#its not my fault I'm asexual and neurodivergent

[aro-acebillcipher]

I'm being bullied and harassed by my friend

[andiv3r]

Heeey, I've been here a while and decided a pinned post was in order, so, here it is!

My name's Andiver, but a lot of people just call me Andy because that's less confusing. My pronouns are he/him. I won't die if you use they/them or xe/xem or it/its for me, I just don't prefer those. I will, however, die if you use she/her for me. Just don't. Any others are, y'know. Technically okay?

On a scale from 10-0 (10 being "yes! these!" and 0 being "I will punch you"), he/him is a 10, they/xe/it are all 5s, anything else (assuming non-feminine-aligned) is a 2, and she/her is absolute 0.

Adding into the post later, I'm 16, I probably should have said before now, I just really don't like tossing my age out there because even though it's generally been fine, it feels strange. I'm neurodivergent and have never acted my age or connected with people my age very well aside from other neurodivergent people, so others online have a tendency to get weirded out when I tell them how old I am, whether for assuming I was much older or much younger than I actually am. Also, I don't care about the age of the people interacting with me but please block me or let me know if you're not comfortable with my interacting with you, I will stop.

I'm aroace, the kind that's not comfortable being associated with overly-sexual stuff, but I don't mind reading or looking at art if it's only implied! Likely won't reblog things like that here or on my alt account, @andiv3r-gomens-reblogs though. So, y'know. I hold the asexual Aziracrow headcanon (which I see as essentially canon) very dearly, please don't try to tell me it's not valid or that I can't think of them that way or that their relationship is "incomplete" that way, I will likely block you.

Lastly, to my mutuals: I like to be tagged, PLEASE tag me in things!! If you think I'd wanna be, even if you're like "mmh he may not", just do it, it's fine. If in the past I haven't responded / interacted when you tagged me, it's because I felt like you were only doing it out of courtesy (anxiety brain tells me some wack stuff, never your fault). I think all of you are mega cool and if you're doing a post chain that involves tagging a mutual, or if you find a cool post you think I may wanna see, or if you just see something you know I could comment on, PLEASE never be afraid to tag me, I'm always happy to join, I swear.