#coldapproach

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6/8/25: daytime approachin goth baddie

6/8/25

field report: just did a daytime approach in the middle of resumé revision at my coffeeshop where i get nerdy. goth baddie built like mewtwo. highlights in her hair, curvy big booty, skinny body, clear glasses. approached her while my heart was beating hard. ran my time-constraint daygame opener that i pulled that lightskin library girl with. mewtwo girl's eyes were so warm, impressed, surprised. i tanked the set by qualifying too early. next time i'll juh vibe twin for longer. 1000/10

[byangelsofpassion]

Foreign women are the same as men in dating today, they want sincere relationships and not because of other factors circulating on the internet!

[dancingmonkeyyy-blog]

Cold approaching is like going to the gym for your brain. Its the real deal. Its fucking zen.

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6/7/25: rebuilding rapid escalation, but grounded

6/7/25

Field report: sensual Saturday night Victorian.

Goal for tonight was to get rejected from my early sets for escalating too rapidly. Finally returning to follow the style of game in Fearless Relentless Escalation.

My sets tonight were electric, intimate, boosted my state rapidly and made me feel euphoric, even and especially when I was rejected. Getting rejected for escalating too quickly on purpose gives me this surge of masculine power in my body. It makes me walk around the club like a man who has power over women. Absolutely euphoric.

There were 6+ sets where I gained close proximity eye contact with the girl while looking into her eyes silently and stroking and caressing her shoulder sensually. In some sets my eye contact alone with no kino made the girl back away. In some sets she turned her head away and broke the intimacy while I caressed her. In some sets she was hypnotized but her friend pulled her away. In some sets my verbals somehow tanked the set.

Ran a lot of silent approaches tonight. I like the silent approach because it removes a variable. But I also ran some spontaneous cold reads, teases, negs, and straight up insults.

I was extremely grounded and normal again. It feels like a superpower because my words feel more genuine to me. In one set, a girl was mean to me and I smiled and put my middle finger right up in her face and yelled "FUCK YOU!" with a smirk. She seemed to enjoy it.

In another set, I floated over to a drunk one-set and we made intimate eye contact as I stroked her shoulder, held her lower back, cupped her face. I was a bit too gentle with her. Shoulda been even MORE aggressive. She pulled away early on, and I calibrated, but then she hooked again and was intimate to me and I escalated too slowly after that. Bet I could've kissed her. My verbals burned the set somehow.

In another two-set, there was one girl bouncing and the other looking coy. I joined the set with a silent approach, said a few honest things, the girl's bouncing stopped. I decided to leave and said "Before I walk away, I want to give you a generous gift of my energy and bring back the bounce!" so I started dancing and bouncing, and I boosted their mood and pumped their state back up and she started bouncing smiling again. But then the girl said "Haha bye! Nice meeting you!" in a condescending way. It was rude. So I decided to destroy their state. I used my barking voice and said "I'm taking the bounce BACK. NOW WE'RE SERIOUS. NOW WE'RE NOT BOUNCING. NOW WE'RE SERIOUS." I put aggression and power in my voice and my eyes, and I destroyed her bounce and crashed their state. Turned their mood sour with my power. Then I smiled and walked away.

After just a few sets in the intimate proximity shoulder-caressing style, my eyes started hooking girls from a distance. Excellent.

Sick night. Honestly, after the first two sets, I thought to myself "This is the style of game you're going to run forever. Why would you ever do anything else? This feels fucking electric. I am so fucking powerful." and then I genuinely danced with a laughing euphoria on my face. Now I'm getting rejected for my masculine power. For the pressure of my sexuality. That's sexy. Power dynamic flipped. 1000000/10

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6/6/25: grounded calm confidence

6/6/25

Field report: Friday night Victorian.

My energy was ultra grounded tonight. I opened sets with a complete lack of trying. As in, the way that I spoke to the girls and engaged with them had zero energy that I was trying to impress them or get anything from them. My body was mostly motionless and still, except for once in a while spontaneously I caught a vibe and decided to dance. None of this was intentional, it just happened that way.

