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dandyshucks · 4 months

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i still feel a lot of weird shame about being a man-liker now (i used to not be into men as a general rule for YEARSSS because i'd had one too many bad exps with them in a variety of ways) because I worry it somehow makes me "not queer enough" or smth dsjfkl but . also ... I think the way I like men is in a very gay way. like there is nothing cishet about the way I like men fdsjkl and I'm not sure HOW that is, but the friends I've spoken to about this agree that the way i like men is in a distinctly gay way LFSDHFJKL

#I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW. like what exactly differentiates it. but apparently it is very true bc ppl have told me without prompting LMAO #i am ... bisexual? idk i dont put a label on my sexuality at all. i barely put a label on my gender fdsjkl i only do it when i have to #i am aspec in some way and i like ppl regardless of gender so . shrug.#it just happens that i am apparently in my man-enjoyer era right now FHDSJKL #also mandatory disclaimer: there is nothing wrong w being cishet or het or whatever fsdjkl this shame i experience is strange and personal #it is not smth anybody SHOULD experience fsdjkl #im trying to work thru it and move past it but woof dsfjkl it rly bites me sometimes #vent //#sort of LOL #dandy.cmd

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