#friends should we ??? make a tag for bmb universe stuff like this???

[inkykeiji]

okok so we’ve got bmb! shiggy aftercare (which was 👌 thank u for the food lol) how about bmb! dabi? any notable differences? 🧡

OOOOOOH ANON SUCH A GOOD QUESTION!!!!!!! omfg let’s get into it

okay okay okay so like,, bmb!dabi obv isn’t as touchstarved as say, idk what i would headcanon lov dabi to be, BUT!!! he still isn’t used to gentle or affectionate touches. y’all haven’t gotten a chance to see how dabi fucks and how it differs from tomura but very briefly, he’s still rly rough, would absolutely be into degradation/dumbification + leaving marks etc but where he would differ from tomura (and this is really only in relation to the reader; he’d never do this w a random hookup) is that he’d be a lot more inclined to have passionate/sensual sex despite being touchstarved. and i think that, for the most part, this would be entirely subconscious. it would just happen, like he wouldn’t be planning on intentionally ‘making love’ or like, being romantic or whatever, whereas tomura would (tomura may be chaotic at times but the dude’s super perceptive n plans everything to an extent (organized chaos is terrifying). he really likes control).

DESPITE THIS bmb!dabi’s really only fucked one night stands; he’s never been given the chance to fuck someone he actually loves. sooooo regardless of the fact that he’d probably be more likely (than tomura, at least) to have passionate/sensual sex, it truly would be a heat of the moment type thing where his instincts/emotions take over, because after it’s done he’s fucking clueless as to what to do. and this cluelessness would be even worse if it was after more intense/rough/kinky sex.

i honestly think he’d freeze up for a moment and get too in his head—both types of sex would be very heavy/taxing in terms of emotions, right? and he really isn’t used to dealing with any of these, so he’d definitely start panicking, but  reader would be able to bring him outta it pretty easily. it wouldn’t take much, just a soft touch or a little whimper of his name or a lil sniffle and he’d snap back and be like well fuck i know i gotta do something, but what???

he’d be awkward with it at first, and reader would definitely have to be patient with him as he learns n gets used to all of it, but he WANTS to be there for her and he WANTS to make sure she’s okay and make her feel better ofc, because he loves her so much, so he really would be making a tremendous effort to learn how to care for her properly.

it would start with him just pulling her into his arms and hushing her, petting her hair, hugging her to his chest etc. with minimal speaking. the tender touches are already too much for him and to out of his depth, so words would take a bit of time—like he’s already anxious as hell that he isn’t doing this properly :( he’d catch on fairly quickly, though, through a lot of experimentation and trial and error!!! he’d be very committed to figuring out what works best for the reader and when to employ those tactics.

once he’s comfortable with it and used to it oooooooh boy he’d be the sweetest, most gentle thing ever 🥺 lots of reassuring words in that low, deep, soothing voice and soft caresses + tender kisses all over her body. if he had her tied up, and her wrists were bruised because of it, he’d kiss a lil bracelet of kisses around each one. if she was crying, he’d be wiping her tears away and tracing the features of her face as he tells her how good she was, how beautiful she is, etc.

bmb!dabi’s aftercare isn’t as grand as bmb!tomura’s, but it’s more personal.