#iwasthatguy

[williamkurk]

I can't even begin to express the amount of PTSD I felt watching this video!! This is as accurate to a toxic relationship as it gets, and I've been 'that' dude on too many days. Handcuffed by the gynocentric entitlements of an emotional tirade of a woman, and having to just 'deal with it'...just to be lured back into the web of the black widow once more. The moment I started to outline and assess my own values from within, I no longer had to put up with being treated as a 'tool' or 'emotional punching bag'. I didn't have to spaz out or react to the madness; I just simply walked away, or kept my distance. This dude is being treated like a sad puppy that pooped on the carpet, chewed up her shoes, and knocked over her collection of Pineapple Ciroc! I will never in my existence return to this type of situation, and in order for me to overcome it, I had to step completely away from all things/people/places associated with it, as well as refuse any line of communication with the problem. I had my own toxic behaviors I had to absolve, but I realized that those behaviors were acts of rebellion towards the situation I could not control. Once I got away, those feelings, thoughts, and actions went completely away. The energy you entertain has a certain impact on how we conduct ourselves. This could certainly be a vice-versa scenario also (as far as genders), but I only speak from my own perspective as a male who has dealt with this...and seen dudes treated like this, in public, far too often. If you're a woman who feels compelled to do this, or a dude who feels he has to 'take this', just leave. The end. #soapbox #perspective #wkthoughts #society #america #toxic #relationship #drama #august #2018 #nah #skipthat #wke #wklegacy #swerve #🙀 #beentheredonethat #iwasthatguy #nomas #walkaway #incompatible #mgtow #facepalm #stopthemadness #ptsd https://www.instagram.com/p/Bm1SzuGldTZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1v7ky3vwt2o1b

[bicycle-punk]

Do you ever just say something, and it sounds so much worse then you meant?