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#having siblings does not magically speedrun this process for you
lurking-latinist
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#I'm just so tired of posts mocking people without siblings
#I know in the grand scheme of things it doesn't mean very much
#and I know many of these posts are probably made by teenagers to whom sibling status seems much more important than it will in 10 years
#but what if we didn't make negative generalizations about people based on circumstances outside their control at *all*?
#sure your upbringing affects your personality in some ways!
#but maturing is a process of adjustment and of learning to be more considerate of others for EVERYONE
#having siblings does not magically speedrun this process for you
#just. next time you see a post about how only children entirely miss some essential aspect of human development
#stop and think about people with no siblings that you know
#which - if you know me - includes me
#stop and think about how you would feel if someone made a post like that about a group to which you belong
#stop and think about whether you really think people develop fundamental personality flaws based on whether their parents have other kids
#stop and think about how much some of us WANTED to have siblings and didn't
#how thrilled we were when we got to spend time with a big family or sleep over at a friend's
#how much it means when we're able to say to a friend 'you're like the sister/brother I never had'
#(one of the 'sisters I never had' is my college roommate btw)
#(so I can't have been THAT bad of a roommate)
#stop and think and then decide if that's the attitude toward other people that you want your blog to embody
#and if this tag rant has made you think 'wow! only children can't take a joke!'
#I promise you that's just me. there are plenty of others that can
#I also want to add that this is not directed at anyone in particular.
#there are many such posts I've seen and I don't think I know the OPs of any of them
#this is just a general reflection on how that whole genre of post makes me feell
#*feel
#eta: and to be clear there's good-natured joking and there's mean-spirited mockery and I'm not always great at telling the difference
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