Quite a few memorable sets. Had a set with a tatted up girl from Kazakhstan. She was so touchy-feely on me and IG-closed me. I should have escalated faster. Her gay friend joined the set and thought I was cool and hinted at inviting me to a party she'll be at later. I think that my target got pouty because I did not escalate fast enough. We were in set together about 15 minutes.

Ran a four set of Asian girls solo. Opened them by walking up to the group and just making eye contact and being grounded, normal, and silent. A lot of my opens were like that. I let the girls choose the first emotional energy to set the tone. Then I spoke so normally and innocently. In this set, I teased a lot of the girls, mimicking their body language and their poses and making fun of them. Then I felt like dancing a little bit, so I kind of just bounced in front of them. They liked me and they said let's all go to the dance floor and they brought me to the dance floor. On the dance floor I did a tiny amount of kino, shoulder touches, and high-fives. But I was torn between which girl to escalate on, and my indecision ended up costing me the set. I escalated too slowly, even though they created the opportunity for me, and then they left and went to a different dancefloor.

in another set I opened our eye contact was so intimate and beautiful, I stroke her bare shoulder and got closer to her, she was so warm to me. I think I ran out of things to say and she pulled a nice meeting you while her eyes were so warm and delicious. I reverse IG-closed.

Being grounded is nice. Some guys joined my sets and tried to wing me, tried teasing or negging, but I could see that they were "trying". And their trying actually seemed weird to me and cost them the set quickly.

There were two sets where I negged the girls. That's new for me. Both times, the girls became combative and negged me back. I calmly held frame and was unaffected because I could tell that they were trying. My negs were genuine. That seemed to hurt them I guess. I was told to leave from both of those sets.

Next time I go out, I will intentionally burn my early sets by escalating too quickly.

2 IG closes. Stroked 2 girls arms while looking into their eyes. Nice night :) 10000/10

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5/29/25: rebuilding energy + shmooth 2-man

5/29/25

Field report: fire euphoric dance night. Goals for tonight: regain my explosive state pump delusion and gain the ability to snap back-and-forth between it and grounded normal still energy. Also I wrote a new list of teases and negs this morning with ChatGPT's help lol.

In my warm-ups, I reactivated the Sparkle and unlocked my bonkers movement state energy. Once my state was insanely pumped I practiced running Five Game with alternation between grounded totally still calm neutral body language and explosive fun vibe flow Sparkle eyes release muscle. Sick.

In the venue I started opening immediately. My confidence was 10 times higher than the past two nights. Zero anxiety. I was opening girls in mixed sets, ran a three sets solo, high energy verbals and smirking cold reads and teasing and qualifying. No harsh blowouts, just me ejecting after not getting enough IOIs, but I still did some gentle plowing and played my part. When I dance-tranced I could feel the IOIs. Linked w @byrongold ayee 😎

Ran a shmooooth two-man with wrath. We winged that shit so nice. We both hooked our targets, I opened in full silent approach 😮‍💨🔥 played silent charades for the first minute. Intimate qualifying eye contact. I ran out of pantomimes and I was afraid of going ultra-intimate to hook, so I broke the silence and started teasing her. "You look like you lay in bed and watch Tik Tok all day." First words outta my mouth 😂 Teased her lack of muscle. Teased her for being nerdy. She's majoring in genetics. I qualified her, she says she likes to read, I challenged her --- really? I don't believe you. Name a book you like. She said a fave book of hers is Grapes of Wrath. I was very impressed. Reverse IG-closed. Held her skinny bare arm, teased her with my eyes. Then me and wrath briefly swapped targets, introduced ourselves to the other. Made some preselection content. At that point we were so hooked, we should have moved the girls. Right as me and wrath were discussing where to move, the girls ejected, warm n friendly.

Saw that two-set again later in the night, they were still so friendly to me. Amazing.

More opens, ballsy opens, some over the shoulder, one rocking back after delivering the words, more cold reads. Life is bangin 1000000/20

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5/28/25: grounded anxiety approaching

5/28/25

Field report: Wednesday night reggaeton party. Goal for the night: attain close proximity in my approaches.

My energy was once again grounded, but I turned up the dial on my verbal state energy by re-introducing pattern gambits into my warm up.

