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koszmarnybudyn · 2 months
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So this song fits them so very well right?
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da-proti-toku-grem · 12 days
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why can't anyone understand that everyone is different and not everyone likes the same things and that it's completely okay AND normal for someone not to like going out and preferring to stay at home :/
#honestly i understand that my parents care about me and they don't want me to be feeling bad#and that they ask me bc they just want to make sure i'm okay#but i've explained to them what i feel like and they just don't get and i get mad but i akso know it's not their fault and just... oughhhhh#like yeah i have a weird kind of social anxiety according to my therapist and even she doesn't know exactly how to help me yet#but there are just so many reasons behind why i don't like going out and it's not just bc it gives me anxiety#or why those situations give me anxiety in the forst place#1. i'm just a very introverted person that doesn't like going out#2. crowded places/closed spaces/places where there's not enough ventilation/loud places (be it people talking or just music) overwhelme me#3. all said in 2 + flashing lights give me huge migraines that can linger for over 3 days#4. i am very much a night owl and i'm forced to live in a society where that isn't fucking acceptable apparently and i'm called lazy for -#- not being productive in the morning when the only reason behind it is that i am a lot more productive at night#but no one ket's me do that bc 'why are you doing stuff when you're supposed to be asleep?'#i have been the same since i was little. literally nothing has changed#and people where always like 'oh she's just shy'#but idk wtf changed#maybe it was that i became and 'adult' or maybe the fact that i started therapy and they told my parents that i have social anxiety. idk#but suddenly every single person in my family is worried about it and they're genuinely making me feel like there's smth wrong about me#i mean. i have my problems i'm not gonna go telling you that i'm perfect bc i'm pretty much not#but is there really smth that wrong with me that i need to fix#or is society just a bitch that doesn't understand that there's different kinds of people and everyone is different & IT'S COMPLETELY OKAY#have they ever thought about the fact that maybe these situations cause me anxiety bc i've been forced all my life to do them#even if i don't like them#instead of thinking that i don't like them BC they cause me anxiety??#i mean. i know i have to go out more and that there's tons of things i can do ofc#but you can't just force me to do things i don't want to and put on a good face while doing it *every.fucking.day*#aaaaand i could add a lot more things but i'm once again reaching the tag limit so i shoukd just shut up#it's just driving me crazy bc i know they're trying to help but it really is not helping at all.............#ranting
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thevikingwoman · 4 years
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Author Interview
Tagged by @princessvicky01​ and @galadrieljones​, thank you!
Name: thevikingwoman on tumblr, Viking_woman on AO3. Call me Viking!
Fandoms: Dragon Age, Uprooted (Naomi Novik).
Where You Post: tumblr and AO3
Most Popular One-Shot: On tumbr I think it’s Alone (a Solas characterization piece), on AO3 it’s Home (an Agnieszka/Sarkan story). Interestingly, Home has a lot of tumblr hits too, an Alone got almost no attention on AO3. I always find these differences curious. 
Most Popular Multi-Chapter Story: Temporal Arrangements (Solavellan time travel fix-it story). I’m so humbled by all the kudos and comments on this one. 
Favorite Story You Wrote: Ahh. This is so difficult. I love a lot of the stories I wrote. Today I really like Tea, for fluff. I really enjoy Home too, I’m really proud of the way I sensory and magic descriptions? For smut I still like Lanterns a lot. In general I love my shorter stories better than my longer ones. I feel much more comfortable in the immediate sensory intimacy of short stories. 
Story You Were Nervous to Post: Hmmm, probably Temerity, as it is very smutty, and skirts the edge of dub-con in some ways (non-negotiated d/s scenes). I’m still sometimes surprised I actually wrote and posted it... (thanks @ket-mofo​!!). I was also quite nervous about Temporal Arrangements, as it’s the only story I’ve written which attempts an actual plot and story arc, and I’m still not sure it worked? 
How You Choose Your Titles: I find titles extremely difficult. I usually try to find a word I use in the story, or is a central theme. Sometimes the title try to add to the theme. And sometimes I struggle. I used a word of the day website to find the word temerity :P. 
Complete: Lots of short pieces, and my chapter fics Ar Lath Ma (which is really also a short piece), Temerity and Temporal Arrangements. 
Incomplete: I don’t have any posted WIPs. I have some loosely connected drabbles over a theme where I want to go through some scenes in Inquisition, but they’re not really a chaptered story. I have bunches and bunches of unfinished prompt replies and other short pieces which I may or may not ever finish. 
Do You Outline?: Not really. For my short pieces I usually have an idea of the end when I start - I need to know the point I’m making. Sometimes I don’t though and just write. For Temporal Arrangements I noted down the major story points I wanted to cover, and where I wanted to go, though I was just a few lines per chapter. I had some key scenes I had more fleshed out, but not all.  For my Professor Lavellan stories, I do have an idea of future pieces and a plot of sort, though I’m not sure. 
Coming Soon/Not Yet Started: I have no idea. Hopefully something. I feel creatively slow right now. I tried to write some AU for an August AU challenge but I didn’t really get inspired yet. I have half a smut story I really should finish... 
Do You Accept Prompts?:Yes, but I cannot promise when and if I fill them. I have prompts from.... 2017? in my inbox? 
Upcoming Story You Are Most Excited to Write: I think my issue is.... nothing? I think I’m the MOST excited for the potential fix-it fic I’m writing after DA4 (I’m highly doubtful there will be nothing to fix lolol). I think I’m also excited to write a bit on my Professor Lavellan story, I think I should just do it (but I have a problem with my turning point plot, and I don’t know what I want to do about it)
tags for @ma-sulevin​ @buttsonthebeach​ @ket-mofo​ @roguelioness​ @ladydracarysao3​ @ladylike-foxes​ @redinkofshame​ @bearly-tolerable​
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