yes. normal: sometimes/conditional. italics: ask me about it. strike: no.
Tagged by: I... borrowed it! Tagging: Just go wild, guys!
ROLE-PLAY BASICS
LOCATIONS
I am comfortable doing:
Tumblr email Discord skype
PARTICIPANTS
I am comfortable with:
One on one role plays. up to three people. up to four people. five or more people! as big as possible!
POST LENGTH
I usually write about:
One or two sentences. One or two paragraphs. Two or five paragraphs (250-500 words) More than five paragraphs. (500-1000 words) a few pages worth. I am comfortable role-playing with people who write:
One or two sentences. One or two paragraphs. Two to five paragraphs. More than five paragraphs. A few pages worth.
ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS
I like getting requests from:
Anyone and everyone at any time! When I ask for role-plays. From friends and acquaintances. From friends only.
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
Important: communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either!  Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance.
SHIPPING
I am comfortable shipping my characters:
Never. If our characters know each other deeply. If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player. (for heavy, plotted shipping)
At the first sign of flirting! (for more casual ships) Only if the role-player and i plan it. It depends on the character.
If you want to ship with my characters:
Talk to me about it from the start. Talk to me about it once our characters know each other. Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other. Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.
SPEED
When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:
Swift as lightning! Fast, but not super fast. happens in about three months. Slow and steady wins the race. Slugs know what’s up! My relationships know no speed. they happen if they happen.
SMUT
When my characters get intimate, I prefer:
Nothing
To skip the act entirely. To write the build up, but skip the act. To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it. to write the act all the way through.
ROMANTIC ARTWORK
When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:
do not post it at all without talking to me. Post it if it is cuddles and hugs. Post it if it is kisses. Post it if it is n.sfw. Only post it if it depicts n.sfw privately between us. do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts! (dont make sexual art of my muses)
DRAMATICS
Important: always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!
VIOLENCE
When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:
no violence at all! I’m fine with verbal arguments! Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face. Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling. Violence, such as stabbings. beyond violence, such as torture and more.
If you are going to do something violent, please:
don’t do it at all. Talk to me about it first. surprise me! AUTO-MOVING
When it comes to moving/touching my character without asking me first, I am comfortable with:
Non-violent, non-intimate touches, like a tap on the shoulder. Intimate touches, like hair or face stroking. Mildly aggressive touches, like grabbing my character’s arm or pushing them out of the way. Highly aggressive touches, like shoving and non-damaging hitting. Violence that will not permanently damage my character. violence that may permanently damage my character. extreme violence, such as torture. you may kill my character without asking. DRAMATIC ARTWORK:
do not post any dramatic scenes that that happened between our characters. talk to me about it before posting! Post what you like!
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