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#cuz yk... the standard of living is expensive and i am expected to live off whatever is in my account
soonhoonsol
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i hate money i hate that it’s necessary for everything i hate that it breaks apart families i hate it i hate it i hate it
#personal
#cheyrants
#im getting kicked out of my house! by my own mother!!
#for context: i am starting my internship tmr and i'm getting paid a... pretty high amount for an intern
#it's similar to my mum's starting pay when she first started working
#(but also let's establish that i am a uni intern and she is a drop out with no certifications)
#but anyways she was going on about how she had to split her starting pay amongst her my brother and i because she was raising us
#and she's pretty fucking salty that now im earning the same amount as an intern and it;s just for me
#and me...a 22 year old with nothing in my bank account other...wanted to save part of my salary just to build up the amount inside
#cuz yk... the standard of living is expensive and i am expected to live off whatever is in my account
#so i wanted to build it up but...my mum thinks that's incredibly selfish of me for saving everything in my account and instead wants me to
#give it to her instead fo the 'family' aka she's gonna put it into an envelope and hide it somewhere in her bedroom never to be seen again
#and like i'm fine with giving money to the family and all but yeah maybe i was selfish and wanted to build up my account first
#BECAUSE I HAVE NO MONEY IN THERE BUT I HAVE TO PAY FOR MY TRANSPORT AND MY MEALS AND MY OWN BILLS AND UNI FEES AND OTHER THINGS
#and she's also telling me 'oh youre young you should have a social life...go out and meet your friends' BUT THEN IF I DON'T SAVE UP THEN I
#WILL NOT HAVE MONEY FOR ANYTHING? IDK LIKE... AM I MISSING THE POINT HERE OR IS SHE CONTRADICTING HERSELF????
#but anyways that aside... now i have one year left until i graduate from uni so until then i am responsible for my living expenses
#after which i have to get a job within 3 months (hopefully it'll be fine) and then move out of my house :)
#this...this is not america. we don't have space. we're not asked to move out at 18 years old because there's no LAND to move out to
#rental costs are about $2k for the bare minimum of a BEDROOM. not even a house. and it's those bedrooms with just a bed and wardrobe
#and i'm expected to find a place within the next year or so... i mean i guess it's fine? it'll probably be weird living with other ppl
#but also this entire this is happening while she's angry and i tried to explain my perspective but she's like NO YOU'RE WRONG AND I'M RIGHT
#i mean sure... kids are always wrong tho amirite? lollll haha... i'm gonna lose my mind
#what a great start to my internship tmr! everything is great! everything is wonderful!
#so yeah if anyone in sg knows a cheap room i can rent that would be nice thank you
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