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nihiltism · 5 months

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realtalk you guys probably dont need to know about but i know like zero weirdromantic people in real life, i think my cuddlebuddy might still be in love with me but also i dont think i mind at all. my default un-filtered way of showing affection to close friends Is near impossible to differentiate from romantic affection and i dont mind being treated with affection that is probably romantic as long as the other party doesn't expect romantic love or exclusivity from me, or lead anybody outside of us to make assumptions on our relationship. and like. i doubt they care since what i do is so close to romantic anyway. its not really leading anybody on if we've talked about it

#i kind of enjoy the feeling of having a friend be in love with me if they dont expect anything of me about it honestly #realistically this person is a Very close friend i would not have any qualms with more cuddles or kissing them or #hell even The Other Stuff Couples Do (demon in my brain saying to not say it openly) if they wanted #but i am not attracted to them and i have told them as much and it seems fine #so i guess the thing is more 'how do i ask this person if i can kiss them and whatever but like platonically though'#vee shut up #idk i love incredibly abnormal friendships everybody should have more incredibly abnormal friendships #also the worst that could come out of this is me falling for them which honestly would not be a problem #it all works out i think #i am also just like #incredibly touch starved so this isnt just a 'if they want to treat me like this they can'#i do want to initiate but not in a romantic context which is my main hangup honestly #im still doing pretty good though im marginally winning at the fuck amatonormativity game

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