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genderqueersammy · 4 months

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The most heartbreaking thing is seeing how Dean’s written to be a really fucking messy parentified child (because ofc no child can be a proper parent to another child) who tries and wants to do Sam good and yet fails and yet still loves and cares for Sam so deeply, and then finding out that the fandom wants him to be the same boring eldest child as a perfect parent troupe we’ve seen a hundred times

#you…. don’t want him to traumatise sam? you…. don’t want him to be really fucking awful at it at times?#you just want to pretend that he’s absolutely perfect at being a parent?#you don’t want his idolisation of john to lead to him adopting some of john’s worst traits?#damn…… get better soon #‘child should never have been put in parent role. yes they did so well in that role and were a better parent than anyone else’ UGH #coming out as a hater of the parentified eldest child who is a perfect parent troupe #saying this as an oldest child of four who did essentially act like a third parent #i love when eldest siblings are messy and imperfect and dislikabe #supernatural #sam winchester #dean winchester #this is not dean critical he is so fucking hot to me when he’s objectively awful and nobody is sugarcoating it #half asleep idk if this post is coherent #might delete later idk #this also doesn’t mean he was just…. always awful ofc idk why people think people exist in extremes

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