#incidentaally i told my mom the same when she wanted to start dating her best friend | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

wind-becomes-lightning · 2 years

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I have an on-off crush on my best friend and have had so for at least 6-ish years now. Currently it's back on. :(

:C sucks man, I'm sorry I'm the worst person to talk to about this because im veryyyyyy firm believer of "dont date your best friends" so my advice to you would be DONT, just dont! and that I'm very sorry its back on that sucks.

#ask things #this belief also seeps into my ships #cant ship kk g or ino saku or... REDACTED because i think friends should stay friends #i mean i can sort of do it in AUs for obkk for example or whatever but like if i watch a show #and see two characters be reeeeeeaaaaaaally close friends #i just... dont really #kimi ni todoke is the only notable exception #but thats because chizuru is me and im chizuru and i liked her and ryu before i tried dating my own best friend #and failed miserably #just... that tiktok soudn that goes #dont fuck your coworkers seriously dont fuck your coworkers #but with best friends yes thank you #if it doesnt work out you will lose something much more important #and yeah in fiction nobody ever discusses it not working out #but in real life it very much can #anyway op im sorry i hope you get over it #or uh... not? if you want to date your bf very badly uh you dont have to listen to me im not your mom #incidentaally i told my mom the same when she wanted to start dating her best friend #i said #DONT DO IT ITS A TRAP #but she did and theyve been dating for what.. 5 years?#so like what do i know i guess

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