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digenerate-trash · 11 months

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Hey sluts! Just a reminder that if you're gonna do some hard-core shit (or any sexual activity let's be real) and the person you're about to have sex with tells you that "you don't need a safeword"

Don't have sex with them. Safewords are a safety net. Ment to make sure you can withdraw consent at any time

If they refuse to let you have one they do not respect you or your potential limits!! Even if you were going to have the most vanilla missionary 10 second sex always have a safeword!!! You never know what could happen!!

#other red flags like this are:#if your dom/top refuses to have their own safeword.#if they dont know how to choke you properly.#if theyve never done a scene before and insists on the hardest of core shit right away with no warm up #if your sub bottom refuses to hear you out on your hard limits #if your partner refuses to check in on you durining.#if your partner refuses to participate in aftercare. this goes for both subs and doms. refusing aftercare is a red flag it is essental #remeber respect and consent are what make sex fun.#trash kink #PSA

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