Being grounded is making me feel emotions that normal not-insane pickup guys always say they feel. In the car before walking out, I noticed anxiety in my body. I decided to acknowledge it and observe it. I noticed that my heart was pounding in my chest. That is very out of character for me. My body was nervous to walk into the venue, as if it was anticipating violence. That feeling appeared again at different times in the night. At one moment, before deciding to smile and laugh chaotically on the dancefloor, the thought of a guy attacking me appeared and gave me a fear of smiling. How strange.

Did boatloads of hit and runs on guys and girls, about 20 total. Only stayed in two sets: one was a verbal blowout from a dancefloor two-set.

The other: approached a one-set. Opened in close proximity, some intimacy, it hooked her. Ran pattern gambits at her, I should have beamed harder into her eyes, I was spraying the energy a bit too chaotically, but they made her warm and engaged. Held her shoulder a bit, gave her sexual skeptical eye contact, qualified her, she qualified to me as I looked into her eyes and tried to imagine fucking her and skeptically wondering if it would be fun. Reverse IG-closed. When I reached to touch her necklace and look at it -- "Hmm show me your necklace" -- she pulled away. A bit later she wanted to find her friend, I said "lets go." Her body language stayed turned away for too long, I decided to eject. Didn't want to follow too aggressively. Tapped her and told her I was gonna go frolic, we'll see each other later, she said "yes of course," warmly.

Tougher than usual night. Approach anxiety, so weird! Proud I took action. Onward. The transformation I desire is on the other side of my actions. I'm an action-taker, taking action is simply what I do. 10000/10

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4/24/25: sensual intimacy bubble

4/24/25

Field report: Thursday night bonkers flowy sensual intimate dance times. Goal for the night: apply Zan Perrion's advice above about rocking back and forth with the kino, pulling in close and escalating in small bursts, then pull back and give space. The pauses make the music.

I walked in the venue got on stage and started dancing, trancing myself into high energy pumped up not-giving-a-fuck joy. Quickly a girl appeared in proximity to my right, I am the shiny object. I used the new dancefloor open I discovered yesterday: "HEY!! TURN THE FUCK UP!!! WOOOOOO!!!!" Barking at the top of my lungs into her eyes and she loved that shit. Screamed a compliment at her, took her hands, push pulled stroked held waist eye contact proximity, boom pulled away pumped my own state ignored her 5 seconds, then boom right back in, attention, stroking her shoulder facing her. I kept alternating between pressure on pressure off, she didn't run away from my escalation (!!), escalated further each time until I had stroked her back and arms and hands and spun her and smelled her hair, that part she gave resistance to, but I pulled away and gave space quickly. Her waist was sexy asf, shimmering in sequins, she looked like Salma Hayek but 21. Met her friends, they were so guarded n cold, IG-closed with date plan, the friends switched locations and she left. Later in the night I needed a state boost between sets and trance danced on stage again, she appeared next to me again. I suddenly felt emotional. "You don't actually care about me. You just see me as a shiny object. If I became sullen and tired and low energy, you'd float away and find the next shiny object and I'd never see you again. Is that true?" She nodded smiling. I turned my back on the bitch and went back to enjoying my own spirit. She took my hand and turned me toward her and danced with me more intimately. I solidified the date plan and switched dancefloors. Later in the night I saw her and didn't reopen. She watched me dance and I ignored her. I'm disillusioned with the nature of women. But still gonna set up a day 2 and try to fuck her. Men are trash, women are trash, equality.

In the dark misty dancefloor, I saw a short-haired punk beau. Absolutely incredible. The makeup, the body, absolutely art. I opened and spoke and I was genuinely flustered. She was fully open to my proximity, my eye contact, it felt like a sudden bubble of intimacy and intoxicated love formed around us. I leaned in close, we rubbed noses, I couldve kissed and I didnt. I teased and qualified and pulled away, rocked back. Leaned in close again, cradling her face, flirting expressing, eskimo kisses, so sensual so vulnerable, pulled away. 3 times I couldve kissed and chose not to. Suddenly the friend appeared. Then a man appeared. The intimacy was shattered. She ran away. I followed her to the dancefloor, but it was clear she was trying to exit the set. I let her go.

