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weaponized incompetence: purposefully doing a task as badly as possible so you won't be asked to do that task again, i.e. washing new jeans with white clothes knowing fully well it will ruin the white clothes because you're sick of being asked to do the laundry
NOT weaponized incompetence: asking for help and/or clarification with doing a task, i.e. asking which clothes need to be washed separately and what settings different clothes need to be washed on
#hashtag destigmatize asking questions 2k23#PLEASE i am BEGGING you guys (i.e. the internet). needing help/guidance/clarification is OKAY#and NORMAL#but also gonna tag this with#Actually Autistic#because i cannot DESCRIBE how many times i as an autistic kid got labeled as ''defiant''#for asking questions. innocent basic questions.#and i know this isn't an uncommon experience for autistic people#weaponized incompetence
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