#gerildim

[ozgurkaranlik]

Sınavda bir halt yapamıycam...

[sallapati]

Uyku tutmadı film izliyim dedim IT doğru bir seçim olmadı galiba

[harepare]

yok ne alaka galatasarayli degilim dedikten sonra gecenin bir bucuguna kadar maca kitlenisim

[yelkenlerforaa]

Bide boktan hayatıma özenenler var hepsinin ağzının ortasına bir tane çakacam da neyse

Benim yaşadığım hayatı yaşasaydınız dayanamazdınız

[throwmeintojapan]

dun arkadasim yanima gelip ‘tanidigim en prenses kisi sensin dun herkes story paylasirken neyse okulda mihrininkini kutlarim’ diye dusunmus 😭💗🌸✨🎀🤍

[bitigim]

dubai cikolatiniza da videolariniza da salak sacma storylerinize de sicicam artik midem bulandi amk artik yeto

[nedenyaptin]

Ya aminakoyim niye kimse ne istediğini bilmiyo?? ben mesela ciddi iliski isteyen bi insan değilim en azindan hayatımın su doneminde iliskiye ayıracak bi mentalim ve vaktim yok?!?!? ona göre davranmıyorum BAZİ EMBESİLLER konusuo konusuo gelecekle ilgili planlar yapio sonra ben istemiyorum diyo AMKK bastan söyle o zaman???

[otuzsekizinciparalel]

şaka maka davetiye geldi, ilk defa yakın arkadaşım evleniyor NE GİYCEM BEN

[filyiyenzurafa]

Arkadaslar bana asık olan varsa simdi konussun yoksa uyuyorum haberiniz olsun

[incekizlaranatolianrocksever]

günyadinn istedigimiz saatte uyandik sükür insallah geri uyumaya ikna etmem kendimi skzjapsalzjaodja

[aykoza]

yarın teknolojinin t sini bile bilmeyerek sisteme cevap kağıdımı yüklemem gerekiyormuş

ALLAH SEN BÜYÜKSÜN

[sarjimaz]

Resmen sıra bizde

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Blog Post #3 — Find Your Cool Series

Title: The True Cost of Living Someone Else’s Life

You can climb the ladder of success and still feel like a stranger in your own story.

We’ve seen it firsthand — executives with seven-figure salaries, recognition, global roles — and yet a sinking feeling they can’t explain. They’ve played by the rules. They’ve done what they were “supposed” to do. But deep down, there’s a quiet ache: This isn’t mine.

In our innovation leadership work, we constantly asked teams, “Whose need are you solving for?” When we mapped customers' journeys or redesigned care pathways, the mistake most systems made was building solutions for the process, not the person.

The same happens in life.

You build your schedule to meet expectations. You define success by your LinkedIn headline. You pursue goals that were handed to you, not chosen by you.

And then you wake up one day exhausted — not from the climb, but from chasing a summit that was never meant for you.

That’s the true cost of living someone else’s life.

What It Looked Like in Real Life

I remember leading a corporate turnaround where, from the outside, everything looked like a textbook success. Revenue was climbing. Strategy was sharp. But during a workshop, one of the directors quietly admitted: “I don’t know why I’m doing this anymore.”

We’d all been there. We were experts at delivering business results. But somewhere along the way, we had stopped delivering meaning to ourselves.

That moment became a turning point — not just in the business, but in how we led from then on.

It reminded us of a truth we now build into all our coaching and innovation work:

You can’t build a meaningful life from someone else’s blueprint.

Cool Exercise: Two Lists

Grab a blank page. Draw a line down the middle.

On the left side, write: “Things I’m doing because I should”

On the right side, write: “Things I want to do”

Now — no judgment. Just notice.

Circle one thing on the want list that’s been ignored. Cross out one should that no longer serves you.

And then act. Not dramatically — just deliberately.

Because cool doesn’t come from rebellion. It comes from realignment.

Innovation Insight: Stop Solving for Approval

In every transformation initiative, we started by clarifying the end-user’s true need. Not what the system wanted them to care about. What actually mattered to them.

You need to do the same with your life. Stop solving for applause. Start solving for alignment.

Ask:

What does my future self actually care about?

What parts of my story feel heavy — not because they’re hard, but because they’re not mine?

That’s how you begin to reclaim your cool.

Quote to Reflect On

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” — Oscar Wilde

Final Thought

You didn’t come here to check boxes. You came here to build a life that feels right in your bones — not just looks good on your résumé.

It takes courage to release the expectations of others. But the real risk isn’t failing to meet someone else’s vision — it’s never meeting your own.

This is your blueprint now. Let’s build it.

Source: Blog Post #3 — Find Your Cool Series

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[heavendback]

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