Then I danced and felt like a vampire with cool bracelets in a sick movie absolutely euphoric thank god i'm alive life is a gift 1000/10

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4/19/25: venice beach daygame boldness

4/19/25

Field report: Venice Beach daygame. Three memorable sets. First set: sexy legs red jumpsuit Asian girl with headphones on. Early on, she told me many guys had approached her today and she wasn't giving out her contact info. I plowed through regardless and ran a good set and got her to invest. We had a deep convo about Adolescence and I hooked her. Then she ejected me from the set, and in the moment i just vibed out and thought it was a rejection, but watching the infield now i'm not so sure, i was still hooking, i should have persisted and tried IG-closing again before I left. Oops. Then there was a super sexy white girl in crazy short shorts, instant hook in the approach, her eyes sparkling and our faces so close together, so intimate and delicious. But she told me that I was too intense for her, even as she IOI'd me, and she ejected me from the set with beautiful warm hooked eyes. Good feedback, immediately calibrated. Last memorable set was a chunky but pretty black girl with low self-esteem. Ran the usual qualification, number-closed, compliance was very high so I told her to kiss me on the cheek and she did it. Gave my dick a tingle. Sexy beach time 1000/10 🔥

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4/18/25: intimate near-pull and state insanity

4/18/25

Field report: Bonkers Friday night Bungalow -> Victorian. Achieved insane levels of state hittin dem folks to Carti in line with Max + Wrath. My second set hooked strong, touchy feely, bambi eyes. Chubby asian girl euphoria makeup. She started cold reading ME and trying to guess MY sign. I stroked her body, we kissed each others cheeks, she ran heavy game on ME. She was fuckin insane me and Wrath and Hart wrote our names on her back in marker and she spit in my boy's hand 😭 caught on video. I seeded the pull, she agreed, but her logistics were bad, i number-closed. Then i left the set and found a sexy model-quality Black beauty holy crap. I ran qualification nothing interesting and while mid-set her situationship joined us. Tall handsome kind Black man, he looked so perfect for her. I ran Todd V's AMOG technique - welcome him into the set, find out how they know each other, then ignore him and continue the convo. Reverse IG-closed and date plan, god she's hot. Then went to Victorian, all the sets meaner. Entertained a 5-set with crazy verbals and rude aggressive qualification. The convo got so spicy, we started talking about body counts, my target's idea. I flirted with 2 girls at the same time. Then a 6th girl joined and amogged the FUCK outta me holy crap, i had an aneurysm i had no idea how to deal with it. Tried to amog her back and failed to, thats on video. More sets more sets, flirting touching talking. Used my crazy dagger voice to penetrate a mixed set, amogged out the guys who approached and stole their two-set. More sets, yelling at ppl pretending to be security guard, hit n run insults at girls i didn't like, saw the body count girl again and IG-closed, saw drunk guy who was opening sets and invited him to LX chat. I am official chat master. Sick ass night 10000/20 🔥🔥🔥

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4/16/25: channeling my inner asshole

Field report: my voice is 70% back and I'm loving Jeffy's book Get Laid or Die Trying so I decided to be a belligerent loud asshole today. Reggaeton party Wednesday. I opened girls extremely aggressively at the bar, literally shouting at them. "HEY. WHO ARE YOU??" A two set was play-fighting by the bar, in a murderously loud aggressive voice I said "HEY HEY NO FIGHTING. STOP FIGHTING." Instantly both of them started giggling like happy little girls and touching me and both of them kissing me on the cheek repeatedly. Two girl kissing my cheeks in the first 30 seconds of a set. This has never happened to me before so early in set. Then I got up in one of the girls faces and really yelled at her, I started running my qualifiers with extreme aggression, punishing her verbally for bad answers. When she was wishy-washy I said "HEY DON'T LIE TO ME. IF YOU'RE A LIAR YOU CAN'T BE AROUND ME." I used LX's lines too. "THATS TERRIBLE. YOU'RE TERRIBLE AT THIS." And a few times I just accused her of failing my qualifiers "I BET YOU THROW TEMPER TANTRUMS WHEN YOU DON'T GET WHAT YOU WANT AND YOU'RE SELFISH AND YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO PROCESS YOUR EMOTIONS IN A HEALTHY WAY AND YOU YELL AT PEOPLE!"

