#is part (even if it’s a tiny part) of the large scale disrespect aduse and disenfranchisement of children | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

francisforever2014 · 6 months

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“i hate children but—“ is honestly such an annoying fucking way to start a sentence . even if it’s saying that you’re still kind to them etc etc it’s still so weird to me that people constantly have to express their hatred for a group of people that have no control over being “annoying” or whatever makes people “HATE” them. like that is just such an unnecessarily strong word to use against the most helpless people among us imo. you can dislike children you can think they’re a bit much sometimes you can not want to be around them bc they stress you out . its good for people to know their limits so they’re not in situations where their stress would harm children !!but to say you hate them is so??? like obnoxious to me idk. also maybe it’s just bc i was an observant kid and am around observant kids but i feel like if you profess that you hate children constantly but “act nice” around they probably feel that hate . bc children know when they’re not wanted and guess what . it fucks them up like why would you add to that even minutely. maybe work on not hating vulnerable small beings instead of being so proud of it . it’s just unnecessary and annoying to me like okay . good for you ig

#this is kinda words recreationally like i don’t necessarily think it’s That Serious all the time #but i do think that little things add up #and the fact that it’s so acceptable to profess HATRED for an entire vulnerable group of people #is part (even if it’s a tiny part) of the large scale disrespect aduse and disenfranchisement of children #basically i think it’s over dramatic to say at best and actively harmful at worst #but idk #i just hate when there’s a post like about x topic . and so many people have to add on their little caveats and adjustments . like who care #s #that’s not really the point and the fact that you can’t see a post about literally just being nice to children without being like #me personally i HATE THEM is so 😭😭#maybe have a little kid come up and hug you and show you a picture they drew for you and maybe you’ll chill a little….#speaking as somebody who doesn’t want children and knows my limits and sets clear boundaries with the children in my life to avoid them #being negatively affected by any stress/overstimulation i feel #it’s weird TO ME how often this seems to be stretched to generalized hatred

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