So I argued with her intensely and all the while she touched my body constantly, she stroked all over my body and she brushed up the back of her hands against my rapidly hardening cock. I kinoed her back, rubbing all up on her body, while yelling at her face. We all moved to the dance floor and she said something like "fuck you!" and I said "NO. FUCK YOU!" and she said no fuck you and I said "FUCK YOU HARDER. FUCK YOU HARDER. FUCK YOU SO HARD UNTIL YOU'RE DRIPPING ALL OVER THE FLOOR AND EVERYONE IS STARING AT YOU AND CAN SEE HOW NAUGHTY YOU ARE.". We yelled and fought for literally like seven minutes straight, everyone was staring at us, and she was grabbing up on my body and dancing on me the whole time. I said "do you know how to salsa?" And she said "do i know how to soulsuck? Soul suck??" And i said "NO. SALSA. SAAALSAAA. STOP BEING A SLUT." We went back and forth making a spectacle. Then she stroked my hands and left me and went back to her friend. I think I might have gone for the kiss too aggressively too many times, I broke the frame of her escalating on me by escalating on her too much. Not sure. But it was sick as fuck lmao.

So I continued opening girls really aggressively. I opened this one girl in a two set with the sharpest, most intense eye contact and accusatory qualifiers. Once after she answered a qualifier I just fell silent and stared into her eyes with extreme intensity, and she actually literally backed away from me. Literally because the eye contact was so intense. Her friend was like, you're scaring me. I was like, I'm literally just standing here. Guess i have laser eyes now.

Then I was on the dance floor being a cackling grounded horny goof and I told some girl that I liked her shirt. Just a hit and run compliment. A few minutes later, I saw her dancing and her body language was open to me and she gave me eye contact while dancing, so I walked up and danced with her, she accepted. She ground her ass up on my dick and got me hard, I kissed up on her neck, she randomly picked me up, which was funny, I picked her up too and spun around like a maniac, gripped her ass, and she made me super horny. I said let's go get water, hoping to move her away from the dance floor. She said no. So I went and got water by myself and opened other sets which were sexy and hooked for like three minutes or five minutes each, and then fizzled. Later, I found that dance girl again sitting down, but she refused to get up and dance, she seemed like she was in a bad mood. Some other guy started talking to her. I decided to AMOG a bit. I interrupted their convo and stole his attention and hooked him… then i was like uh. Now what? Now i'm in a convo with this guy distracting him from this girl and the girl is just sitting here. Now what? Lol. Got bored and walked away. In hindsight i should have tried to make him leave as a flex.

Another memorable two set: girl with wavy blonde hair, caught the infield on my shitty new smart glasses. My verbals are kind of fucking good lol. Mistake i made -- shoulda got the IG when they got up to go to the bathroom. Saw her talking to some guy later and tried to AMOG him. That guy ended up getting really pissed, that was the first non-beta guy that I encountered. This guy started talking like he's in a gang and stood up to fight me i was like, bro lol i'm just a silly guy relax byee.

Fire night but now I have blue balls 1000/10

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4/12/25: silent approach night

Field report: Friday night Bungalow. I have laryngitis or sum and cant speak. It's all hoarse whispers. Inspired by Owen I did a night of silent approaches. In the quiet areas, when I dialed in the intensity in my eye contact, I hooked strong, intimate, the girls were quickly fascinated and engaged me with subcommunication. Stared into many a girl's eye in the silence. In 2 sets I came achingly close to kissing the girl in the first 30 seconds of the set, but I didn't go for it fast enough. If she didnt hold eye contact or if the friends interrupted, I had to play charades and hooking became a challenge. Charades at the beginning of the night was so fun and silly and hooked, but then my body lost energy, sick boy tired, state fell, and i couldnt hold attention with pure nonverbals, or maybe that was a congruence issue. I also got accidentally amogged by my wings whenever they spoke 😭 because my girls broke eye contact, breaking the intimacy, then my kino would stop resonating. Very sweet challenge, I'll need to try this again when my energy's higher. It was so pure and the sets that hooked felt so loving and nurturing. Innocent energetic connections between curious animals without logic or verbal distraction. Would definitely do this again 1000/10